This is a man I cherish so much. He has failed to understand that nobody is perfect.

I try my possible best to see that my man is always happy, all I get is that with every little quarrel, I get beaten up and called all sorts of names. I could easily cheat on him firstly because he has cheated countless number of times in our marriage and secondly because I feel he no longer has regards for me, but what will I gain, and what will God tell me.

I tell this story in pains as I wish that one day things will change. He used to mean the whole world to me. I wish somebody could explain to him that I tolerate a lot from him so why cant he take the other side of me that is not perfect.

No family is 100% happy, it all depends on how you manage your home. How you understand your partner. How you treat your partner. I wish someone could teach him how to pet a woman; How to apologize to your wife when you beat her up; How to be good.

I have tried to remain good but he says I'm still a devil faking all my characters...I have known him for years and we've been married for years...

All I need is your prayers because he was not like this.

Only God can change him to The Sweet Man I used to know and love.

It shall be well

No

Too long..keep praying

He has a lot of red flags from your writeup. A cheater, beater and an abuser.

He calls you a fake and a devil, seems both of have change not only him.

It is a sad thing knowing what you are going through. Didn't you notice these behaviours during courtship? Now that you are in marriage, you just have to keep praying for him. God can change even the most ruthless man

Madam, please don't let him beat you to death ooo....

Another stories of the heart. Look for someone he respects to talk to him. However only the Holy Spirit can change a man.

With Prayers and More Effort to your Marriage, things will Surely Turn out for Good......

By the way, Try Threatening him with Police Small

so you still love a man who decorate you with punches everyday?.. Interesting

How about this? I'll apologize on his behalf each time he beats you up-since that would make you feel better

May the love in your heart wax stronger and stronger

Madame,you wrote this whole story only to tell us that you will pray Na wa ooo.


Generally man find it hard to apologise, so what you are expecting may never happen. My husband rather become "Mr Do Good", than saying "I'm sorry".

A real man never lays his hand on a woman he claims he loves, regardless of the circumstances.

He started laying a hand on you and he will continue till you decide that enough is enough. It's your choice.

Die there na


your reward for dying in your husbands house is waiting for you in heaven

You dated before this marriage right?
So that means you saw fire and jumped into it.

How to apologize to your wife when you beat her up

This is where I stopped reading. The man must be very rich cos that is the only reason woman lower their self respect, just because of money while praying that things would improve

BukkyBayo:
This is a man I cherish so much. He has failed to understand that nobody is perfect. I try my possible best to see that my man is always happy, all I get is that with every little quarrel, I get beaten up and called all sorts of names. I could easily cheat on him firstly because he has cheated countless number of times in our marriage and secondly because I feel he no longer has regards for me, but what will I gain, and what will God tell me. I tell this story in pains as I wish that one day things will change. He used to mean the whole world to me. I wish somebody could explain to him that I tolerate a lot from him so why cant he take the other side of me that is not perfect. No family is 100% happy, it all depends on how you manage your home. How you understand your partner. How you treat your partner. I wish someone could teach him how to pet a woman; How to apologize to your wife when you beat her up; How to be good. I have tried to remain good but he says I'm still a devil faking all my characters...I have known him for years and we've been married for years...All I need is your prayers because he was not like this. Only God can change him to The Sweet Man I used to know and love.

Didn't you date him and was he like this from the start?
@bolded,I don't know what your marriage to him means and why you have to sit there and take all these?

Anyway,since you say we should pray.........

Our Father,Who art in heaven,hallowed be Thy Name,Thy kingdom come.
Thy will be done on earth,as it is........

If is prayer you think will help you keep praying.

Infact this one na love kili me i die.

Madam though ur story sound quite pathetic, I can still sense an undertone of bias baccalaureate. What is it that is not perfect about u that u want ur hubby to tolerate? U acknowledge there is something u're not doing right, what is it?

Don't tell me ur husband wakes up every morning to assault u for a no cogent reason. Pls tell us ur shortcomings, we need to know how questionable they are, do u normally hit him first, whenever there is a heated argument, so as to know if they are intolerable, or if ur hubby is short tempered, let's weigh it to see if it warrants the beatings, or if ur hubby is just being unreasonable.

But always remember separation if it gets too hot. I'm saying this because I experienced something similar this morning, my wife insulted my elder brother, so I was compelled to register 2 slaps on her cheek, (police approved, not too hot) just to restrain her.

So there might be something u're not doing right.

Classic! You are still making excuses for a man who abuses you abi? May God keep you safe in his hands!

bukkybayo, please calm down o, dont let smone beat ur pride away, he's cheated u, disregarded u and now the height of it beaten u up severally, as much as i do not like broken marriages i also do not agree with physical violence, i will suggest u take a break o and be praying wherever u r doing the break so that he wont beat u beyond normal so as to avoid stories that touch o.

@snakebeat, ur wifey insulted ur elder bro n the most appropriate thing is to slap her twice. Y not insult her own elder bro?

Gloriagee:
@snakebeat, ur wifey insulted ur elder bro n the most appropriate thing is to slap her twice. Y not insult her own elder bro?

Nay, he married a dumbo. Will copy that post to buttress how violent and irrational Nigerian men are, imagine slapping an adult because she insulted an adult " according to him".
The elder bro may be there grinning from ear to ear for the prompt response of his younger bro.

One day, that wife will leave without as much as a hint.

Two solutions:
1) Stay put till he succeed in giving you the 'late' title
2) Save yourself by checking out from the abusive marriage..
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Whichever one you choose, good luck.

LadyFiona:
Nay, he married a dumbo. Will copy that post to buttress how violent and irrational some Nigerian men are, imagine slapping an adult because she insulted an adult " according to him".
The elder bro may be there grinning from ear to ear for the prompt response of his younger bro.

One day, that wife will leave without as much as a hint.

That in bold makes a big difference.

am sure the OP doesn't understand the concept of being in love......





because this is just foolishness

Fake story, Fake ID

Next!

This story is just a headless body. Op should give the true picture (account) of the story before I award it any iota of credibility. For all we know, the husband may even be the victim while she paints him the villain.
At worse, this story may be an

exercise

in

imaginative

writing.

BukkyBayo:
This is a man I cherish so much. He has failed to understand that nobody is perfect.

I try my possible best to see that my man is always happy, all I get is that with every little quarrel, I get beaten up and called all sorts of names. I could easily cheat on him firstly because he has cheated countless number of times in our marriage and secondly because I feel he no longer has regards for me, but what will I gain, and what will God tell me.

I tell this story in pains as I wish that one day things will change. He used to mean the whole world to me. I wish somebody could explain to him that I tolerate a lot from him so why cant he take the other side of me that is not perfect.

No family is 100% happy, it all depends on how you manage your home. How you understand your partner. How you treat your partner. wish someone could teach him how to pet a woman; How to apologize to your wife when you beat her up; How to be good

I have tried to remain good but he says I'm still a devil faking all my characters...I have known him for years and we've been married for years...

All I need is your prayers because he was not like this.

Only God can change him to The Sweet Man I used to know and love.

@bold, so if someone teaches him how to apologize properly after the beating, your problem will be solved

Another bored fellow seeking attention......

It's not even Friday yet!

You people should see marriage counselor if one is available.

Do not let him beat you to death, better leave him if he is going crazy.