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Re: Frustrated by focus7: 5:57am On May 01, 2015 |
Take charge of your marriage, women are not remote control that you expect to pick up, press a button and expect a response. Sometime you just have to make your woman do things the way it should be done without hurting her in the process, with time she will come to live with the reality that you are in charge. |
Re: Frustrated by netotse(m): 4:44pm On May 01, 2015 |
Stillfire: Hey, Stilly of the hot legs Let me help you translate the italicized portion. You don't speak "man"...I do. It reads, "You did not make me feel important/needed"...simple and short. Not everyman will require a woman does those specific things, but everyman will require a woman make him feel needed/important. Don't pay too much attention to the words and end up missing the message. Disclaimer: Cheating is wrong, the dude was wrong to have cheated 1 Like |
Re: Frustrated by Nobody: 4:51pm On May 01, 2015 |
Ewuro4: My dear you have said it all The only way forward is to understand what each partner wants and try to fulfil each others needs A man was complaining about his wife being too "good". I thought it was a very strange thing to say, but when he started talking I understood better According to him ,she was too prim and proper for him. A perfectionist. She wont go to bed until everything was in their right places no matter how late. He complained that he is not allowed to touch her hair after a new hairdo and at the weekend she would jump out of bed very early to do housework and cook and cook when all he wanted was to spend some time with her after a hard week. I said maybe he wasnt helping with the housework and she was just pacing herself but he said that he did, but whatever he did wasnt good enough and she would redo all so what was the point. He said that she cooked all his meals and she didnt like eating out because she felt that it was a waste of money and didnt trust anyone elses cooking Basically he said he was finding it difficult connecting with her. He said a lot of things including calling her inflexible and the relationship boring and to be honest what he said stopped my in my tracks. I said to myself See this man complaining about an almost perfect woman, but when I thought about it, he probably knew what he was talkking about. He wanted to be married to a human and not a robot. He probably sees easy going women at work but at home he comes home to a stern principal. I must admit, I learnt some things from what he said. Affairs are wrong on so many levels as they dont solve the problem, but sometimes people are tempted due to a lack of something. Its the will power and grace that couples going through issues need to pray for to be able to resolve these thiings inhouse instead of falling into the tempation. It is well. |
Re: Frustrated by edwife(f): 6:11pm On May 01, 2015 |
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Re: Frustrated by ivyT(f): 6:24pm On May 01, 2015 |
Ewuro4: I too didnt like the end, so loved monalisa&kenneth okolie_ 1 Like |
Re: Frustrated by Ewuro4: 6:54pm On May 01, 2015 |
@Tearoses... You couldn't have said it any better. If couples can openly speak up and talk to each other about their likes and dislikes. I think the family unit will tremendously florish. The story you narrated was one hell of a choking marriage. Sudden changes in lifestyle, strict rules in the comfort of my own sanctuary, in contrast to what couples are used to can kill a spouse phsycologically The whole idea is to compliment each other. Another suitable example , was a friend that changed all the family diet if you open her fridge, all you see is nuts, goat milk, tofu , and free rage chicken No KFC/mcD/restaurant to avoid 'junk & unhealthy food' , it would be ideal if that was their usual routine but it wasn't. her soft spoken, sheltered husband that comes right back home from work at 5:30pm suddenly has to hang out with friends every night. Even, myself had to grab a bite before I visit her. It takes two really, changes without seeking her spouse's consent or input and thinks everything will be rosy in her relationship is looking for a long term trouble. I talked to her but you know how our sisters can be. |
Re: Frustrated by Ewuro4: 7:03pm On May 01, 2015 |
ivyT: Who are they? Sorry Im not familiar with these people. |
Re: Frustrated by ivyT(f): 7:47pm On May 01, 2015 |
Ewuro4: monalisa chinda&kenneth okolie_the light skinned lady who always refused her husband sex. Rukky sanda&Ramsey nouah_perfect marriage but the husband was cheating Ini edo&Alex okubo_the husband didnt want to experiment do u watch naija movies at all |
Re: Frustrated by Ewuro4: 8:17pm On May 01, 2015 |
ivyT, I watch fair amount Nigerian movies, just not acquainted with the actors names. Esp new ones. I saw 'Champagne' yesterday , lot like Demi Moore's indecent proposal. But a perfect twist to it. |
Re: Frustrated by bukatyne(f): 9:35pm On May 01, 2015 |
@OP: Gotten a lot of nice advices here Try to get through to your wife. What do you want? What does she want? And forget all the stereotyped roles you hear about. |
Re: Frustrated by ivyT(f): 9:56pm On May 01, 2015 |
Ewuro4: yea,i had to google indecentproposal to c d 'a lot like'.. U cld check out _Knocking On Heavens Door cos e make sense die** |
Re: Frustrated by Stillfire: 1:21am On May 02, 2015 |
netotse: Who is this? Lol @ I don't speak man. I not surprised though. I've always known the more needy you are the more manly Nigerian men feel. |
Re: Frustrated by lovinam: 8:43am On May 02, 2015 |
See as una just tell the story finish. Oya kontinu Ewuro4: |
Re: Frustrated by netotse(m): 8:46am On May 02, 2015 |
Stillfire: Some random guy with a long memory and a big mouth...ignore me |
Re: Frustrated by Ewuro4: 5:58pm On May 02, 2015 |
Re: Frustrated by ivyT(f): 8:46pm On May 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4:lovelorn &before 30_u shld try these too... |
Re: Frustrated by Ewuro4: 10:30pm On May 02, 2015 |
ivyT: Lovelorn : check Before 30 , not yet. Will watch later. Thanks! |
Re: Frustrated by ivyT(f): 11:09pm On May 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4:finding june,forgetting mercy,the meeting,house of gold_nd lots more m a movie person..oops! |
Re: Frustrated by ivyT(f): 11:16pm On May 02, 2015 |
ivyT: |
Re: Frustrated by ivyT(f): 11:18pm On May 02, 2015 |
ivyT:finding mercy,forgetting june_my bad |
Re: Frustrated by Ewuro4: 11:26pm On May 02, 2015 |
ivyT: Forgetting June , check Others not yet. well except 'house of gold' , the movie was dragging like molasses I mean 'get to the end already' , so I stopped watching it. Err you are a movie person, wow. 'll holla at ya when I'm done with those |
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