Dear Nairalanders,
I've been married now for close to a year. I reside in a different state and my wife stays in Lagos. I go home like once a week.
I've been thinking, I would like to give my wife a surprise even at my absence.

Please advice what I can do to surprise her and make her happy.

Waiting for your inputs.

**Modified
I would like to surprise her in her office but I dont want to go there myself.
Please what can I do?

You don't want to go yourself? Why?

bosunjohns:
Nah! dont even say anything like that. I trust my wife 100% and I've paid several unannounced visits.

Hmmm... Ure a lucky man! Buy her smthng expensive or take her to a spa or be the cook through out d day...

Nothing. Maybe because I've been there on several occasions.

AndreRose:
You don't want to go yourself? Why?

Okay. Noted. But something expensive like what? A Bugatti? Waiting for more inputs.

CountDracula:

Hmmm... Ure a lucky man! Buy her smthng expensive or take her to a spa or be the cook through out d day...

bosunjohns:
Nothing. Maybe because I've been there on several occasions.

Bosunjohns You can do home delivery. They should take it to her office. A flower will do.
Then go home,leave her a nice dinner gown and note. Don't stay at home, lodge in a hotel.
And then get to the dinner residence on time. Am sure once she sees you, her heart will go on more for you. Have a good nyt dinner.
Then go home and have a wonderful night rest. You can have great sex too. Depends.

bosunjohns:
Okay. Noted. But something expensive like what? A Bugatti? Waiting for more inputs.

A bugatti?? Nooo! She wil jus sell it and buy worlds biggest most expensive make-up kit in d world... Buy smthng more feminine... Like diamond necklace or golden earrings...

Some guys need to be mature for once!

You could order something online and have it delivered to her at work.

Likewise you may ask a friend/sibling who is available to help deliver it.

During your next visit, you can cook her lunch/dinner. Its not necessarily about how much you spend, but more about the thought behind it.

bosunjohns:
Dear Nairalanders,
I've been married now for close to a year. I reside in a different state and my wife stays in Lagos. I go home like once a week.
I've been thinking, I would like to give my wife a surprise even at my absence.

Please advice what I can do to surprise her and make her happy.

Waiting for your inputs.

**Modified
I would like to surprise her in her office but I dont want to go there myself.
Please what can I do?

I love guys like this. Shows there are still MEN on Nairaland despite what they want us to believe

You could get flowers sent to her at the office once a week. I believe rosety gardens had something like that going a few months back.

In addition to sending her gifts or flowers at the office, you could also pay a singer or violinist/guitarist to go serenade her for you at the office. Trust me she will still be blushing months after that and anytime she remembers it.

I love that you're romantic for even thinking of it.

jnrprof:
You could order something online and have it delivered to her at work.

Likewise you may ask a friend/sibling who is available to help deliver it.

During your next visit, you can cook her lunch/dinner. Its not necessarily about how much you spend, but more about the thought behind it.

Thanks so much sir. I would definitely give this a try.

cococandy:
In addition to sending her gifts or flowers at the office, you could also pay a singer or violinist/guitarist to go serenade her for you at the office. Trust me she will still be blushing months after that and anytime she remembers it.

I love that you're romantic for even thinking of it.

Thanks cococandy, but dont you think that would be expensive You could help me recommend an affordable one if you have a contact.

bosunjohns:

Thanks cococandy, but dont you think that would be expensive You could help me recommend an affordable one if you have a contact.

Sadly I don't have any contact I can recommend.

But if you shop around, I believe you will find someone affordable. He doesn't have to be R.Kelly you know? It is always the thought that counts even if the person is not a pro.
Even your church violinist/guitarist can do it if he's good with the instrument.

cococandy:
In addition to sending her gifts or flowers at the office, you could also pay a singer or violinist/guitarist to go serenade her for you at the office. Trust me she will still be blushing months after that and anytime she remembers it.

I love that you're romantic for even thinking of it.

Taking her on a special dining, outdoors,etc impress some ladies. What you listed are usually secondary to impress most women. Uh-huh! Let's go!

all4naija:
Taking her on a special dining, outdoors,etc impress some ladies. What you listed are usually secondary to impress most women. Uh-huh! Let's go!

Well I guess I'm talking from my own preference.
Besides he wants to surprise her in her office.

The romantic dinner can't take place in her office Na

cococandy:

Sadly I don't have any contact I can recommend.

But if you shop around, I believe you will find someone affordable. He doesn't have to be R.Kelly you know? It is always the thought that counts even if the person is not a pro.
Even your church violinist/guitarist can do it if he's good with the instrument.

. He made it clear that would be extremely difficult to come by. He should go for something commonly done in remarkable way, like dinning in a sushi bar while watching how the Japanese do their martial food preparation, etc.

cococandy:

Well I guess I'm talking from my own preference.
Besides he wants to surprise her in her office.

The romantic dinner can't take place in her office Na

Oh!!! I didn't read the OP. Well, flowers and singing a love song on his best voice may do the trick.

cococandy:
In addition to sending her gifts or flowers at the office, you could also pay a singer or violinist/guitarist to go serenade her for you at the office. Trust me she will still be blushing months after that and anytime she remembers it.

I love that you're romantic for even thinking of it.

Haaaa waste of money. That one na hamerikan loff o.e no rish here




He should just drop a blank shek in her office. That one is the most romantic gift ever

Send her a romantic message or text, and send her some funds.

Hello Bosunjohns, I can help you with the flowers. I've already done ao for a number of nairalanders. It'll be my pleasure to do same for you