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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by EbuGeneral(m): 6:16am On Jul 24, 2015
debada:


Well am catholic too and how many of us catholics can boast of being void of sin as we receive the body and blood.
God can and will forgive such.
when i was a christian, i don't try such. that dude jsmile was never a catholic. haba, must every protestant be once a catholic. he is just advertising church, fvck the testimony.

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by texanomaly(f): 6:27am On Jul 24, 2015
@op You are brave to come forward with this story. There may be others out there who are troubled by their actions as you were. This very well may help someone who is struggling.

You've been very tolerant and kind to both gay and straight people on this thread. Thank you for that.


ken1982:
see ehn...this gay thing no be here o...when i was 17 years (1999) dem no born any MAN talk this kind BS....but nowadays them go just dy come out from cave like zombie dy yarn...now i pray for women children more...no more male children...i can easily understand lesbos but not tolerate sha...but gay men...how i wish they keep it to demselves and not try to bring it out there....and also d stupid media that talks and celebrates dem...dy made us like mumu music now they r making us or forcing this shit gay trans bla bla shit on us...my house no go get dstv...my son will not go to boarding house. tufia


The bolded is so hypocritical. In one breath you pray for women and children. I guess for protection against gays. In the next breath you say "yeah I get lesbians, but gay guys...?"

Really?

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by UyiIredia(m): 6:52am On Jul 24, 2015
If this is true I'm happy for the OP.

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by otusnorahs(f): 7:07am On Jul 24, 2015
O dear, I'm so happy for u. I hope nothing draws u back to ur old ways of life,may u grow from strength to strength in d vineyard of God, amen.

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by carlwinnie(m): 7:18am On Jul 24, 2015
fabiano09:

lol for wia dem dey try legalise am? for ur village?
for the world at large no worry na small small until dem go enta our body
Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by toprealman: 7:50am On Jul 24, 2015
2015 PEOPLE STILL REASON AS IF THEY ARE IN 1520! IF YOU LIKE BE ATTRACTED TO A LIVE TRANSFORMER OR WHATEVER...YOUR LIFE NOT MINE.

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by NobleG1(m): 9:58am On Jul 24, 2015
A Straight person can't be Gay.
A Gay person can't be Straight.
A Bisexual person can't be only Straight or Gay.

All the above persons are born that way. So it's not your fault you're Gay, the same way it wasn't my fault I'm Straight.
Enjoy your life my friend.

I hope one day, we'll have literate leaders who'll not persecute you for being born Gay.

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by omoharry(f): 10:00am On Jul 24, 2015
RedCard1:
Lies, lies upon lies. Who're you guys decieving? Being gay doesn't mean that one is possesed. Keep posting rubbish
POSTING RUBBISH...INSTEAD OF YOU TO TAP INTO THE ANOINTING OF CHANGE.. YOU ARE STILL ENJOYING THE GAY LIFESTYLE...IT IS NO LIFE IN-CASE YOU WANT TO JUSTIFY IT....EXCEPT YOU WISH TO FINALLY PACK YOUR LOAD TO AMERICA FOR GOOD; THAT IS IF YOU ARE A NIGERIAN AND STILL LIVE HERE BUT IF YOU ARE AN AMERICAN, THEN HOLD YOUR PEACE. IT IS NOT NORMAL...DON'T BE DECEIVED BY THE SO CALLED HOLLYWOOD SOCIAL MEDIA THAT ARE CELEBRATING THIS KIND OF ABOMINABLE WAY OF LIFE...KEEP BLEEPING ANOTHER MANS ASS IF YOU SO WISH BUT DON'T COME HERE TO CONDEMN THIS GUY FOR COMING OUT TO BE A CHANGED MAN.

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by lolly2pops: 10:28am On Jul 24, 2015
Jsmile:
Later that evening at my veranda I tried to kiss him, he pushed me off that he doesn't do that again, i felt that was a joke and relaxed. but later in the night as usual I tried to touch him, he kept resisting me and taking my hands of him, he threatened to leave the bed for me and actually did, he went and lie on the floor, at that point I pinched myself on how Stanley was able to resist me, I kept on wondering what happened to him, I couldn't sleep again the whole night, I was just saying within myself that whatever Stanley has found that I needed that too. I was just sitting there and watching him sleep till day was about breaking and I woke him up. I started asking questions, that was how he told me his salvation experience, preached to me and ministered Christ, I felt so broken(will never forget that day *sobs*) , when he was done praying for me, he advice I go to a bible believing church where I can grow spiritually and he suggested a ministry in awka anambra state(which was where I based then) called Love Ambassadors Ministry (LAM). I later left the ministry though few months later for personal reasons, and started worshipping at RCCG and by Gods mercies and grace a Sunday school teacher there till date wink

It was such a wonderful experience as I began to get closer to God, having a personal understanding of the word of God as i study, living a fasting and prayer life. I even testified in the church I was a bisexual.

