agbajesaid:
I thought as much too. but this lady is the nicest lady I've ever met. even if I curse her, embarrass her to leave me alone, she would come back begging. and she gains nothing from me.

datz d point!!! Dey don't leave dia victims alone no matter d level of embarrassment.........em talkin 4rm experience

Sex before marriage(fornication) or outside wedlock(adultery) is manned by the MARINE KINGDOM. A queen of the coast confessed it to me.
I shall share HOW later.

had sex twice daily for 3 years?..... bro, u deserve a medal and recognition....
u need help?... ok... first delete d thoughts of "oh lord, pls give me one more chance!" each time a bootilious lady pass by u...
trust me 70% percent of ur prob ll b solved if u can get rid of d above... tnk me later....

ayusco85:


How could u possible be having sex twice a day for 3yrs.

This must be either "signs of end time" or "story for the gods".

Lol

So because U had sex with her multiple times, that's the reason why ur life is getting miserable?
Pls ask yourself this question? What about the uncountable singles that are still having sex and yet are still rising financially and in all areas of their life.
U better get your perspective together, instead of stagnating in life, Y don't U think of ways to better urself and do it; maybe new job, travel to a new location, keep different company...
Nigerians are just too myopic n religious its outstanding, (that's how one ekiti babe said that whoever U have sex with U share your spirit with them, their problems will now be yours)
Me I am banging babes and I am still making it, My mentality is too complex for such petty ignorance

send ur whatsapp number and let talk.

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till
today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

What if the problem start with the first prostitute you slept with you never can tell why not go for a deliverance in a bible beliving church instead of apotioning blame

@OP
How exactly do you want to prosper when you are addicted to sex and gambling?

agbajesaid:
I see betting as an investment and not gambling. If you wanna secure your money, show interest and i will give you the way. When i am convinced enough you are willing to go for it, i will charge you based on our interaction. But i guarantee you, you will fall in love wit it and it can turn you to a millionaire within short time depending on how much you wish to invest

jaybee3:
@OP
How exactly do you want to prosper when you are addicted to sex and gambling?

I'm not a chronic gambler and the gamble I do leaves zero space for loss so it does not affect me.

Guy go for deliverance !!!!

christaddicted:
Sex before marriage(fornication) or outside wedlock(adultery) is manned by the MARINE KINGDOM. A queen of the coast confessed it to me.
I shall share HOW later.

Plz share

mehn!!! If d fact that u keep f*vcking the same gal for 3 years is even half true, then explains it all. U jst need to break away frm dis gal. U r obsessed wit dis gal n her beauty and addicted to her punany. U r dedicating to whole of ur being and ur energy (negative) to her. Definitely other areas of ur life will suffer for it. Break away from her and start rearranging ur life

UjSizzle:

God bless you.
I don't know why people like to play the name-shame-blame game. What will it cost man to accept that his problem is as a result of his own actions? And he's looking for deliverance. Truth will deliver him.

thanks for ur advice but 1) I didn't accuse the girl directly, i was asking if it was the girl or the sex. of course its not by force I have sex with her and she didn't ask me out but what I'm saying is after discovering I was going down the drain, I had to back out but she would not let go. I didn't break up with her, we are still together. But sex is like food for her, and its affecting me

Why do we nigerians blame someone for every problem dey av, but u were enjoying her and u never resist her wen she opens but after u don pour wetin u wan pour , u go com see the poor gal as a destiny destroyer, ur problem might be from else where, she might even be the reason why u will succeed in life and enemies decide to stop u guy by all means, I'm not a priest and I even need a good real priest myself , but pray and never allow pple to giv u the wrong impression abt anyone, life is a warzone and we all av one or two to face, may God see us through

imagine what d OP is saying "Gambling is an Investment" and he fraud ppl through it. Mumu , I doubt ur .....

AYEEEE OOO;OGO E TI SONU GO FOR 70DAYS FASTING

agbajesaid:
thanks bro but honestly, I've being doing that for more than a year now, asking for forgiveness and praying fervently but there is no difference. its almost talking my sanity

The economy is generally bad so don't jump to conclusions till the economy of the country improves and ur quality of life doesn't improve. Don't tie urself up with negativity of spiritual misconceptions. Just believe in urself and work hard and smart.

agbajesaid

Jk come see your brother ooo... Don't worry at all eh... As soon as Agbaje becomes governor, your problems are over.. Don't forget me ooo... #Agbaje's aid@your moniker.

