freecocoa:
I don't think it is healthy,at this point, I can understand if you said, a child is more fond of one parent than the other, not love. A child should be taught to love both parents, one parent may bond better with the kid than the other but the child must know that they are both as important, mothers especially owe it to her kids to constantly remind them "daddy loves you" for the fathers that are mostly away on work or even any reason, except the man's a murderer .

A parent should not ask such questions, it wouldn't hurt much if that question was asked by an outsider, because the child would answer innocently, naming the one he/she is more fond of, but when a parent asks, the child thinks "something's wrong" and tries to seek refuge with the parent he feels can protect him, truly, something has to be wrong before such question is asked.

tpiadotcom:



True that.

However, the op is d.umb for opening the thread though, probably one of those "this or that" people always thinking in superlatives.


And @ op what is wrong with the child loving/liking one parent more than the other ( in response to your foolish scenario). Na another person's parent im go mention?

Perhaps one parent is laid back while the other is a disciplinarian-of course the child will vouch for the fun loving parent, doesn't mean he wont appreciate the stricter one .

DrGroove:
Any child who loves his /her father more than mother


is






SICK



who can be compared to a mother?



Father that can abandon you at anytime, marry a new wife n have hundreds of you?

My mother first, my mother middle, my mother last


Father is just to provide money.. and once the child is able to fend for his/herself financially


Father is not of any use!

DrGroove:
Any child who loves his /her father more than mother


is






SICK



who can be compared to a mother?



Father that can abandon you at anytime, marry a new wife n have hundreds of you?

My mother first, my mother middle, my mother last


Father is just to provide money.. and once the child is able to fend for his/herself financially


Father is not of any use!

Borrussia:
When I was still in my late teens, a friend of mine told me about a certain question his mum asked him, the question goes thus:

"Who do you love and cherish most between I and your Father."

To which my friend replied saying he love and cherished his father more, his mother countenance changed and she felt downcasted thereafter.

Now my fellow Nairalanders, even though I wasn't able to give a precise answer to my friend then, I still think the mother shouldn't have asked that kinda question, thence, I might be wrong. But still, if that were to happen to any of you guys, what would be your reaction?

Cc. ishilove lalasticlala

xtervaganza:
ole ni e

Pheals:
same to u

xtervaganza:
youre such a wicked person, i almost broke my neck trying to view your picture