I actually had things to do with some girls intimately but I knew I was much into guys and felt more attracted to guys than girls. did girls just to cover up my so called smartness.

I thank God that after the unfortunate exposure to bisexual life, porn(both gay porn and normal porn), scam, bribery, lies, cheating,drug life (marijuana, alcohol, solution and cigarette), I wasn't just saved from all of that but he also made me an able minister of the gospel to the glory of his name. I thank God though for not allowing me to die with it or get any deadly disease from it. I actually know of people that have died in it (even someone i have had something to do with personally)-only God knows what's killing them, and two of my friends I have had something to do with intimately are still HIV+(one of which I only did something with once, the day I slept with him I wanted to do it unprotected and he requested I use a condom which I did(do you see how the mercies of God in action because that would have been the day he would have transfered the HIV to me),been counselling and praying along with them that God heals them completely) they actually opened up to me on their HIV status.

God can still do it for you my brother/sister struggling with such. His grace has actually kept you till now irrespective all we did to save us. Please don't look down on this grace. If he can do it for me, he is still your Father and the same yesterday, today and forever more, so he can do it for you as well.

By his grace I don't have such desires or urge anymore, living my normal life and having a constant fellowship with God. One thing must occupy a man, it's either you are hot for God or you are cold. He doesn't like lukewarms because it doesn't exist.
Revelation 3:15-16 "I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would thou wert cold or hot. So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth."

Titus 2:11-12 For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men,training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age,

John 8:32 And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.

Jesus saves.....
Please if you have any question you can ask. no hate comments please.

my Facebook username is ujnwachukwu

God bless you

To God be the glory. May many see the light. We have a huge gay society here in South Africa and the resistance of Christ is rife. May the light of God illuminate all our ways. May he continue to lead us in righteousness. Be blessed for sharing this testimony.

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by Nobody: 10:29am On Jul 24, 2015
carlwinnie:
for the world at large no worry na small small until dem go enta our body
haha we no go let them o,dem no go fit enta my body but i have no problem how a person wants to live their life.

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by UnimkeAk(m): 10:52am On Jul 24, 2015
RedCard1:
Lies, lies upon lies. Who're you guys decieving? Being gay doesn't mean that one is possesed. Keep posting rubbish


gay
Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by maxwelllopez: 11:05am On Jul 24, 2015
UnimkeAk:

gay
UnimkeAk:

gay
u dy craz thunder fire ur mouth
Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by Tifuzz: 11:14am On Jul 24, 2015
It's God all d Way...
Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by fireforfire: 12:07pm On Jul 24, 2015
vooks:

Some gay hate hearing they can change. They want to blame nature...That's escapist. God bless you sir
D guy na antichrist.
Simples!
Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by ken1982: 1:25pm On Jul 24, 2015
first of all...i get it...u r gay that is why u symphatise with him....
secondly it is hypocritical cos both gay stuff and lesbos stuff are wrong but i guarantee u its a better pill to swallow if ur wife or daughter is into that than a man....a man is seen as weak when he indulges in homosexuality but a bae is not seen as weak..she is seen as troubled or dirty...men penetrate..women dont...that is why i personally can still breathe around lesbos...

am not saying the OP is an abomination or all that...i am saying that they should not come out with the gay stuff like we should try n accept dem....we can accept d act...we can accept dem as humans but not accept the gay shit...cos its gay


abeg mk una dy well....no one is perfect so let d gist pack

texanomaly:
@op You are brave to come forward with this story. There may be others out there who are troubled by their actions as you were. This very well may help someone who is struggling.

You've been very tolerant and kind to both gay and straight people on this thread. Thank you for that.




The bolded is so hypocritical. In one breath you pray for women and children. I guess for protection against gays. In the next breath you say "yeah I get lesbians, but gay guys...?"

Really?
Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by ken1982: 1:26pm On Jul 24, 2015
GAY is wrong ...thats all

debada:


Ken, Sodomy is also done by heterosexuals. Enemas also exists so being gay has absolutely nothingto do with wanting to see shit on your joystick.
Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by ken1982: 1:27pm On Jul 24, 2015
YOU ARE RIGHT...I AM SORRY FOR THAT

debada:


seriously dont know how you can put God, prayer in a speech/write up and still include vulgar words... undecided

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by Jsmile(m): 2:36pm On Jul 24, 2015
lolly2pops:


To God be the glory. May many see the light. We have a huge gay society here in South Africa and the resistance of Christ is rife. May the light of God illuminate all our ways. May he continue to lead us in righteousness. Be blessed for sharing this testimony.



Amen.....will be praying for the brethren In S. A.

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by Jsmile(m): 2:38pm On Jul 24, 2015
fowostepy21:
pls Jsmile i need your number
please you can pm for that
Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by Jsmile(m): 2:42pm On Jul 24, 2015
texanomaly:
@op You are brave to come forward with this story. There may be others out there who are troubled by their actions as you were. This very well may help someone who is struggling.

