Crazy one

Pray pray and pray.

your husband is just growing up. he is just going through puberty.

Advice to young ladies thinking of marriage , when you marry okoro please leave him the way you met him. Let him smell , speak poor English and dress razz oooo. Just leave him the way he is and don't brush him up .only you will love your okoro and ladies will run away from him . Cos as soon as you brush him up , he will become attractive to ndi napu and when he gets lots of attention, he will begin to feel fly and this is what you get . The same applies to men, if you marry Adaobi , don't take her abroad or buy her designers or else Nke gi ekpome.

trigar12:
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DonTim1:
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fatdon2:
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ConfessionsNgr:



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http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/120/help-my-husband-is-acting-funny

if the story is true , hmmmm am speechless but she needs God intervention because HE is the only authority that can make crook road perfect.

For ppl who are yet top marry: marry ur love/freind, dont marry out of self-pity.

DrSage:
You went too far!
Itz obvious he's nt acting normal at all,you would have taken dz issue to his family members so dat dey could at least talk to him.
But alas,u beat up his supposed girl friend,u went just too far.

How old are you sir? Wtf?

But Soro niyen?

I dont think u eva loved ur husband. U married as age de run leave u. U even wanted to change him from d so called old fashioned and novice guy that he was. Now he is trending and happening all over town and u complain?..........its not to late sha. Jst pray, God me give you both the love you need to make tins work.

wow! it's bad enough he's cheating, but to bring the other woman into your home... talk about disrespect!!

this is why women should never be quick to get married! stop rushing into marriage and giving yourself unnecessary heartache because the man turned out to be a cheater, an abuser, already has a baby mama, etc. u hardly knew this man. you didn't date to get to know him, his habits, his ways, etc. u were worried about your age and thought this man seemed like the serious type and just jumped into marrying himm, na waa oo. what is wrong with women these days and rushing into marriage?

Ijaya123:
Lots of kids just polluting this thread just for the fun if commenting. Quite irritating.

True...

teelady:
Ok am done reading, let say u grew to love the man u ar married to, and from the begining u were nt inlove. You ar a loyal and faithful wife,please remain that way. Your husby is in a serious infatuated relationship and u feel like breaking his head for such behaviour but i say dont. He is not in his right frame of mind right now and its obvious u dnt want to leave ur matrimonial home, woman be prayerful and dnt give him more excuse to berate u further. Y fight wit a girl he brought home....,she is nt worth it ok. Pls distract ursef from al this mess for nw, just focus on making ursef happy, takecare of ur kids, prove to ur husband that u didnt marry him out of choice bt for the fact that u also love him, pls no dulling take ursef out for a treat no old ursef. Be the person he once loved, love ursef and hopefully he would comeback to love u. IT MIGHT BE HARD FOR U TO BE PATIENT SINCE U ARE THE VICTIM, BUT BE GOOD,PATIENT AND PRAYERFUL. Pardon my poor spelling

u get sense oh! I applaud you for this meaningful comment

Cutehector:
This is what happens wen u marry because age is not by ur side anylonger or u marry out of pity... Na ur fault be that

Then what help or solution have you got to offer. We all knew the fault could be hers. She has not come for that . She is only seeking for assistance. Period.

u didnt remember to tell u that the man is rich. na god catch u ole

Hmmm...pls don't pack out of your matrimonial home...Pray for your husband instead.

Pray To God....

Na to lit coloured candle for him head.

madam you have done your best by being a good wife. I advise you commit everything to GOD'S hand. Your husband is actually bewitched by lust from the pit of hell. Don't shift your ground by parking out- if you do, it will be an opportunity for the side chick to take over ..You can engage yourself in meaningful venture( Earn your own bucks it will make your hussy respect u and even scare to loose u)

when the devil strikes at a marriage , probably you have left your guard, be wise as a serpent and gentle as a dove , watch and pray

Ma dear don't blame yourself because you can't turn back the hands of time, all you need do is to pray, God answers prayers and also try as much as possible to train your mind. Expect the unexpected in life so that you can live long. May God give you the grace to carry on.

Hehehehe e be lyk say dem follow u from village come :-XHehehehe e be lyk say dem follow u from village come

ihatebuhari:
Kill him

go and kill him for her...... You think its easy to take human life? Come to think of it you are a lady,

She is never the victim. The man is. She never married him for love but for convenience and it sure looks like she kept throwing it in the mans face until the man has had enough and decided to fire back. The man didnt just start to drink he discovered something heinous about his wife that shattered him.
The woman is not being truth full about the true state of things.

