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Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by AdeniyiA(m): 3:31pm On Apr 25, 2015
Most acts of immaturity are inherited, either genetically or adopted from parents
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by encryptjay(m): 3:40pm On Apr 25, 2015
Yet most of our leaders exhibit the least form of maturity.
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Josephamstrong1(m): 3:57pm On Apr 25, 2015
Nice thread @OP, buh plz such comparative adjective is use to qualify crops or beta still animals. U dn't qualify humans as MATURED instead use mature or matures..coz it's a continuous process. Human kip undergoing series of maturity till death.
Use d' past participle to qualify a crop, plant or animal next tym...OK?
Tnkz, kip d' gud work up. smiley
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Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Nickymezor(f): 3:58pm On Apr 25, 2015
Nekiss ,nids to wrk on her self...Shez jst so immature undecided cry
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by AdamsTJ(m): 3:59pm On Apr 25, 2015
Wow! Thanks for this, I really learnt a lot. God bless you for this wonderful write-up.
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by mentorandfriend(m): 4:18pm On Apr 25, 2015
Kachisbarbie:


me too.
We are not mature cry
See her mouth gringringringringrin
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by MizMyColi(f): 4:29pm On Apr 25, 2015
smiley
chipmunkey:

Another sign of immaturity. tongue
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by joliej(f): 4:45pm On Apr 25, 2015
I think i fulfill a good number of these qualities...wow i'm really growing grin
kai! OP it's not really easy facing a stormy situation with equanimity but...
I think all i need now is God to continue leading me right.
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Nobody: 5:03pm On Apr 25, 2015
I think am a little bit mature, if these are d criteria... grin grin
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Monikween(f): 5:54pm On Apr 25, 2015
Josephamstrong1:
Nice thread @OP, buh plz such comparative adjective is use to qualify crops or beta still animals. U dn't qualify humans as MATURED instead use mature or matures..coz it's a continuous process. Human kip undergoing series of maturity till death.
Use d' past participle to qualify a crop, plant or animal next tym...OK?
Tnkz, kip d' gud work up. smiley
#1luv.[size=15pt][/size]
in ur mind you've written something... you've commented nd contributed.. .
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Fastlearner(m): 5:57pm On Apr 25, 2015
MizMyColi:
sad
I still have a long way to go.
God help Us
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Tallesty1(m): 6:08pm On Apr 25, 2015
Josephamstrong1:
Nice thread @OP, buh plz such comparative adjective is use to qualify crops or beta still animals. U dn't qualify humans as MATURED instead use mature or matures..coz it's a continuous process. Human kip undergoing series of maturity till death.
Use d' past participle to qualify a crop, plant or animal next tym...OK?
Tnkz, kip d' gud work up. smiley
#1luv.[size=15pt][/size]
Noted Sir.






Thanks, I really appreciate
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Albertadenuga03: 6:16pm On Apr 25, 2015
NICE 1

Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Horlufemi(m): 6:19pm On Apr 25, 2015
A whole lot of Nairalanders like to insult people. Instead of stating your point you insult the person, their parents and generation.

I see that as immaturity.

#change
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Tonnierichy(m): 6:57pm On Apr 25, 2015
Am almost there smiley
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by AmaLearner(m): 7:51pm On Apr 25, 2015
This post has given me inspiration.. Amazing post.. Bravo.. Oshee!!..
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by AmaLearner(m): 7:52pm On Apr 25, 2015
I am battling with No. 5 and No. 8
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Nobody: 8:28pm On Apr 25, 2015
Tallesty1:
You know that feeling when you say/do something and someone tells you that you are Immature or that you should show maturity?

It is not a nice thing to hear tbh, but the truth is, if such statement annoys you then you are truly not a matured person because maturity refers to our ability to understand and manage our emotions, actions and thoughts. Maturity is what enables us to create the life we desire. A life filled with happiness and fulfilment.

Here are the things you should do to be a matured person.

1: You Should Be Approachable To achieve maturity you shall be easy to get along with and people should feel comfortable approaching you.

2. Be Humble: The hardest words in the English language to say are “I’m sorry” and “I was wrong”. Learn to say them. These words are growth words; they grow you as a person. There are times when you will be right in life, despite what others have said. Instead of rushing to say “I told you so,” realize that everyone has a different view of reality. You don’t need to gain satisfaction by gloating about an outcome. People will respect you when they see that you are willing to admit your mistakes, and when you are big enough to just let things go.

