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TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by princemillla(m): 10:47am On Aug 18, 2015 |
He said he was a doctor , I didn’t have any cause to doubt him, he had extensive knowledge and even gave me some medical advice from time to time, we eventually moved from twitter to blackberry chat, we chatted all the time, I got so comfortable with him, I gave him my number, and that would come to be the biggest mistake I ever made. Tobi called me every day, some days he called more than once, at night he would call and I would lay on my bed and have phone intimacy with him, his voice was so soothing, he made me do things I never thought possible, he had gained so much access into my head, I realized later I had done some very sick and twisted things just to please him, I would take nude pictures of myself, I would send him videos of me touching myself in private, and send him voice notes of me making moaning sounds and simulating orgasms, and all this while we had not met, not face to face at least, eventually I played into his hands, I began pestering to meet him in person, at this point I had lost my mind, I assumed I was in-love with him, and when my boyfriend at the time broke up with me, I really welcomed it, for me it meant no more sneaking around. Tobi eventually agreed to come to lagos to meet me, all this while he had made me to believe he was in calabar, and would take time off work to spend a weekend with me in lagos, when I heard this I was excited, he told me to book a reservation for him, stating he would pay me back as soon as he arrived and also he said it would make him more committed to the visit and would convince him of my seriousness, I bought it all, he was smart, he was cunning, and I was stupid, oh how stupid I was. The funny thing was I had sent him tons of pictures, and all I had was just one picture of him, and whenever I asked he would claim he wanted to be sure I loved him for him, and not for his looks, and sheepishly I would try to convince him of my undying love, and would try to appease him with nude pictures of my body... He eventually made it to lagos, I met him at the hotel, he was tall, handsome and had a wonderful smile, he made love to me over and over, and convinced me to spend the night with him, I told him I couldn’t, because I had a test the next morning, now at this point I don’t know what triggered his anger, don’t know if it was because I couldn’t spend the night, or maybe I said something else I can’t remember saying, but whatever it was, brought out a very ugly side of him, he called me foul names, and kept going on and on about how he always knew I was cheap, and he knew I was sleeping with other men, the same man whom had swept me away, slammed me on the floor, he told me of how he had shown his friends all my nude pictures and how they had watched the videos and listened to the voice notes, he told me he had made a bet with his friends, that I would actually pay for him to have sex with me, just to prove how stupid I was, well you can imagine how I felt, I was confused and shocked, but I attempted to regain any little dignity I had left, and so I tried to mouth off at him, suddenly he punched me in the face, and I tripped over, and hit my head on a stool. The next thing I remember was waking up on the bed, I was tied up, and he was staring at me, his eyes were dark and he had a sinister smile on his lips, he stood up and walked towards me ,I tried to scream and realized my mouth was tapped, my head was racing, the unfortunate part was that no one knew where I was, he turned me over, and told me he was going to teach me a lesson, at this point I was naked, he rapped me from behind, and I mean my anus, the pain was mind blowing, I struggled, and he hit me, when he was done he brought out a small blade, and he looked at me for a minute and said, this scare is going to always serve as a reminder, for girls like you always trying to be more than you are, for stupid fools like you, he put the blade to my nipple and cut it off.... And anytime I think of it, I still feel the pain, it was like nothing I had ever felt before, he was calm, like he had done it a million times, I could feel the warm blood dripping down my mutilated breast, tears of fear and pain running down my face, and suddenly he turned around again, this time all I saw was a flash. I don’t know how I survived it, but I woke up in a hospital days after, well I was awake, bt my eyes were swollen shut, It took a couple of days for me to open my one good eye, and realize d damage he had done, he had plucked out my eye, and cut my face, he had cut my breasts up real bad, they had to it out, like I had cancer or something, there was no record of who I was, coz he had taken everything, he had taken my bag, containing everything I had. I was able to tell the nurses about what I could remember, and also give them my mum’s phone number, the hospital felt so much pity, they actually treated me for free, hard to believe right? Anyway I was taken home after weeks at the hospital to recuperate, it was tough, I was blind in one eye, I had one breast and a hideous scar of my face, talk about your sinage, he did a number on me, how dumb was I, sometimes I wish he had killed me, but there are fates worse than death, and I guess this is one of them, he was gone without a trace, the receipt from the hotel was in my name, so yes he had played me from the start. I didn’t dare go back to