She

teelady:
Ok am done reading, let say u grew to love the man u ar married to, and from the begining u were nt inlove. You ar a loyal and faithful wife,please remain that way. Your husby is in a serious infatuated relationship and u feel like breaking his head for such behaviour but i say dont. He is not in his right frame of mind right now and its obvious u dnt want to leave ur matrimonial home, woman be prayerful and dnt give him more excuse to berate u further. Y fight wit a girl he brought home....,she is nt worth it ok. Pls distract ursef from al this mess for nw, just focus on making ursef happy, takecare of ur kids, prove to ur husband that u didnt marry him out of choice bt for the fact that u also love him, pls no dulling take ursef out for a treat no old ursef. Be the person he once loved, love ursef and hopefully he would comeback to love u. IT MIGHT BE HARD FOR U TO BE PATIENT SINCE U ARE THE VICTIM, BUT BE GOOD,PATIENT AND PRAYERFUL. Pardon my poor spelling

hmm,so much valid point

Two wise people cannot follow each other. My candid advice is that you should be quiet. At times, all it takes to settle things like this requires humility and a little approach of foolishness. A wise man once said, if ur husband brings another woman to ur home. Dnt be 2 aggressive. All u need do is behave like a fool nd do these 3 things. 1. Fetch water for her and ur husband to take their bathe.
2. Offer her a towel or a wrapper.
3. Cook and serve the duo with ur husband's favourite meal.
Thank me later.

08073078401 text me his number let me talk to him

I married my husband about five years ago. Before I got married to him there were three of them that were going after me. My husband was the least person I had expected to get married to of the three people.

Apart from the fact that he was a lit bit older than me, he was not the trendy type and he looked timid and native to me so I wasn’t even considering him at all at that time. If somebody had told me that I would later marry him I would have denied it.

However, of the three people that were after me he was the one that appeared serious as at that time. He proposed to me and told me that he didn’t want an affair with me he just wanted to get married to me.

The other guys on the other hand never proposed to me all they wanted was to have a go at me and then move on and considering the fact that age was no longer on my side and with the advice from my mother, I eventually agreed to marry my husband. When we eventually got married, I did everything to transform my husband from the timid and native guy he was to a trendy fashion man.

I made sure I changed his entire wardrobe and bought him trendy clothes so he would look presentable as my husband. Everything has been fine with us until I had my second baby over a year ago. My husband just changed completely from the loving and caring man that dotes over me to a complete monster.

He started out by keeping late nights and coming home drunk. Then I noticed that he was no longer interested in having sex with me. My husband that will always find any opportunity to engage me was no longer interested in sex; the whole thing took a turn for the worst when he stopped talking to me in the house. I don’t know what I did to offend him because as everything has been fine with us before now.

It was at this point that I noticed he was having an affair outside. When I confronted him, he didn’t deny it, instead he told me that if I was not happy with the situation of things I should pack my things and leave after all I wasn’t planning to marry him initially that he practically begged me, so I can as well leave if I am tired. It got up to the extent that he picks the calls of his girlfriends in my presence calling them pet names like baby, sweetie and all that without regards to me.

The straw that eventually broke the camel’s back was three days ago when he brought his girlfriend home. I took my baby to the hospital and when I got back, I noticed his car was parked outside. On entering the house I found him with the girl cuddling on the settee I didn’t know when I threw my baby down and gave the girl the beating of her life for daring to come into my home.

He has called my people to say he is no longer interested in the marriage. I don’t know what I have done to deserve this and I have been begging him to tell me what I did wrong but all he keeps saying is that I never wanted to marry him in the first place, but all that is past and I have been a faithful and loyal housewife to him so why all these? Please my people tell me how to go about this before I run mad because my husband is behaving like somebody that has been bewitched or under a spell.

Where do I start from? Woman you are the cause of your own misfortune! Yes you heard me right, it is all your fault! Look at the bold words, I'm sure your husband knew you were dating 2 other men at the same time you were dating him, I'm very sure you are not telling the entire story, after kids you've let yourself go, you probably took him for granted as he was such a nice man and this allowed room for another woman. Now you also seem to be a housewife with no source of income other than your husband which means you are a liability more than an asset, I suggest you remain calm, get a job and let your husband see you as a contributor and not a vacuum. Finally issues like this requires strength and calculation, you only have two options: pack and leave or stick it out and hope for the best, no one can tell you what to do but yourself, search deep within and determine if the marriage is worth saving!

With ur write up, i'm sure u must av directly or indirectly abused/embarrased him earlier before now for his short coming in terms of bn timid, local and how u upgraded him to a city man. So, he taking his turn now. No man grows to love an arrogant wife and trust men those single in town will make him forget home. But with God all things are possible keep praying.

simple thing

easy thing

call me......i will advise you on some steps