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Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by EfemenaXY: 3:40pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Chillis: Na the very single and desperately searching dudes dey give martial advice pass marriage councellors. Or haven't you noticed the trend on here? 4 Likes |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by 2CatWoman: 4:05pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
OP, can you at least now write the "Wisdom for Men" Thanks in advance 4 Likes |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by bukatyne(f): 4:33pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Jamean: @Bold: Classic! Privileged burden? Hahahahahahaha! |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by remsonik(f): 5:23pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Absolute trash!! Na single dey advise married people on how to make their marriage work now Hmmm Blind leading blind Pls let everyone go and do what works for him/her joor 4 Likes |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by remsonik(f): 5:28pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Funny enough na dem they mugu pass....their mumu button na all over. They will wash their wives pant sef. They won't leave the married to advise themselves.... Shioorr Nonsense |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by EfemenaXY: 5:40pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
remsonik: Lol! Take it easy, sister. |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by Chillis: 5:52pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Notice ke. Once I peruse the first line I don't even read the jaggons make person no get headache . The kind of advice you see here confirms by 2200 nigeria will still remain a jungle. if these ones with Internet access to the world could reason like animals, how much more those in the wilderness 3 Likes |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by EfemenaXY: 5:54pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Chillis: Babes! Where've you been? You don miss gist tire, compliments of Edwife and Sambarry |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by Chillis: 5:55pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Which gist abeg I dey hide somewhere, these people wan kill me with drink. God pass them 2 Likes |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by EfemenaXY: 5:57pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Chillis: The other thread. |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by edwife(f): 6:10pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Chillis: Make dey just handle you small,your mata no be for here.... I beg,post my own. |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by SAMBARRY: 6:14pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:I don miss jist o.tomorow is Monday na.another hustling and bustling so let me relax and hear jist jare |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by Specialist900(m): 6:21pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
AgapeCharis, you thought about all these or you wanna credit it to someone |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by bukatyne(f): 11:18am On Jul 28, 2015 |
edwife: How do you marry the two? (50 - 50 and making most of the decisions?) Do you believe a husband and wife are equal even though you would let the husband make 'most' of the decisions What is the indices of him 'making' most of the decisions? |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by edwife(f): 11:51am On Jul 28, 2015 |
bukatyne: You had to drag me here among the sharks didn't you? Will get back to you..... |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by bukatyne(f): 12:38pm On Jul 28, 2015 |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by edwife(f): 1:51pm On Jul 28, 2015 |
bukatyne: What i meant is this,we can discuss something together and along the line after much deliberation,his decision is more practical or favourable than mine,so i let him go ahead. or sometimes after so much arguments,i will let him go ahead and do what he thinks is right,for peace sake sometimes but it has always worked on my favour because it doesn't always work the way he thought it will ,so like a prodigal son he comes back and says you were right. When next we found ourselves in such situations,he won't hesitate to let me have my way. We are equal but gifted differently.In all there should be harmony in the home and this harmony must be in sink with nature.Marriage is a give and take. For the fact that i might let him get away with certain things,doesn't mean because i am weak or dumb,only because i want peace. Over the years,i have learned to pick my battles. 1 Like |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by bukatyne(f): 2:22pm On Jul 28, 2015 |
edwife: Naturally, that is common sense talking. If he has a better idea, why should I insist on my way? That's selfish. edwife: That's compromise... I am sure he will say same too for some situations edwife: Extremely true. I however do not agree with 'nurtured' gender roles. If he is better at something, let him do it/direct it. edwife: Also true and I am very sure it's same for him. People in relationship with us will always get away with things. In all, I wanted to point out the 'a husband is the head/take final decisions' talks flying around her is wash and does not apply in a practical loving home (I don't do theory shit. Different strokes for different folks). Decision making is much more complex than 'I am the head/ I am the tail' stuff. You look at who needs it more, who is more affected, who is more knowledgeable, the situation on ground, if you have a concrete reason to object etc. Thanks for the response. It was a deviation from the normal pre-emptying and choosing to see/read whatever you want to popular in this area The you = not you |
Re: Making Your Marriage Work - Wisdom For Women by newspapers: 7:09am On Oct 26, 2015 |
The word of God is the manual for operating your marriage if it must command the glory of His presence - http://www.shiloh2015.com/making-your-marriage-command-help-at-shiloh-2015/ |
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