There are a lot of people who waste their time unproductively everyday on Nairaland,watching porn,in beer parlors,playing video games etc. No one is recommending deliverance for these ne'er do wells but once sex is involved everyone gets all righteous and holy playing Sanctimonious Samson. We hear how devils enter you during sex.Well devils will enter you and ruin your life if you spend all day "gisting",watching Nollywood, on Nairaland etc while the guy who plants in season will harvest in season whether he goes to church or Okija shrine. You do not pass JAMB by nigh vigils

Let us examine La Liga or the premiership ,Who will win it? The most godly team? The team that sins the least? Life is NO DIFFERENT. yes there is some "LUCK" with the undeserved red card ,the disallowed goal etc but Queens Park Rangers will not win the Premiership If They make Adeboye their manager.It will NOT happen! There is no miraculous breakthrough on its way from heaven.

Xynthialuvy:
Lol

Lol. Its true na. The girl punany go turn well na....... Due to excessive _______________

Fit2Rule:

Jk come see your brother ooo... Don't worry at all eh... As soon as Agbaje becomes governor, your problems are over.. Don't forget me ooo... #Agbaje's aid@your moniker.

JK can't solve my problem, na only God and myself and can help

Well, I took time to go through every comment because I'm in your shoes too. In my case, however, I honestly do not like the sex, she does. And, I deeply love her and I was the one that disvirgined her at her request over time. I've dated her now for four years. My life is still 'intact,' sort of....but anytime she cohabits with me, which has happened many times over a period of 2 years, we fight. Guy, I mean, we fight. Neighbours intervene, but she'll come back begging....even on the street!
Last month, we had another violent one with her, in the middle of the night, neighbours came and she had to leave. Now, she's begging to return again and I said No. I'm enjoying real deep peace and prosperity now for a month.
Yesterday, she called to see me and I went. I arranged the meeting at a restaurant. I know her coming over might weaken my resolve to keep her at arm's length.
But you see, I love her. And, I'll love her till the end of time, even if I don't marry her.
On meeting her, after all the beggings, I set 3 conditions for her:
1. She can't spend the night with me under any circumstances!
2. I'll help her financially at any time if I have, but she must call me only twice a week on any two- days she decides to pick.
3. She'll start attending church regularly, and see me once a month, not in my house, but in any other place.....restaurants, parks, e.t.c.
Tor, she accepted because she loves me too. They said she has a spirit husband....we'll deal with that if I see enough discipline in her to make her a life partner. First, we must begin from somewhere.
Guy, take charge of your life. Be really disciplined. Pray. Trust God. Help that lady....in all respects. She may be possessed but she was created by God, remember that. Seek help for her too.
God'll help us!!!!

@OP, click on my username it will link you to a thread dat you can find solution, if diaris demon in dat girl that actually attacked your glory the man of God will call it/them out and tru you, you will hear evrything u wish to know, u & ur beautiful girl will b delivered if d problem is frm her, u guy can even get married after everything if u so wish to marry each other.

Guy you don pes how you go nak girl two times a day you no get pity idiot you nor nak ammmm if yo see that girl again killam ooooo she dey with your blessing ooo

THE ISSUE IS COMPLEX,
1.HAVE YOU STOPPED HAVING SÉX WITH HER
2. HAVE FORSAKEN YOUR BAD WAYS. FOR SÉX WITH SOMEONE YOU DO NOT MARRY IS LIKE DINNING WITH MRS SATAN.
3. YOU NEED TO GO FOR DELIVERANCE...LIKE MOUNTAIN OF FIRE CHURCH
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youngwarlocks:
U mean u have been f**king a girl at least 2 × 365days × 3......man, ur luck is f**king gone.

2190.

omonnakoda:
Are you suggesting that we should not plant cassava and Yam and wait on Christ? Are you suggesting we do not have surgery when advised to do so .Are yo suggesting we do not save but wait on Christ? I do not want to discuss your father out of respect. The issue here is about a young man engaged in compulsive behaviour. This is a problem that we find in China in Muslim countries,India etc and they find solutionsIt is NOTHING NEW. We do not need to introduce religion into practical problems. That is foolishness. Do you pray to Christ to change a flat tire on your Car
This is a mental health problem ,it is as simple as that. @OP do you smoke cannabis or use other drugs?

