I'm effeminate, so what?


Growing up,i always hear people call me "woman wrapper",people told me i behaved like a girl,i was just a kid in primary school then,i don't know how a guy or girl behaves, so i was confused,shy,angry and depressed for a long time,the constant mockery in school and even in the church i used to attend.i always got and still get three basic reactions -the baffled and astonished,the indifferent and the one's that are outrightly disgusted by me.i will take my time to explain this three set of people,just patiently read on

1. The baffled and astonished; this set of people are shocked and surprised at my effeminacy, they feel amused seeing a guy who behaves more like a girl than girls, they are not irritated or angry at you,they try being your friend and having you around because of your rare and unique nature.


2.The indifferent; this set of people don't care,they feel less concerned and don't give any thought to your effeminacy,they simply move on with their lives!


3.The irritated; this set of people are disgusted by your sight,they mock you in public,bully you,call you " homo" or gay at any given chance,they will gladly kill you and feel no remorse.

This three set of people shaped who i am today,i grew up to be very strong and bold,i had series of depression,i was rejected and laughed at.i remember finishing high school in 2012, admission was taking my time and i decided to work,the guys in the interview room were laughing and asked -u go sabi work so? See as u dey behave like woman and thin join.lol,guess what?most of them didn't get the job,i did! I ended up working there for over a year,even got promoted!

Many guys refuse hanging out with you,being friends with you or even walking with you because they will be labelled gay,EVEN GAYS THEMSELVES DISCRIMINATE ON EFFEMINATE GUYS TOO! PATHETIC

Yes we are effeminate, we behave like girls, we aren't men enough,we sway our hips,swirl our eyes and hands,belly dance,twerk and so much more, but does that make us less human than you lot? Does that mean we should get mocked ? Laughed at? Embarrassed?

I have major problems with Jonathan signing the anti-gay bill because it directly incriminate and endanger we effeminate guys,the society has already labelled us gays, the law sinply back them up and give them the liberty to brutalize us and get away with it!

Yes i am effeminate,i didn't choose to be like this,i did not create myself,i did not choose to sway my hips,bat my eyelashes,draw my words knowing damn well the world we live in.

You igbos know how it felt when kunle afolayan came for yall weeks back?you all know how it feels to look for a job and not getting the employment because you are from a certain tribe, you all know how it feels when you are mocked for being short, dark,ugly, big nose,big eyes and all the naija usual yabbing,you all complain about racism even though the people that complain more haven't even left their state.if all this mentioned is not ok and degrading, why do you think it is ok to mock and degrade a guy because nature made him a "woman wrapper"?


Written by - onyxgodwin

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I had a cousin like you. knew him since he was little. he always acted like a girl, didn't outgrow it. He's grown up now, a great dancer, wants to be a model, always cheerful. sometimes I wonder if people make fun of him and if they did, how did he cope, cos he is always smiling.

it's easy to judge people especially when you don't know or understand them. it's even easier to say 'it's none of my business' but if you don't speak up for the minority as part of a majority, I wonder who will speak for you in areas where you may be a minority.

i feel ur pain bro.....u need deliverance...its nt ordinary @all..nobody was born lyk any stuff..if u were born male..ur expected 2 behav lyk a male..nd female likewise...dont blame mothernature.

bro after your long writeup we still confused.. all we ask is..... dyu hit pusssy or nah?

So you never got the answers you needed from Linda ikeji's blog, you decided to come here

I really don't know what to say, I have no right to judge, but to me you come off as someone seeking attention as well

Well lemmie guess the part missing front your story
"I also find my fellow man attractive"
Niggaaa! You gay!

newsflash bro, keep sticking candle sticks up ur ass man . Nobady givs a flyin fvck. The hermorrage is all yours to endure




Update: this nigga twerks too....? God has alot to judge, its gon be a really loooooooooong day on judgement day.

Master godwin, i saw ur girly pics including d one u were made up like a beautiful girl. - and u looked very excited in that one. I believe u r not gay. So y do u do u take pleasure in being effeminate? Do u like to be girl rather than a boy?

shammahyaro:
i feel ur pain bro.....u need deliverance...its nt ordinary @all..nobody was born lyk any stuff..if u were born male..ur expected 2 behav lyk a male..nd female likewise...dont blame mothernature.

Ignorance dy worry u.

Taryehmiseh:
Ignorance dy worry u.

Call a spade a spade..nd leave it to nag,it doesnt change the fact..


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shammahyaro:


Call a spade a spade..nd leave it to nag,it doesnt change the fact..



Ignored

you ignored bt u still answered....what an Irony.

Op, I think you should consider undergoing sex reassignment operation. Your d1ck will be reconstructed to a vagina and and boob5 job done to give you any size of brea5t you desire. I'm making this suggestion because it's obvious you're more of a girl than a boy, just that you have a d1ck and no brea5ts. The media is awash with news about how Bruce Jenner has fully transformed into a woman. I think you can follow his foot steps.

onyx I know this is ur wirte up.

onyx so you have finally decided to come out, becose of bruce Caitlyn jenner. Ok o

porshuch:
onyx so you have finally decided to come out, becose of bruce Caitlyn jenner. Ok o

did u check the date of this post? smh

that is how bruce/caitlyn started...... Bros remember say na naija you dey

And the dude/girl had to mention " u igbos" like being igbo is same as being effeminate. Perhaps u were born with a little less testosterone than other males ( pity) but your behaviour and grooming is all on u ( and ur parents). Tweaking, swaying, batting ur eyelids are all acquired behaviors. You should work towards reversing the damage you caused yourself instead of seeking attention, pity and acceptance.

Hungry for fame syndrome dey worry op I swear. SMH!

Anoda escapee from an asylum home, and u guys are here watching............