3. You Should Be Dependable: Maturity means dependability and coming through in a crisis. When you say you are going to do something, do everything in your power to make it happen. If you find out you cannot do something you said you were going to do, be sure to let the other party know why and explain alternative options. Get organized in life so that people learn that they can depend on you and know that when you say you will do something they can guarantee that what you say is golden.

4. Don't Be Judgemental: Variety makes the world a more beautiful place. Even when you disagree with people, don't pay attention to the need to criticise them. Instead, respect their right to their beliefs and correct them gently.

5. Have A calm demeanour It’s hard to be calm 100% of the time but you should endeavour to remain calm the majority of the time. Best decisions are made when the blood is calm

6. Seek Alternative Views on Issues When Necessary Knowing that the way things are done can always be improved, matured people expect you to willingly seek out the opinions and views of others. Don't feel threatened when people disagree with you. Pay attention to them and learn from them.

7. Pay Attention To Your Personal Growth: Meeting the challenges of tomorrow requires learning and development today. You should have a desire to learn and a thirst for knowledge. Learning and development activities should form a key part of your schedule.

8. Be Responsible For Your Actions: You should learn to take responsibility for your own life. You should understand that your current circumstances are a result of the decisions you have taken up to now. When something goes wrong, do not rush to blame others rather try to identify what you can do differently the next time and develop a plan to implement these changes.

9. Be Flexible: To achieve maturity, you should learn to see each situation as unique and you can adapt your style accordingly. Matured people don't run complaining when things go wrong, they are always in control of the situation.

10. Learn To Exercise Patience: It is true what they say: the best things in life often take time to come to fruition. You should be willing to pass up immediate pleasure or rewards and realize that sometimes the best solution to a problem is to go for the resolution that gives us long-term gain.

11. Have Knowledge and Vision: Knowledge to know that you will not always have the needed answers/solution to a problem and Vision so that once you identify the problem, you can visualise a solution and research the best way to implement that solution.

12. Have a Sense of Humour: You don’t have to take yourself too seriously. You should be able to enjoy a good laugh with friends and colleagues, even when you are the butt of the joke.

13. Talk Less and Do More: Don't be a talker, be a doer! So many people have good intentions but they never follow through on them. To achieve maturity you should learn not to spend your entire life thinking of all the ways you can do things and then end up doing nothing.


BRBgrin
don't know man. It sounds like too much work. What are the benefits?
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Nobody: 8:31pm On Apr 25, 2015
Horlufemi:
A whole lot of Nairalanders like to insult people. Instead of stating your point you insult the person, their parents and generation.

I see that as immaturity.

#change
my Guy, I'm telling you . . . one just did that to me. Worse, he told me not to quote him. So, I did the right thing by reporting him and having his post removed.
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by teftuzi(m): 9:18pm On Apr 25, 2015
In summary be like Jega grin
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Nobody: 6:17am On Apr 26, 2015
you dont even now the meaning of the word 'chauvinism it is not chauvnism
kennygee:


Chauvinism is a sign of immaturity.
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Unorthodox(m): 10:53am On Apr 26, 2015
MizMyColi:
sad
I still have a long way to go.
. cheesy
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Doclight(m): 2:18am On May 03, 2015
THANKS! I MUST BOOKMARK THIS! EXPLICIT!
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Josephamstrong1(m): 5:27pm On Jun 20, 2015
Monikween:
in ur mind you've written something... you've commented nd contributed.. .




:- cryjuz ping me up
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Monikween(f): 8:17pm On Jun 20, 2015
Josephamstrong1:




:- cryjuz ping me up
Because?
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Josephamstrong1(m): 9:31pm On Jun 20, 2015
Monikween:
Because?



Wnt us to talk or see in camera.
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Monikween(f): 10:15pm On Jun 20, 2015
Josephamstrong1:



Wnt us to talk or see in camera.
no be only camera... na video
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Josephamstrong1(m): 8:25am On Jun 21, 2015
Monikween:
no be only camera... na video





Hahaha...lol. A'it, Dats kul.
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Dannidom(m): 2:00pm On Jun 22, 2015
hopelink1:
u are a girl you dont needto mature
grin grin grin grin
Re: Thirteen(13) Characteristics You Need To Achieve Maturity. by Dannidom(m): 2:10pm On Jun 22, 2015
I thought that having beards, eating in a mamaput, drinking origin with your friends and chyking babes, disscussing about girls, watching pornography, capping cult slangs (even if say we neva reach) going to parties, smoking, showcasing our big muscles to impress the girls makes one matured undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided now I know better

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