I have heard many people saying a man only becomes responsible when he gets married! I want to ask my fellow Nairalanders, must a man gets married before he becomes responsible? Is it that man can't be responsible as a single? Waiting to hear your opinions!

Your marital status as a married man or woman doesn't change your behaviour of whether you are responsible or not. If you were responsible as a bachelor you'll be responsible as a married man and if you were irresponsible as a bachelor marriage cannot change your behaviour if for anything it will expose who you really are character wise


let's see what the next person has to say

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Waiting for the fanatics

Single or Married should NOT be a deciding factor when it comes to weighing up ones level of responsibility.

... an irresponsible man is an irresponsible man whether married or not.

dangotesmummy:
Your marital status as a married man or woman doesn't change your behaviour of whether you are responsible or not. If you were responsible as a bachelor you'll be responsible as a married man and if you were irresponsible as a bachelor marriage cannot change your behaviour if for anything it will expose who you really are character wise


let's see what the next person has to say

Hmm! Thanks! That's what I also believe!

yorubadelta:
Single or Married should NOT be a deciding factor when it comes to weighing up ones level of responsibility.

... an irresponsible man is an irresponsible man whether married or not.

That's my own view too! Thanks.

yomi007k:
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Waiting for the fanatics

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I've seen so many married men that are irresponsible!
And also responsible bacherlos...so having a “married”status is not a yardstick for measuring responsibity.
It all depends on the individual.
Op shey I try small?

OP hold it there!!!!






As I never marry, what are your thoughts implying






Me na 101 yards of responsible material ooooo

chomytex:
I've seen so many married men that are irresponsible!
And also responsible bacherlos...so having a “married”status is not a yardstick for measuring responsibity.
It all depends on the individual.
Op shey I try small?

Spot on! You try no be small

DrObum:
OP hold it there!!!!






As I never marry, what are your thoughts implying






Me na 101 yards of responsible material ooooo

Na you go fit know yourself my chairman! But as I dey look you so, you go dey responsible.

Thryphosa:


Spot on! You try no be small

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The society sees/expects a married man to be more responsible. ..


But unfortunately marital status has little or nothing to do with responsibility....

Thryphosa:
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Op don't let anyone psych u into entering a lifestyle u may not be able to sustain.
I am not married but I am more responsible than most married men I have seen.

esponsible/rɪˈspɒnsɪb(ə)l/
adjective
1.having an obligation to do something, or having control over or care for someone, as part of one's job or role.
2.being the primary cause of something and so able to be blamed or credited for it.
(of a job or position) involving important duties, independent decision-making, or control over others.

From 1-i have control and care for myself, my parents and my neices n nephews.

From2- any move I make in this life is mine to be credited or blamed for.



Those ppl whining u to marry won't be there wen d chips are down.

yomi007k:

Op don't let anyone psych u into entering a lifestyle u may not be able to sustain.
I am not married but I am more responsible than most married men I have seen.

esponsible/rɪˈspɒnsɪb(ə)l/
adjective
1.having an obligation to do something, or having control over or care for someone, as part of one's job or role.
2.being the primary cause of something and so able to be blamed or credited for it.
(of a job or position) involving important duties, independent decision-making, or control over others.

From 1-i have control and care for myself, my parents and my neices n nephews.

From2- any move I make in this life is mine to be credited or blamed for.



Those ppl whining u to marry won't be there wen d chips are down.

I like your perception of responsibility! Keep it up bro!!

MarvellousGod:
The society sees/expects a married man to be more responsible. ..


But unfortunately marital status has little or nothing to do with responsibility....

You nailed it!