KB1:

It's not that they are finding it more difficult, it's more of a case of that they are finding it less necessary and more difficult on themselves to rush into settling into a life long situation with anyone. There's less pressure for them to do so in the west. They are more able to take their time and enjoy their lives as un-bound women before throwing themselves into a bond in which they are not and or may not be ready to commit to, YET!! Also they are given more freedom to chose to settle with the partner that is right for them rather than their mother or father, or any one else who often attempts nudges them into a marriage with a guy who they like simply because of his possessions, or status in the area they live, ethnic background or religion.

KB1:

You Nigerian dudes have some serious nerve talking about how uncultured Naija girls in the west are, when you fools cheat on them like no ones business and do all kind of other uncultured and sleazy stuff behind their backs. Get out of here with that bull ish. What, you expect them to be faithful and cultured with you, while y'all are able to go all out and do god knows what? How ridiculous and selfish of you to think so.

You reap what you sow. I cant even count on 10 peoples fingers how many times I've heard about some Naija guy, had a wife and kids back in Naija who he was hiding from a second wife over here, while having a girlfriend on the side somewhere else. Naija girls in the west won't marry you or are cautious about doing so-- simply because they know how conniving too many of you'all are, better than anyone, and thus they have wise enough to take their time and choose wisely and or to simply play the guys as they have been playing them for so many years. Payback's a bitch at times.

ijeoma2619:

@ihuoma see how he just hit the nail right in the middle.

fs:

I don't think Nigerian men are cursed. I think all we need to do is find the normal ones.

amarilo:

You gyls are just ranting out of frustration. If Nigerian men that came over cannot handle you HOT gyls how come Nigerian men BORN here don't want you people either. Handle ko Handle ni, If we can handle them hot in a boy friend and gyl friend situation i dont know why we can handle them in marriage. Blimey who want to Marry someone HOT? Don't be deceived any man that tell you you are hot won't think of anything marriage towards you. WE NEED CALM AND HOMELY GYLS AND MOST OF YOU ARE NOT QUALIFIED.
Its just a behavioral issue. Most of you SUCKS. And most of you are single cuz out that.
And its not that they don't want to rush into marriage as some of you claims, when u go very close to them they will somehow let you know that they need that ring. Have seen many.

HeatFusion:

Are you okay?
Did a naija girl jilt you?

Before ou answer, think about it.

And oh plzzz, naija men born here are the worse. They SUCKKKKKKKKKKK. Like omg, horrible, bunch. They might as well be akata, to be, they lack culture. Most of them lack the good characteristics naija men born in Naija have.

Ohhh, and I am not worrying about you American born naij amen o. . . .since I wouldn't touch you all with a 500ft pole.
But like c'mon, you men suck. Esp, the ones here, no sense of culture.

Eating eba with fork. . . .knows no the diff b/w iyan and amala. . . .na to dey buy frozen food. sucksssssss

LOL, Atleast we're hot. . . .na u ppl wowo past. Baba suwe feeling funky

amarilo:

I think your frustration is more than i thought. Check the highlighted and read your previous post. At least you are coming to your niaja sense. Who told u am in US? Am in London pls and have seen many US naija gyls coming down here for marriage hook up. Many of the parents here drag their female children to various kparakpo meetings, you don't need to be a rocket scientist to know why. Some of them that have seen the reality come on their own especially during big festivals like new yam and the likes. So am talking what i have seen.

Pls don't vent your frustration/anger on me am not the cause. Slow down on your hotness b4 u catch fire

Busy_body:


Duh she didn't intone you were in US, get over yourself Who wan marry London boys sef with their tontirin sokotos, we dey talk better men, you sef dey show face, na ya type, abeg commot make we see better

debosky:

Honestly I don't get the fascination with skinny jeans.

Naija guys dey complain, naija girls dey complain - why don't we all just kiss and make up? Wahala + Wahala = peace

KB1:

You Nigerian dudes have some serious nerve talking about how uncultured Naija girls in the west are, when you fools cheat on them like no ones business and do all kind of other uncultured and sleazy stuff behind their backs. Get out of here with that bull ish. What, you expect them to be faithful and cultured with you, while y'all are able to go all out and do god knows what? How ridiculous and selfish of you to think so.

You reap what you sow. I cant even count on 10 peoples fingers how many times I've heard about some Naija guy, had a wife and kids back in Naija who he was hiding from a second wife over here, while having a girlfriend on the side somewhere else.   Naija girls in the west won't marry you or are cautious about doing so-- simply because they know how conniving too many of you'all are, better than anyone, and thus they have wise enough to take their time and choose wisely and or to simply play the guys as they have been playing them for so many years. Payback's a bitch at times.  

amarilo:

I think your frustration is more than i thought. Check the highlighted and read your previous post. At least you are coming to your niaja sense. Who told u am in US? Am in London pls and have seen many US naija gyls coming down here for marriage hook up. Many of the parents here drag their female children to various kparakpo meetings, you don't need to be a rocket scientist to know why. Some of them that have seen the reality come on their own especially during big festivals like new yam and the likes. So am talking what i have seen.

Pls don't vent your frustration/anger on me am not the cause. Slow down on your hotness b4 u catch fire

1. Nigerian men abroad can't stand/handle strong Nigerian women abroad.

2. There is barely any reasonable/responsible Nigerian men abroad