tensazangetsu:
in life it's better to be realistic than optimistic lol

innervoice:


You are being pessimistic.

innervoice:


No, it is the ideal case but your mother should not be the decisive factor. In fact, you should be so sure of your choice that you will even have no doubt when they do NOT get along very well. The most important thing is that you two are compatible.

tensazangetsu:
Realistic lol.

Cutehector:
yea.. Compatibility..

innervoice:


You said that 90% of all girls have a bad past and you call it realistic? Ok! I think it is pessimistic but then again I do not understand what you mean when you say "bad past". You have not explained it yet.

buygala:
Obviously, it isn't only men who put up an impression to get what they want

He forms Shell staff... She forms Redemption camp Virgin

He forms sex-ninja with Viagra and other Burantashis. .... She forms good girl with a tight vagina coated with alum coupled with all those fake "Baby it's paining me" cries during sex

He makes a deliberate effort to stop snoring and farting loudly in his sleep so as to impress her.... She downgrades from Brazilian wig to Togolese wig to impress him

He wears new boxers whenever she is visiting so that she won't think he is 'dirty'..... She takes the smallest fish in the stew so that he will know she can 'manage' very well


POINT IS... IN RELATIONSHIPS, BOTH PARTIES TRY TO IMPRESS EACH OTHER.... WHY SINGLE OUT THE LADIES?

tensazangetsu:
Bad past I mean coded runs casual sex here and there and worst of it all abortions. Jeez I know some girls that do abortions every 3 months.

buygala:
Obviously, it isn't only men who put up an impression to get what they want

He forms Shell staff... She forms Redemption camp Virgin

He forms sex-ninja with Viagra and other Burantashis. .... She forms good girl with a tight vagina coated with alum coupled with all those fake "Baby it's paining me" cries during sex

He makes a deliberate effort to stop snoring and farting loudly in his sleep so as to impress her.... She downgrades from Brazilian wig to Togolese wig to impress him

He wears new boxers whenever she is visiting so that she won't think he is 'dirty'..... She takes the smallest fish in the stew so that he will know she can 'manage' very well


POINT IS... IN RELATIONSHIPS, BOTH PARTIES TRY TO IMPRESS EACH OTHER.... WHY SINGLE OUT THE LADIES?

buygala:
Obviously, it isn't only men who put up an impression to get what they want

He forms Shell staff... She forms Redemption camp Virgin

He forms sex-ninja with Viagra and other Burantashis. .... She forms good girl with a tight vagina coated with alum coupled with all those fake "Baby it's paining me" cries during sex

He makes a deliberate effort to stop snoring and farting loudly in his sleep so as to impress her.... She downgrades from Brazilian wig to Togolese wig to impress him

He wears new boxers whenever she is visiting so that she won't think he is 'dirty'..... She takes the smallest fish in the stew so that he will know she can 'manage' very well


POINT IS... IN RELATIONSHIPS, BOTH PARTIES TRY TO IMPRESS EACH OTHER.... WHY SINGLE OUT THE LADIES?

buygala:
Obviously, it isn't only men who put up an impression to get what they want

He forms Shell staff... She forms Redemption camp Virgin

He forms sex-ninja with Viagra and other Burantashis. .... She forms good girl with a tight vagina coated with alum coupled with all those fake "Baby it's paining me" cries during sex

He makes a deliberate effort to stop snoring and farting loudly in his sleep so as to impress her.... She downgrades from Brazilian wig to Togolese wig to impress him

He wears new boxers whenever she is visiting so that she won't think he is 'dirty'..... She takes the smallest fish in the stew so that he will know she can 'manage' very well


POINT IS... IN RELATIONSHIPS, BOTH PARTIES TRY TO IMPRESS EACH OTHER.... WHY SINGLE OUT THE LADIES?

Dsimple:
number 6, satisfying u wit sex. even more than hw u want it, morning, afternoon. night. in d bedroom, kitchen, under mango tree, class room, mkt square late at night. etc thinking dat doing all this will make u deemed it unfare 2 abandone her

mentorandfriend:
That number 5. Lol.
There was this nurse that warmed her way into my mum's heart, because she learnt my mum was hypertensive.
She would visit home every now and then, check mum's blood pressure, buy her some antihypertensives, and help her to cook in the kitchen. On saturdays when she's not on duty at her clinic, she would carry her weekend stuffs and go to stay with my mum. Damn!
My mum was receiving it all in joy, while I got nothing from my supposed friend. After all, mum got to know her through me.
One day, I travelled home on a weekend and after eating and gisting and going to bed, mum came to my room in the middle of the night, woke me up and told me that if I don't end up marrying Chinenye, that she will kill herself for me. I told her to excuse me that I wanna sleep abeg.

Aitee1:
Iffa hear...nso ke adodo, ndö ado ke ikö

Aitee1:
Iffa hear...nso ke adodo, ndö ado ke ikö

Positiveminds:


Matrimony Analyst, clap for yourself.You must have had hell of relationships

tensazangetsu:
in life it's better to be realistic than optimistic lol

innervoice:


You are being pessimistic.

Raalsalghul:
Exactly what I said in my previous comment: some people confuse realism for pessimism.

innervoice:

And others pessimism for realism.

Johnnoah1st:
@OP, if someone try dat no.3 wit me, i wont mind to divorce her the next day after our wedding if i find out she is not a virgin and she trick me to believe she's one.

Tashaamania:
Ahh that number 5 though, my brother's girlfriend does it alot. She can disturb me with calls ehhnn. She even buys me stuff but I still don't like her.
Her famsing way of life annoys me.
It's okay to famz sometimes tho but abeg..No be me dey date you na give me a break..

ronald4lif:
Number 3 and 4 is the most common gimmicks many ladies employs to entrap a man into commitment.

They'd never engage you in an argument and will always accept whatever you say as the final verdict even when you're glaringly wrong. Some of them will greet you good morning like 10times a day forgetting they've greeted before. Dare you introduce them to your mum and they'd start being all nice to her so much that she'll be mounting pressure on you to come let you guys go perform the marital rites on her. But all these positive attitudes dwindles as soon as you get married and she bear a child. Her real personality will be unveiled at this point and then she'd start disagreeing with you and having her own opinion. Woe betides you if she starts earning as much money as you then your home could turn out an ISIS zone.

For the church thing, I think that's obsolete although some ladies still indulges and uses that to cajoling innocent men to commiting with them. In the morning she'll tell you she's in church, evening same and everyday of the week she's in one service or the other. These kind of women are the most boring to have a conversation with. Ask her how are you or how was your day for instance they'll respond with 'by God grace it was fine'. Every conversation you seek to have with them must be narrowed down to religion and similar triflings. But in reality, such ladies are the most dreaded and perilous to involve with.

Conclusively, women who can brainstorm with you and clutches tight on their opinion, disagree with you often are the most desirous and homely. Also, the ones who doesn't always deploy religious yearnings and always want to give off the impression that they're godly by gate crashing one crusade arena or the other are more friendly with enviable character. The overly religious ladies should be avoided. They're too specious. My opinion and no one is obligated to accede to it.

jammani:
What about Jazz