1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not
wise. The home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses s*x as a weapon in the home - placing
embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers - lacks
wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of
"women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply
makes a fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through
bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should
be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that
should be the safest and cosiest place on earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean
competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage
of such equality to turn around and become the de facto
head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to
playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be
the boss of an empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes
that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman
gently wields her power and the head actually turns to
wherever the neck wants without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends'
influence and advice or even from the control of her mother
and father will have herself to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of
different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after
childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth
to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their
looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage,
people start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even
though she is 7 years younger. Her defence is that if he
truly loves her, he should love her the way she is, but when
looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and
ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go
to bed smelling of onions.... You go to bed wearing
grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with your
marriage? Love is not about looks - we know. But looks
enhances love and marriage. There is a difference between
someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured
by an accident.
Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on
looking like you were when he first saw you and began the
chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with
headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a
serious comedian!
10. If your children suddenly become more important to you
than your husband, you need prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be
pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has
no emotions, you need to be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her
husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous.
A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A
girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always
thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does
not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a
"useless man", is not careless about her looks or dressing,
always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man
sweet messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband's
girlfriend in word and in deed?

LASTLY, DO NOT INFORM ME OF YOUR QUARRELS, I
DIDN’T JOIN YOU TOGETHER, GOD DID, GO AND INFORM
HIM AND HE WILL SORT IT OUT.


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