I need your help please. I'm going through a lot in my parents house. They are frustrating my life with bad words. Am the first born in our family and am only 19 years old. They want me to be paying nepa bill every month, bring money for feeding and each time I don't provide these , they call me bad names, sometimes they call me wasted son. I don't go after woman, smoke or drink. I try my best to be obedient but they keep frustrating my life with bad words. I don't know what to do. Every morning, they wake me with bad words, when I return from shop in the night. It still will be the same thing. I'm tired please

Get a job / get admission

I feel sorry for you

CountDracula:
Get a job / get admission

i wrote Jamb this year and got 202. Waiting for post utme. They are not even the ones who paid for my Jamb

what is ur spiritual life like? u need to draw closer to God because its lyk ur parents dont understand ur age. but then maybe the wealth expectancy rate in ur clan is high so I suggest u find a skill and sttart nurturing it so it can bring income for u.

Wisdomkosi:
I need your help please. I'm going through a lot in my parents house. They are frustrating my life with bad words. Am the first born in our family and am only 19 years old. They want me to be paying nepa bill every month, bring money for feeding and each time I don't provide these , they call me bad names, sometimes they call me wasted son. I don't go after woman, smoke or drink. I try my best to be obedient but they keep frustrating my life with bad words. I don't know what to do. Every morning, they wake me with bad words, when I return from shop in the night. It still will be the same thing. I'm tired please

jemype:
what is ur spiritual life like? u need to draw closer to God because its lyk ur parents dont understand ur age. but then maybe the wealth expectancy rate in ur clan is high so I suggest u find a skill and sttart nurturing it so it can bring income for u.

my cousin and I have a small shop but it's not lucrative

go and learn trade.

Dharniel:
go and learn trade.

i have skill already bro

CountDracula:
Get a job / get admission

Not an option!

then u need to start socializing as well as looking for ways to publiciize it. bulk sms, church bulletin, training seminar, bulk email etc, u are on d right track bro. rome wasnt built in one day. just stay focus and try and be around people that motivate you so u wont feel bad bro.

Wisdomkosi:
my cousin and I have a small shop but it's not lucrative

Wisdomkosi:
i have skill already bro

you don't tend to have too much...

Dharniel:


you don't tend to have too much...

then what do you want me to do to have too much?

INTROVERT:
I feel sorry for you

Eyaah

fatdon2:
I feel you OP. Even once
you move out, there are
times you just can't
escape your parents'
grasp. What you have to
do is stand up to them. Assert that you're an
adult and you are
capable of making your
own decisions. And then
follow through. They'll
get over it, and you'll feel liberated.

thanks

I was once in such mess one time, but d gud tin is dat couple with d fact dat I am stubborn, industrous I also don't stay at home.... How many are u in ur family?