school, I was sure everyone would have heard, and I was not going to become a statistic, so I decided to stay home, and mind my business, besides what do I need an education for, I’d rather stay home, because there is no rising from this, there is no happy ending to this story, this is the simple ending, I was a victim if a sexual predator, and I let him into my life period, and I take full responsibility for that, I was driven by greed and lack of morals, I allowed myself fall into an abyss, but well saying all this doesn’t change anything.... It's a memory I will have to live with for the rest of my life, well not a memory, because I look at myself in the mirror everyday, who would want to see a nude picture of a woman with one breast, one eye, and a stub. I have decided to publish my story, because with the rise of social media there will be lots of victims! *Parents/guardians Train up your child in d way of d Lord, always pray for them, equip them nd guide them, Girls/Ladies find something doing with your life pls, have honour & dignity, It is well! Nice day! God bless you as u read |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Nobody: 11:05am On Aug 18, 2015 |
A boyfriend at hand is better than 10husbands in the bush. The devil you know is better than the Angel you dont know. Loyalty saves life's......you think you know it all and as such you can take care of yourself. My question for you is why did some people come before you in life. Its to guide people like you who came after. If you dont have loyalty in you how can you obey your seniors hence you fall unto this type of ordeal. For guys if you have loyalty, money will come. If you dont have loyalty then your only other option is fraud. Either way a guy succeeds but a girl dies or worse end up like the OV. |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Cutehector(m): 11:23am On Aug 18, 2015 |
Online dating... |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by dulux07(m): 11:24am On Aug 18, 2015 |
I hope ladies learn rm dis. I beliv social media is not d main issue. Its how cheap ladies present themselves nowadays n common sense. Never trust anyone.. meetin for d first time in an hotel is silly. Despite all d op has said, some foolish ladies wil stil fall victim. 1 Like |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by princemillla(m): 3:08pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Mods pls let this story hit the front page, so people can learn abeg. May we not fall victim if this terror. |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Rukkydelta(f): 3:11pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Hmmmn |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by jennamarv(f): 3:45pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
I couldn't even imagine myself reading this......gosh |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by ogogoro: 5:13am On Aug 19, 2015 |
This guy is a monster, but the morale of this story is s bit twisted. I as a parent would not just warn my girls, but also my boys too! It is this exclusive warning of girls that makes boys think they can go scot-free with this sort of behaviour! 6 Likes |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Pidggin(f): 6:54am On Aug 19, 2015 |
Sad story, but what efforts are being made by the police to investigate and arrest the man. What kind of country is this?! |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Bahaushiya: 7:27am On Aug 19, 2015 |
Gaskiya na Allah? Who would do this much to a human and walk free? *Disgusted* |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by sisisioge: 8:19am On Aug 19, 2015 |
Holy moses! |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by DeeMain(m): 12:00pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
@OP where is the source? Who is the girl to you? What a story! If this story is true, it's a sorry world. She that has ears let her hear! |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Nobody: 12:29pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
E TOO LONG.......................NO NEED READING IT!THE OP NO DO SUMMARY FOR SCHOOL. |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by cococandy(f): 3:14pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
ogogoro: |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Ewuro4: 3:24pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Been dodging this story because I know it'll infuriate me and it did. Pidggin: Nah that wasn't necessary. Even his pictures in her possession aren't enough to start an investigation. 1 Like |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Onegai(f): 4:52pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
ogogoro: Nothing more to say than this. Predators exist out there and parents should teach their sons and daughters to avoid them and also trains their sons and daughters not to prey on people. We can't keep telling girls "be afraid all the time" and keeping quiet to boys. Of course girls will start to hate and fear boys and boys will feel they can do anything they want with no repercussions. And everyone suffers for it. 2 Likes |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Mopricelezz(f): 8:11am On Aug 20, 2015 |
Oh My God! This is so pathetic |
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by jashar(f): 10:57am On Aug 20, 2015 |
[color=]This is a story that touches... she should release whatever info she has on the guy. [/color] |
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