You've been very tolerant and kind to both gay and straight people on this thread. Thank you for that.




The bolded is so hypocritical. In one breath you pray for women and children. I guess for protection against gays. In the next breath you say "yeah I get lesbians, but gay guys...?"

Really?

thank you Texa. .....grateful

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by misreal(m): 3:04pm On Jul 24, 2015
Jsmile:


Hi Charly, I actually understood how you feel about it and I quite respect your opinion about salvation and my testimony. Thanks for taking time to comment brother. God bless you
best answer to a fools question..

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by tirith(m): 4:00pm On Jul 24, 2015
So are you attracted to girls now and I don't know why being gay is always equated to a demonic possession like your friend didn't use any thing on you then to get you to succumb.
Am happy for you if this is your truth but doesn't change the reality that some people are gay and are not possessed.

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by Jsmile(m): 5:24pm On Jul 24, 2015
tirith:
So are you attracted to girls now and I don't know why being gay is always equated to a demonic possession like your friend didn't use any thing on you then to get you to succumb.
Am happy for you if this is your truth but doesn't change the reality that some people are gay and are not possessed.

Am a normal guy now with the fear of God, I respect God's natural creation and order of things. I also appreciate women and have them around as colleagues and friends. nothing more than that.....planning towards marriage though by next year if Christ tarries.

Believe it or not every sin has an unclean spirit responsible for carrying out. Satan and it's cohorts, therefore if one doesn't surrender his life to be ruled by the spirit of God, the other spirit from the devil will set in. One thing must possess a man's soul. its either God or devil

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jul 24, 2015
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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by themanderon: 10:49pm On Jul 24, 2015
RedCard1:
Lies, lies upon lies. Who're you guys decieving? Being gay doesn't mean that one is possesed. Keep posting rubbish

I pity you.

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by remzor(m): 11:00pm On Jul 24, 2015
Jsmile:


I already responded to your ping bro, i know its hard to believe, there's another guy that said he knew me from prodigits too and my testimony now makes sense to him because as he said, there was something about me he noticed that wasn't normal. I think his username is boy here on NL. yea we actually met and I brought you to my office and bought a drink for you. We have learnt a lot knowing each other, it's so unfortunate that you never knew I had this dark side. I respect our friendship because our knowing was never centered on that and besides, that I had something to do with guys doesn't mean i will wanna go down with anyone i meet. I understand how you feel about getting to hear this now but you didn't notice that about me because i am manly enough and not the bitchy kind of gay guys(like I said this was the major part of my dark side that gave me concern). But won't deny the fact i am great guy since you knew me hehehe. It has been a wonderful feeling meeting you Remzor Adeyinka and you're a nice guy. I expected you to be thankful to God for testimony
idi okay broda. And pls dnt ever go back to such act again biko. Its disgusting... God bless

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by Jsmile(m): 11:15pm On Jul 24, 2015
remzor:
idi okay broda. And pls dnt ever go back to such act again biko. Its disgusting... God bless

thank you. sounds a brotherly advice, that's what I expected. I will not by his very grace brother
Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by debada(f): 11:25pm On Jul 24, 2015
toprealman:
2015 PEOPLE STILL REASON AS IF THEY ARE IN 1520! IF YOU LIKE BE ATTRACTED TO A LIVE TRANSFORMER OR WHATEVER...YOUR LIFE NOT MINE.

This ur name is suspicious oh. Hmmm
Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by debada(f): 11:42pm On Jul 24, 2015
Jsmile:


Am a normal guy now with the fear of God, I respect God's natural creation and order of things. I also appreciate women and have them around as colleagues and friends. nothing more than that.....planning towards marriage though by next year if Christ tarries.

Believe it or not every sin has an unclean spirit responsible for carrying out. Satan and it's cohorts, therefore if one doesn't surrender his life to be ruled by the spirit of God, the other spirit from the devil will set in. One thing must possess a man's soul. its either God or devil
so would u tell ur spouse dat u are an ex gay?
Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by Jsmile(m): 12:22am On Jul 25, 2015
debada:

so would u tell ur spouse dat u are an ex gay?

surely I will tell my wife to be about it before we finally marry, have even told some girls when I was dating them and still messing up with guys. If I could testify in an open church i see no reason why I shouldn't let my wife know ALL about me as best I can remember during courtship(good and bad side). you wouldn't wanna start explaining things when she gets to hear things like that existed.

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Re: (testimony) I Struggled With Homosexuality For More Than 9years by akudinaobi(m): 1:03am On Jul 25, 2015
I read your writeups about the new you ,
I even skip some because its irritating reading the gay part ,imagine a male fucking a male (sex) that's bizare
May the good lord who sitteth on his throne of mercy have mercy on you
Gay is evil ,likewise lesbianism

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