My friend this,my friend that.
Op,it's a lie.There is no culture practising that in Nigeria.
If any potential FIL said that,then he must be a dubious man trying to take advantage of a young girl.

debolly:
Hello,
Please my friend needs your help urgently.
She is supposed to be introducing her boyfriend to her parents. But the problem is that her boyfriends culture dictates that his father first “tastes” her to know exactly where his cows are going and if she is valuable and worthy of his son. Her boyfriend is perfectly okay with it because its his culture and he wants to marry her but she has a big problem with it, she can’t run out because she is in
love with this man dearly and sincerely.
WHAT SHOULD SHE DO?

Hmmm

I really want to know the particular tribe that has this sick culture @O.P?

The guy is no longer interested in the relationship

ronald4lif:
Concocted story. Sh1t is a fabrication and doesn't happen anywhere in Nigeria.

this thread should be closed in line with the violation of rule 8. Don't post false information on
Nairaland...

Op if your story is true tell us which state and tribe. i know some cultures were originally repugnant but most of them have long been stopped. this is extremely absurd therefore i find it difficult to believe.

It's a big fat lie ooooo!!! Your boyfriend is just tired of the relationship cos you're to clingy and he needs an escape route since you've blocked every where. Probably doesn't want a woman swearing and cursing his seven generations

Lie lie lie I smell lies unless is not a Nigeria tribe

She can't sleep with him and she can't quit the relationship , so what advice do u want us to give u?

Mumu gist , which planet is ur BF from ? Do they use leaves in covering their genitals as clothes , cos I'm beginning to suspect that ur BF is from 'KUVUKI land

Liar

debolly:

I don't want to mention the tribe but it happens

Why bring the story here when you cant mention the tribe. I am forced to believe this is fabricated abeg park well

MizMyColi:
May that culture catch fire and BURRRN in Hades

hahahaha this is really laughter provoking

I don't normally do this but I believe the Op is trying her hands in fiction writing. Girl loves guy, guy loves girl, culture dictates guy's father sleeps with girl to determine girl's ability to satisfy guy sexually, girl detests it but love is blind, the culture is nameless but it is culture, nonetheless, girl seeks help and advice but has already let you known that whatever the piece of advice her love for guy is blind.

Besides the fact that it needs a little more polishing, this story makes for a good nollywood movie. Thumbs up, Op.

why dont I believe this..


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debolly:
Hello,
Please my friend needs your help urgently.
She is supposed to be introducing her boyfriend to her parents. But the problem is that her boyfriends culture dictates that his father first “tastes” her to know exactly where his cows are going and if she is valuable and worthy of his son. Her boyfriend is perfectly okay with it because its his culture and he wants to marry her but she has a big problem with it, she can’t run out because she is in
love with this man dearly and sincerely.
WHAT SHOULD SHE DO?

Why do you have to lie just because of front page? If I ask you to mention the tribe, you won't be able to do so. Mtchheeewww

debolly:

Hello,

Please my friend needs your help urgently.
She is supposed to be introducing her boyfriend to her parents. But the problem is that her boyfriends culture dictates that his father first “tastes” her to know exactly where his cows are going and if she is valuable and worthy of his son. Her boyfriend is perfectly okay with it because its his culture and he wants to marry her but she has a big problem with it, she can’t run out because she is in
love with this man dearly and sincerely.
WHAT SHOULD SHE DO?

This is what I keep telling folks all the time: ask questions before you marry anyone! You find ladies who ignorantly sell themselves into a life of torture after marriage as a result of poor knowledge of the customs and traditions of their husbands. All they are acquainted with is with the traditional marriage itself. They never get to find out any other thing until the unexpected happens. Please, try find out other customs like: in the case of untimely death etc. You find women forced to drink water used for bathing the dead man!!! Fellas are not felt out. Men too are forced to "marry" and "sex" dead females!!!

Be careful with the way you single folks play "married" and live together as pretentious couples. There are cases of "sudden" deaths; and the lives of the surviving "couples" are halted because of what traditions and customs of the deceased interprets.

Knowledge is useless power if not applied.

Good night!

@debolly
Tell your friend to plot 180 degrees from where she stands and move in that direction as quickly as she can!
.. her "love's eyes" could do with some spectacles.

Mogbe.. in this 21st century..

This same thing happened to a friend of mine. His father was an old man who was tasting all the girls my friend was bringing for marriage and kept rejecting them until he tasted ten virgins. Meanwhile, his son could not taste any of these girls because they were virgins. The son then suspected foulplay and protested. The old man was adamant and insisted that none of the girls was good enough for him and asked for more. At that point we devised a plan which worked and today my friend is happily married.