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Embarassed By A Helper by olapam(f): 11:53pm On Apr 25, 2015
yeey guys believe it or not but today i really remembered dont judge a book by its cover. cut story short am married to a nigerian am fro Zimbabwe we are currently living with my inlaws our house is under construction. we live downstairs the stairs are outside. we live in peace they love me i try to do good all the time. now they hired a small girl as helper when she first arrived mum told me she would be helping me too i looked at her and felt pity that this small girl will work here. anyway that same day she looked hungry i fed her and never stopped but i dont use her as helper. when my muum is not around i just feed her. so when i dont have something like salt has finished or this or that i go to my mum. since i do.t speak yoruba i speak english with her and give her signs or show her what i need upstairs. behold today she came witha bottle of crayfish said something i dis not understand i dismissed her. my hubby came with her and bottle and asked me when i went upstairs to take mums crayfish . i say me funny i have never seen that bottle in my life and i dont remember when i last ate crayfish. lol we went to meet mum she was angry. she start to talk to my hubby in yoruba theyask her many times how the crayfish has finished she repeatedly said its me who came upstairs and took it in her presence. guys my God Jehovah is my witness i never saw that bottle before today , could it be that she saw me in her dream and thought its real but then the crayfish is left small. she has been beaten before coz of stealing food etc. she also cooks indomie wth some small kids in the family when mum is not around , i go to shop monday to frid on the day in question she said i took it in the morning chaiiii ther i God wo. she is adamant that it was me .i dont get it but one thing for sure my sympathy for her has died today. she is maybe 10years now. she said it happened on thursday how do i deal with her. just looking at her will want me to give her beating of her life
Re: Embarassed By A Helper by write2obi(m): 12:06am On Apr 26, 2015
grin ignore her she is spoilt child, she probably eat the crayfish and tot since u usually comes to borrow salt she might as well us u to save her head, she did not mean you any harm, but her ass was at stake grin
Re: Embarassed By A Helper by Codyt(m): 12:11am On Apr 26, 2015
olapam:
yeey guys believe it or not but today i really remembered dont judge a book by its cover. cut story short am married to a nigerian am fro Zimbabwe we are currently living with my inlaws our house is under construction. we live downstairs the stairs are outside. we live in peace they love me i try to do good all the time. now they hired a small girl as helper when she first arrived mum told me she would be helping me too i looked at her and felt pity that this small girl will work here. anyway that same day she looked hungry i fed her and never stopped but i dont use her as helper. when my muum is not around i just feed her. so when i dont have something like salt has finished or this or that i go to my mum. since i do.t speak yoruba i speak english with her and give her signs or show her what i need upstairs. behold today she came witha bottle of crayfish said something i dis not understand i dismissed her. my hubby came with her and bottle and asked me when i went upstairs to take mums crayfish . i say me funny i have never seen that bottle in my life and i dont remember when i last ate crayfish. lol we went to meet mum she was angry. she start to talk to my hubby in yoruba theyask her many times how the crayfish has finished she repeatedly said its me who came upstairs and took it in her presence. guys my God Jehovah is my witness i never saw that bottle before today , could it be that she saw me in her dream and thought its real but then the crayfish is left small. she has been beaten before coz of stealing food etc. she also cooks indomie wth some small kids in the family when mum is not around , i go to shop monday to frid on the day in question she said i took it in the morning chaiiii ther i God wo. she is adamant that it was me .i dont get it but one thing for sure my sympathy for her has died today. she is maybe 10years now. she said it happened on thursday how do i deal with her. just looking at her will want me to give her beating of her life
Firstly, say NO to domestic violence, since you hellbent on dealing with her. My advice is for you to tell the help not to service your house. Let her serve her master only before she begins to turn backs against one another in that house. Be careful.

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Re: Embarassed By A Helper by nembudziya(m): 6:55pm On May 13, 2015
olapam:
yeey guys believe it or not but today i really remembered dont judge a book by its cover. cut story short am married to a nigerian am fro Zimbabwe we are currently living with my inlaws our house is under construction. we live downstairs the stairs are outside. we live in peace they love me i try to do good all the time. now they hired a small girl as helper when she first arrived mum told me she would be helping me too i looked at her and felt pity that this small girl will work here. anyway that same day she looked hungry i fed her and never stopped but i dont use her as helper. when my muum is not around i just feed her. so when i dont have something like salt has finished or this or that i go to my mum. since i do.t speak yoruba i speak english with her and give her signs or show her what i need upstairs. behold today she came witha bottle of crayfish said something i dis not understand i dismissed her. my hubby came with her and bottle and asked me when i went upstairs to take mums crayfish . i say me funny i have never seen that bottle in my life and i dont remember when i last ate crayfish. lol we went to meet mum she was angry. she start to talk to my hubby in yoruba theyask her many times how the crayfish has finished she repeatedly said its me who came upstairs and took it in her presence. guys my God Jehovah is my witness i never saw that bottle before today , could it be that she saw me in her dream and thought its real but then the crayfish is left small. she has been beaten before coz of stealing food etc. she also cooks indomie wth some small kids in the family when mum is not around , i go to shop monday to frid on the day in question she said i took it in the morning chaiiii ther i God wo. she is adamant that it was me .i dont get it but one thing for sure my sympathy for her has died today. she is maybe 10years now. she said it happened on thursday how do i deal with her. just looking at her will want me to give her beating of her life
Re: Embarassed By A Helper by aynana2000: 7:46pm On May 13, 2015
Every Family must know this to save the children and stop unnessary wastage http://ayoolaashiru..com/2015/05/introducing-unilever-pureit.html
Re: Embarassed By A Helper by winetapper: 7:54pm On May 13, 2015
spare the rod and spoil the child.. Maybe she felt you couldnt hurt a fly and decided to misbehave.. But train her responsibly so when she grow she would be glad you did

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Re: Embarassed By A Helper by Mutendiwashe(f): 11:21pm On May 13, 2015
Ukasekerera benzi mangwana rinokurova.
I really dont see anything wrong with yoy dismissing her, people will always continue with misbehaving so long they know that they can get away with it. You need a helper you know you can safely leave your house with when you go out. You deserves someone trustworthy, if she mistakens your kindness for foolish then you shouldnt be carrying such a burden.

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