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Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by VicMadich88(m): 9:19am On May 17, 2017 |
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State... On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return. But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful. How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 9:20am On May 17, 2017 |
I just pity for that Virtious Woman.... Truly you don't deserve her type. You deserve those SA girls with big hips that drinks mungwongoti Truth be told, you are seeing another Woman. YOu are just looking for excuses to justify your crazy thoughts 917 Likes 89 Shares |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by McBrooklyn(m): 9:22am On May 17, 2017 |
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Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by johnbuck81(m): 9:27am On May 17, 2017 |
na u fall hand... u no try at all. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 9:31am On May 17, 2017 |
Ur bored of her of being saint, isnt it? U have to tell her or even teach her to spice up ur relationship..Unless there is someone u fantasize sha... 76 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Grace87(f): 9:31am On May 17, 2017 |
VicMadich88:Bullshit, you are cheating on her...that's why you feel ths way. Geraaaraaa here man! 381 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Bashnigga(m): 9:34am On May 17, 2017 |
StephDamielola:The emboldened got me laughing Which one is mungwongoti again, na SA shekpe 228 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 9:36am On May 17, 2017 |
VicMadich88:ok. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by MrCork: 9:36am On May 17, 2017 |
VicMadich88:.. STORY...my nigggga..I beg.. if u don't wanna smash....let me smash! 37 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Suko110(m): 9:37am On May 17, 2017 |
Thinking ...................... |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 9:37am On May 17, 2017 |
Bashnigga: Yes! though i might not have spelt it correctly but i lived there for some years.... When it comes to Hips, Bro they got it... But when they get older, they suffer rheumatism due to the heavy butt load.. So to the OP, think about the pains she will put you through when she gets older and stick to your Naija Wife ok 109 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by fejeerow(f): 9:38am On May 17, 2017 |
See what I was telling a friend the other day... people don't value virgins and decent girls anymore... they want the badgirl that will give then bj, doggie style and their ass.... isn't obvious this man is seeing someonelse that is turning his head... you don't believe in divorce then what do u want us to advice you on? Do u want to murder her so you can escape her? U better bring back the love and make your wife the bad girl u want her to be but foe u alone.. don't go and make decisions that u ll regret. 257 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by smardray(m): 9:40am On May 17, 2017 |
Awon girls south africa yii bad oo 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by mekybabe1: 9:40am On May 17, 2017 |
Abeg I dey find wife, give her to me ASAP. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Lionessza(f): 9:41am On May 17, 2017 |
Long distance relationships are hard especially when you are young and in your case it's worse you live in two different corners of the continent and only see each other two times a year ? Wow. Why did you rush to Marriage when your affairs aren't in order yet, if they were and you were truly ready you would be living together now right?. I hope you didn't marry her because she has a "good character " in the community because that alone can't make a relationship survive. What has really made you fall out of love with her , did your goals or hers change ? You can't just fall out of love , or maybe you realized you never truly loved her it was infatuation or you admired that she was such a good person . 74 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by ifyan(m): 9:51am On May 17, 2017 |
Bros you sure no be wetin you c before the wedding, you no longer De c am again. Hmm this one hard 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 9:58am On May 17, 2017 |
Lionessza: Don't mind us'bali , he's probably too ashamed to admit that he's seeing someone else down South, hence the sudden change of heart. Which is unfair on both women if my suspicions are true. His life, the ball is on his court. A person shouldn't stay in a relationship out of obligation imo. I think he should just be honest, set the lady free, so she can go find a man that'll love & appreciate her. 34 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Bashnigga(m): 10:00am On May 17, 2017 |
StephDamielola:LMAO.... Very funny I hope the OP listens to ur advice . For me, I think the problem is distance.... U know the saying "out of sight, out of mind" 6 Likes |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 10:05am On May 17, 2017 |
Bashnigga: Distance is also part of the problem. Lets tell the truth, this Partners need sex and more closeness. Sex isn't only for procreation, it helps to solve problems, to ease tensions and to renew the bond between two lovers. I believe the SA girl from Kwazulu Natal have been giving him head and he is busy screaming Nakupenda..... 167 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 10:07am On May 17, 2017 |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Tuksgrad(f): 10:08am On May 17, 2017 |
Lionessza: Yes it could be distance or he met someone much more exciting and is afraid to come clean. I see y'alls hips are being blamed already 9 Likes |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by torqque7(m): 10:14am On May 17, 2017 |
StephDamielola: LOL your comments have been making me laugh..you are an interesting lady..by the way what does nakupenda mean?is that what Southafricans say when they are climaxing? 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Lionessza(f): 10:15am On May 17, 2017 |
ZarZar: Hahahaha i suspect the same but wanted him to come clean . Akaphinde agoduke lo . Yeah it's unfair worse for the one who is truly into him lol. How was the lunch d? |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 10:17am On May 17, 2017 |
torqque7: It means "I love you" And yes, when they want to climax, they scream NAKUPENDA 37 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Lionessza(f): 10:18am On May 17, 2017 |
Tuksgrad: Lol yeah. Yeah let's blame the South African hips they are the problem here 2 Likes |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by torqque7(m): 10:20am On May 17, 2017 |
fejeerow: Not true..we only want crazy girls for sex and fun but a good girl to wife..don't get it mixed up..the fact that we say good girl and Virgin doesn't mean when we marry her she would not fvck us good cos that's where they get it wrong..you should be a good girl but a freak in the sheets with your husband..the secret is knowing how to balance the two,once you do that then we will be fine and loyal to you. But a lot of good girls and Virgins tend to misbehave when married,they will be forming I don't like giving bj or I am too shy and not comfortable to explore sexually with my husband. 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by torqque7(m): 10:25am On May 17, 2017 |
StephDamielola: Hahaha..OK thanks for the lessons on South African climax ..I'll remember that when I meet a Girl from SA.. Oya I want to come and meet you so you can teach me more of the weird SA lingua ;Dil make a great student o promise lol 5 Likes |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 10:26am On May 17, 2017 |
Tuksgrad: The hips thing is just ridiculous. Most Nigerian guys here are not married to ladies with big hips. Big personality & big brain, yes, but not big hips Here's a homegirl of mine & her Nigerian husband... 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 10:26am On May 17, 2017 |
torqque7: You are welcome always... Just that our lesson hall will be at Domino Pizza Wuse, Abuja... 20 Likes |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 10:28am On May 17, 2017 |
ZarZar: Show us her Butt Please? If she has a moderate hip, then she has bogus and conspicuous Butt |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Bashnigga(m): 10:29am On May 17, 2017 |
StephDamielola:I totally agree with u on the sex ish. Hahaha, U've concluded he's seeing someone else already. U know u'd make a fine comedienne 1 Like |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 10:30am On May 17, 2017 |
StephDamielola: She has moderate butt. Wait, I'll check if I have any photos of her showing her butt |
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