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Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by NobleAky(m): 8:53pm On May 10, 2015
Hello dear this is what is about to happen to a female friend

She is 21yrs and was born before her late mother got married to this particular man 41. An average living man who already has 2kids with her late mother, who died of hemorrhage during her third child delivery.

After mourning her for about 1yr, the man stayed up to 2more yrs and approached the family of his late wife to ask them to find him another woman from their family who will help take care of the children at the same time play a wife role. After the family deliberations, they concluded that the young lady whom the late wife gave birth to before marriage to the man will be offered to him since other ladies in the family have been married off. This generated controversy as some argued against it saying it is a taboo for a man to raise children from a mother and daughter, while some argued in favour saying since she is not a biological daughter to the man, the marriage would hold.

Up till now she is confused on which advice to follow.
Pls your advice is needed here. I will show her this thread to read through ur comments. Thanks!

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Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by buygala(m): 8:56pm On May 10, 2015
Nice movie script smiley



Someone should please mention me when the 'Part Two' comes out smiley


* goes back to watching Jackie Chan's 'Snake in the Monkey Shadow' smiley
Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by cozy7(m): 9:00pm On May 10, 2015
Mother and daughter going into d same man? *signs of end times*

Your frd had better desist, it's not moral. By d way, what will d 2 kids of d man call her?
A. Mommy
B. Sister
C. Step Mom
D. Nanny
E. Husband snatcher....
Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by Behira(f): 9:00pm On May 10, 2015
Okai cheesy
Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by DIIGZ(m): 9:01pm On May 10, 2015
Noted meanwhile God in ur mercy.....
Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by NobleAky(m): 9:05pm On May 10, 2015
cozy7:
K
Behira:
Okai cheesy
buygala:
ok
Behira:
Okai cheesy
what is this?
Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by Nobody: 9:07pm On May 10, 2015
I so do not like this. All d elders for dat house no get sense
Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by Nobody: 9:11pm On May 10, 2015
at the end of the day, its her choice, she should do what she feels is right and ok with her.
But how would she feel humping the same man her mother did?
At age 21, isnt that a bit too heavy to be placed on her? She is still young, why would she want to carry off where her mother left? Thats like double his age oh
the reasons they presented, her what she can do even without being married to the man(excluding wifely duties oh).
But marriage to that man should not be based, no matter the sentiments, on such reasons.
Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by Behira(f): 9:17pm On May 10, 2015
NobleAky:
what is this?
Question ??
Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by Ewizard(m): 9:34pm On May 10, 2015
d Gud lord knows I've seen beta jokes on empty sheets Dan diz poo.... >smiley
Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by samuelson06(m): 10:02pm On May 10, 2015
This doesn't make sense to me. At 21, she's not a child hence she shouldn't let anybody force her into such mess. By the way, what is her own father saying? Has he also gone mad?
Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by MRBrownJ: 10:08pm On May 10, 2015
if this was remotely true:

the fact that someone would come up with such solution is NOT the problem here, its the fact that the 21yr old daughter would even contemplate it that is alarming..... what an insult to her mother!

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Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by cococandy(f): 10:16pm On May 10, 2015
Hahahahha. Nice story.

You mean she's being asked to marry her stepdad and she's confused, aka not knowing what to do, as in she's considering it, interpretable as she may be willing to sleep with her stepdad, also known as the stepdad won't mind strafing his step kid?
And no one in the family is sane enough to throw up at the idea?

Una no dey fear God with all these twisted stories?
Na wa.
Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by JoeCutie(m): 10:20pm On May 10, 2015
cococandy:
Hahahahha. Nice story.

You mean she's being asked to marry her stepdad and she's confused aka not knowing what to do as in she's considering it interpretable as she may be willing to sleep with her stepdad also known as the stepdad won't mind strafing his step kid?
And no one in the family is sane enough to throw up at the idea?

Una no dey fear God with all these twisted stories?
Na wa.
As in ehn, nawa for waec. embarassed

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Re: Help! She Is Under Pressure To Marry Her Late Mother's Husband! by Nobody: 10:47pm On May 10, 2015
grin grin grin grin iranu! In simpler language...Oga should go look for wife from another family!

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