[size=15pt].....and have you bothered finding out how those in China, Muslim Countries, India, etc, who encounter these problems solve them. You make me laugh. Infact, almost all these countries you mentioned are more "spiritually" inclined than Nigeria.
You try to bring everything down to the power of the mind again, you call it mental health problem. I doubt you believe there are devils/demons and spirits that can both positively and negatively impact people's lives.
Don't become petty by your mentions above of: Are you suggesting that we should not plant cassava and Yam and wait on Christ? Are you suggesting we do not have surgery when advised to do so .Are you suggesting we do not save but wait on Christ? Christianity encourages working hard and smart and says those who don't work should not eat, and that faith without works is dead. So dont get petty with such questions as you listed.
The point here is that you need to experience, not just see to believe!
If you choose to disrespect my father, it changes nothing of the facts, but what it does is unveil your depth of ignorance.
The mind is very powerful, but inferior to the spirit. I read ur post where you mention think, think over and over and l laugh over and over. Is it not a mind that is free to think that has capacity to think. You don't realize, there are psychiatrists seeking spiritual help?
I like the way you engage your mind for problem solving, and i doubt you do as much as me. The mind is a terrible thing to waste, but even as at that, i recognise the working of the Spirit of God in me![/size]

If any man be in CHRIST he is a new creature. 3 things are happening here. 1. You need to accept JESUS CHRIST as Lord and Saviour, that's where it begins. 2. You have been living in disobedience, especially if you knew GOD b4. You must genuinely seek HIS Mercy & forgiveness in prayer, that might take time to purge you. 3. Realize the Sex drive in man is also the same as that for work. There must be a balance or one suffers. You need reorientation in your mind. And while you are at it dont forget the girl. Whether Ogbanje or not GOD loves her too.

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

the way u reason your life is not worth destroying. you simply will not get yourself enlightened with the word Of God and that is why your mindset is warped.even if she is Satan herself.is Satan not a defeated for.too much African magic is the real problem u have

pomsky:



[size=15pt].....and have you bothered finding out how those in China, Muslim Countries, India, etc, who encounter these problems solve them. You make me laugh. Infact, almost all these countries you mentioned are more "spiritually" inclined than Nigeria.
You try to bring everything down to the power of the mind again, you call it mental health problem. I doubt you believe there are devils/demons and spirits that can both positively and negatively impact people's lives.
Don't become petty by your mentions above of: Are you suggesting that we should not plant cassava and Yam and wait on Christ? Are you suggesting we do not have surgery when advised to do so .Are you suggesting we do not save but wait on Christ? Christianity encourages working hard and smart and says those who don't work should not eat, and that faith without works is dead. So dont get petty with such questions as you listed.
The point here is that you need to experience, not just see to believe!
If you choose to disrespect my father, it changes nothing of the facts, but what it does is unveil your depth of ignorance.
The mind is very powerful, but inferior to the spirit. I read ur post where you mention think, think over and over and l laugh over and over. Is it not a mind that is free to think that has capacity to think. You don't realize, there are psychiatrists seeking spiritual help?
I like the way you engage your mind for problem solving, i doubt you do as much as me. The mind is a terrible thing to waste, but even as at that, i recognise the working of the Spirit of God in me![/size]

You are not the only person on this thread. Reduce your font size if you want to be taking seriously.Obviously you believe it you are louder you are righter. Reduce your font size please

agbajesaid:
The first time I had sex was after my secondary school & it was with a prostitute. After realizing there wasn't much fun in it as exaggerated by my friends, I asked for God's forgiveness and moved on with my life.

But 2 years after, I met this pretty and well behaved lady, and I fell in love with her. She was too pretty to resist. We had sex at least twice in a day for more than 3 years because we virtually stay together. During those period, I noticed things changed negatively.

Academics, business, spiritual, moral aspect of my life crashed. And up till today, I can't do anything right. And before I met this girl, everything was fine. Please I need help. Could it be the girl that's using my fortune or its the sex that destroyed my life?

There are some things you cannot understand about the spiritual, but your destiny, luck and fortune is not lost if only you could turn to Lucifer, he will help you and grant you riches and heart desire, if only you can accept him and come into the order of life, you don't have to be afraid, you now have the option to get your life back together, if you're wise, take it and come to me. Life is too short to suffer.