I just want to ask us nairalanders this question because I see it as something that is becoming the other of the daaday among the youths and we simply use it as a cover up for our lack of self control and indiscipline .must u and I go up and down sleeping with different men and women before we can actually know who we are destined to spend the rest of our life with.why are we deceiving and are being decdiving by this dangerous phenomena. how many courses did you sample before finally deciding of the one that best suits you and how many of our fathers and fore fathers did you hear take this path that leads to failure and frustration in marriages.a stitch in time saves nine

Oh boy you must sample o!
As soon as you have the approval of her parents to marry her.

when u already have approval,I thought you sample before u make choices.if u have approval that means you have already made your choice and sampling is medicine after death

Brandnew2:
Oh boy you must sample o!
As soon as you have the approval of her parents to marry her.

churchkilo:
when u already have approval,I thought you sample before u make choices.if u have approval that means you have already made your choice and sampling is medicine after death

Approval doesn't mean marriage exactly. Approval means they agree she dates you.

You need such approval in case of an exigency.

Sa sa
Sample ur waist



U don't have to sample if you have never tasted it
But when you a pro and decide to lay low, and then its time to get back to the game and you get yourself a dying half man/woman, tell me if you won't cheat

and can u prove to me that people who sampled before getting married don't cheat,sampling is more like an evil seed u reap thereof it's fruit of cheating later in ur marriage cos u will never he satisfied with one woman

You are getting it twisted. When we say "sample" it's not like you said "sampling up and down" but when you are in a relationship, sex shouldn't be the basis. You develop friendship and when the time for sex/sampling comes, it's effortless. You just do it because you find happiness around the person.
I cannot marry a man I didn't sleep with before marriage. A good majority of men today have problems with their sex organs, I cannot mortgage my future, my urge for a man who can't make me sweat. I will have to sample. And if it turns out that particular relationship didn't end up in marriage, I will try another and when the time is right, I will sample again.

Ain't 'sampling'. And won't marry one that has been 'sampled'.

Tear rubber all the way!!!

Gboliwe:
You are getting it twisted. When we say "sample" it's not like you said "sampling up and down" but when you are in a relationship, sex shouldn't be the basis. You develop friendship and when the time for sex/sampling comes, it's effortless. You just do it because you find happiness around the person.
I cannot marry a man I didn't sleep with before marriage. A good majority of men today have problems with their sex organs, I cannot mortgage my future, my urge for a man who can't make me sweat. I will have to sample. And if it turns out that particular relationship didn't end up in marriage, I will try another and when the time is right, I will sample again.

my kind of gal, tell it as it is

jmoore:
Ain't 'sampling'. And won't marry one that has been 'sampled'.

Tear rubber all the way!!!

I pity you.

chipmunkey:

I pity you.

I am allergic to pity. Keep it for yourself. You need the pity.

Gboliwe:
You are getting it twisted. When we say "sample" it's not like you said "sampling up and down" but when you are in a relationship, sex shouldn't be the basis. You develop friendship and when the time for sex/sampling comes, it's effortless. You just do it because you find happiness around the person.
I cannot marry a man I didn't sleep with before marriage. A good majority of men today have problems with their sex organs, I cannot mortgage my future, my urge for a man who can't make me sweat. I will have to sample. And if it turns out that particular relationship didn't end up in marriage, I will try another and when the time is right, I will sample again.

marriage isn't all about sex,though sex is necessary to ensure bonding but the main reason for marriage is for companionship and this u can outrightly determine by establishing a healthy healthy relationship.

churchkilo:
marriage isn't all about sex,though sex is necessary to ensure bonding but the main reason for marriage is for companionship and this u can outrightly determine by establishing a healthy healthy relationship.

Which kind yeye preaching is this one na? What did I say to suggest that marriage is all about sex?

Personally, I will not, can not marry a man who can't satisfy my sexual needs. And how would I know if he can if I don't "sample" him before the "I do" day?

Gboliwe:

Which kind yeye preaching is this one na? What did I say to suggest that marriage is all about sex?
Personally, I will not, can not marry a man who can't satisfy my sexual needs. And how would I know if he can if I don't "sample" him before the "I do" day?

so u go about looking for a guy u can perform,how did he get to know to perform if not by sampling from one end of the world to another and u end up being used and dumped,what a reasoning

churchkilo:
so u go about looking for a guy u can perform,how did he get to know to perform if not by sampling from one end of the world to another and u end up being used and dumped,what a reasoning

I have never gone about looking for a guy. I always stay on my own when they come. And no, I have never been dumped the way you understand being dumped. If a relationship doesn't work out, we both move on. Sex was never the foundation.

and then every man keeps wondering how many you sampled before him

Put am here... E don done, put am here, e don done. At the long run, u marry the wrong person

Amuga:
Put am here... E don done, put am here, e don done. At the long run, u marry the wrong person

not funny at all

Yadoctora:
and then every man keeps wondering how many you sampled before him

and how many u are still going to sample after him