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u by sallyopy(f): 8:48pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
hello everyone . |
Re: u by mutter(f): 8:58pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
Longing for her own child Be careful it does not go too far. Start putting your foot down. You have a responsibility towards your baby to protect and give your best. Don't let your kind heart stand in the way. Please let her know her boundaries now, it would only become worse with time if you don't do that. Many people keep wanting to tell a first time mum what to do but being a mother comes naturally. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: u by cococandy(f): 9:16pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
Weird. Pls call her out on it. It's nice that she likes your child but it's creepy that she goes about telling people it her own child instead or even trying to stop you from breastfeeding your own baby. How does she try to prevent you from breastfeeding? Like take the baby away when you want to feed or what? 1 Like |
Re: u by Nobody: 9:21pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
sallyopy: Are you sure that baby is yours? I really doubt. Instead of you to protect your baby, you are here trying to please sister in law. Nigerian women sha. Una well done oh 1 Like |
Re: u by pharmagba: 9:29pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
My dear to be candid, it is not a thing of worry at all. I understand how you feel, your child seems to want another as no 1 instead of you. Just love your child and care for him with you best. Your child will always be yours nothing like mothers love. 1 Like |
Re: u by IamGabby: 9:30pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
Nope that's totally wrong,you are the mother of your baby,if your baby deserves any attention now,it should mostly be from you.I know she might be doing all that so as to have her own baby,but not at the detriment or expense of yours.Try to tell or show her through body language that your baby needs YOUR attention more. I pray she has her own soon.......she'll know how it feels lyk. 1 Like |
Re: u by GodnGold: 11:22pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
I can relate.To nip this in the bud eh,breastfeed your baby 20 times a day.Back the baby when you are busy and bathe d baby yourself.Always smile and talk to your baby like she/he understands.Finally,sleep on the same bed with your baby . henceforth nobody should touch your baby.I,your doctor says so. 2 Likes |
Re: u by royalsweetness(f): 11:55pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
I'm sure your sil just finds herself in the awkward position of having to be happy for you while she herself is ttc. You are the baby's number one care giver and I think you should give your baby all the care she deserves and she would always know who her mother is, as for stuff like telling people your baby is hers, you can just let that slide, especially if you love your sil as much as you claim to. You are obviously a first time mother cuz those ones know how to read extra meanings into everything 2 Likes |
Re: u by sallyopy(f): 7:39am On Aug 28, 2015 |
Re: u by sallyopy(f): 12:45pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
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Re: u by Nobody: 1:34pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
sallyopy:Firstly, what's she doing in your house instead of her husband's house? As you said, she's married |
Re: u by Chaulay1: 2:50pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
Just wondering who is older between the two of you and if you don't mind my asking how old are you both? 1 Like |
Re: u by sallyopy(f): 3:08pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
Chaulay1:lol, u think we r both under age right? anyway sometimes situation makes adult behave in a childish way. she has been married for over 15 years but on ttc. |
Re: u by thorpido(m): 3:12pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
Put your foot down as others have said.She has psychological issues because she is tcc. Why is she living in your house? 1 Like |
Re: u by Nobody: 3:42pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
sallyopy:am not married yet but I think you have to be careful inorder nt to hurt her feelings. Just as sum1 said,I can bet she's undergoing psychological problems. Its nt easy to be witout a child 4 over 15yrs hence do not do things irrationally nor say any word without thinking. Just try ur best to make sure ur child is always in ur care. Be d one to bath and feed her. Even her laundry should be done by you. My two cent. |
Re: u by Jennifer89(f): 3:51pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
why will u allow ur SIL stop u from breastfeeding ur own baby u gave birth to? what are her reasons? hmm plz just be careful and apply caution. |
Re: u by Chaulay1: 3:58pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
sallyopy: 15years!!! Wow, I now understand why you find it difficult to put her in her place. Just tread carefully and watch over your child. Don't let sentiments and pity push you into doing what is detriment to the bond that should exist between you and your child. Her friends in question, do they actually believe that the baby is hers? Do you both live together for now. If she only does this while you go on visit, it could be bearable but if you both live together you have to set boundaries. I mean who dictates to a mother when to breastfeed or not! 3 Likes |
Re: u by cococandy(f): 8:46pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
sallyopy: Because she probably lied to her friends that the baby is hers, she doesn't want them to see you feeding the baby. I kinda feel sorry for her. The pressure must be much on her. But All the same, that's creepy pls. Put a stop to it now. 1 Like |
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