WORDS FROM A MOTHER TO HER DAUGHTER
ABOUT TO GET MARRIED

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her
husband is not wise. The home is not a law
court.

2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the
home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans
shorts and trousers - lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and
laws of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule her
husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of
peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels
needs help. A man should be eager to run away
from office to be at home, for that should be the
safest and cosiest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not
mean competition. It simply means partnership.
Taking advantage of such equality to turn
around and become the de facto head of the
home and oppress the man is tantamount to
playing with fire. If you destroy your home,
soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that
he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets
that feeling, the woman gently wields her power
and the head actually turns to wherever the
neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from
friends' influence and advice or even from the
control of her mother and father will have
herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he
bypasses women of different shapes and sizes
to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth,
many women hide under the excuse of
childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop
bothering about their looks, shape, dressing,
etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start
wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even
though she is 7 years younger. Her defence is
that if he truly loves her, he should love her the
way she is, but when looking for a wife, he saw
people like the present YOU and ignored them
and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go
to bed smelling of onions.... You go to bed
wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why are you
playing with your marriage? Love is not about
looks - we know. But looks enhances love and
marriage. There is a difference between
someone disfiguring herself and the person
being disfigured by an accident.
Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may
be, work on looking like you were when he first
saw you and began the chase.

9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore,
down with headache or fever, "not in the
mood," you are a joker, a serious comedian!

10. If your children suddenly become more
important to you than your husband, you need
prayers.

11. If you assume that as the woman, only you
need to be pampered and fussed over while the
man is a stone that has no emotions, you need
to be pitied.

12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does
not excite her husband. Wives are usually
complacent and presumptuous. A wife must
strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A
girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving
and always thinking of ways to wow her
sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all
arguments, does not call the man a "useless
man", is not careless about her looks or
dressing, always smiles and laughs with the
man, sends the man sweet messages and calls,
etc. Are you your husband's girlfriend in word
and in deed?

LASTLY, DO NOT INFORM ME OF YOUR
QUARRELS, I DIDN’T JOIN YOU TOGETHER,
GOD DID, GO AND INFORM HIM AND HE WILL
SORT YOU OUT.

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