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Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by ledaman: 9:05pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
My dear those people that advice you not to dish his food are still single and searching or suffering from emotional instability! if you love your spouse you will gladly dish his food with smile . |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by tintingz(m): 9:05pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706:Women are to be submissive to their husband that's what the bible said. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by lastpage: 9:06pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: And l also hope you noticed what the "end result" was/usually is, ....for a man who listens to his wife ALWAYS? A man has got to be a man, taking tough decisions and taking full responsibility for it (good or bad),.... is part of being a "real man". Lastpage! |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by otr1(m): 9:07pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Mutaino7:The thing tire me. Why would my wife be busy doing something else, while I'm eating? What kind of family is that? |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by toksbisola: 9:09pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
@Op; PLEASE WHAT IS THE FUSS ALL ABOUT? SERVE YOUR HUSBAND HIS FOOD PLEASE. It is not everything that one must make a complaint about. If it will make things easier for you, then why not wait until he sits on the table, then bring his food in and dish it straight away. PLAIN AND SIMPLE. I must point out though that one mans' meat is another mans' poison. For some men, they might not see any big deal in them serving their food themselves as seen in the comments by some men here. For other men, they see it as a big deal and again some men have attested to that fact by their comments here as well. By now, you should know the type of husband you married and IF IT IS A FUSS TO HIM THEN PLEASE SERVE HIM AND AVOID UNNECESSARY PROBLEMS/STRESS. It would not take a hair out of your body if you do so. Going back in time, most of our mothers dished the food of our fathers and our mothers also sit down by them and watch them eat their food in style. In fact, some fathers would be smiling eating their wife’s food after being served as a king. A piece of advice for you @OP; please allow peace to reign in your home. If serving your husband his food would bring that peace then what is the fuss all about? Avoid allowing something as trivial as this to escalate into something big. It is not everything that one must be stubborn about or claim “I AM RIGHT AND I WOULD NOT CHANGE”. To note, there are far more challenging issues in a marital home than for this little (as that is how I see it IMHO) issue to cause you sleepiness nights. If that is the norm that your husband wants (different strokes for different folks); then please succumb for peace to reign in the family. PS; in this day and age, it only takes some trivial issues for divorce proceedings to start. Recently, some trivial issues like that have been brought to the front page of NL. Take this as an alert. All the best I rest my case 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 9:11pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
CSTR2:Christ said husbands love ur wives as Christ loved the church. A husband should be ready to give his life for his wife if need be. The relationship between God and us is not even a master/servant relationship, so what are we saying? A leader is to serve not to be served 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Raymie(m): 9:14pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
@OP, it appears yhur supposed husband expects to see his food directly on his plate. Solution, skip the dinner bowls, serve in dish straight from the pot. Thereby husband has his 'complete service' and wife can get along with her 'busyness'. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by otr1(m): 9:14pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
SmartMugu:I wonder why a good wife should be busy doing something else while her husband is at the dining table. Something is wrong if young couples eat from different plates at this early stage of their marriage. The lady isn't saying the whole truth. The man has a reason for demanding she dishes the food 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by CSTR2: 9:17pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706:The quality of love of the husband towards the wife should be unconditional and total. That is what the passage was talking about. It doesn't change the fact that husband originally means master. Unless you are telling me that God has changed from the God of abraham whose wife called him master and served him as one. And yes, Jesus is our master and lord as well as our friend and father. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 9:20pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
edwife:I love this. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by CSTR2: 9:21pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
And yes a leader is called to serve. But the followers must submit and follow his orders and instructions. It is the quality of service the followers render to the leader that determines how well the leader serves. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by ladygudhead(f): 9:25pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
SonOfEl: I was trying not to comment when I saw the feminists start arriving. Both u and Timbuktou has really nailed it all.nobody is slaving nobody.Sarah's case is enough for us to comprehend this whole issue. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 9:26pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Johnrake69:Mothers be raising spoilt brats everywhere. Tomorrow now ur wife will be cursing ur mother for raising such an entitled brat 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 9:30pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
sonofananimal:E no go ever pass this yeye threat. Will the world end? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 9:31pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
CSTR2:Must? Do you follow ALL of God's commands? If you don't, you are just a hypocrite 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by sparkleice(f): 9:33pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
;DSweetie m nt marrid yet oo bt if my hubby request I dish out hs food I won't only. Dish out I wl sit & watch him eat I wil evn spoon feed him,evn feed him 2ru my mouth.I wl sit watch him eat & do sme romantic touches. So my dear der s nothng bad u dishng out food for ur hubby excpt u want him to look outside.so save ur marriage & do d needfull |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 9:40pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Gaidenk:Please be traditional to the fullest. Fling that phone that you used in typing this comment after all it was made by white men. Hard earned money ba? Sheybi women don't contribute financially? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Deehvahrzz(f): 9:42pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: @your signature.... So he can sleep well, she should put d food on her head or kneel on the table so it can stand on her back while she's doing d Jane-Jane pose. It is a very silly thing to ask for. If u can't even dish ur own food for ur self. I guess he would expect d wife to burp him so he can blech too.. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by 6fit(f): 9:43pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706:do u have to post rubish? Or r u clueless? |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by ALISMILE(m): 9:44pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
cococandy:since that's wat he wants, what do u suggest? Divorce? |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by amparas(m): 9:45pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
na waooooo. weti u d think sef. u gat to dish his food 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 9:45pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Stillfire:I tell u. By God's grace, I'll never raise men like this. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 9:46pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
majekdom2:Where is the love the bible talked about? |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by ALISMILE(m): 9:48pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
sparkleice:I think I will like u to be my wife! |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Moana(f): 9:51pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706:You can always put the food directly into your adopted child's plate right after cooking, then place it on the table with another plate covering it or something. It will save you from washing a million dishes after he is done anyway. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 9:51pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
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Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by adesbreath: 9:53pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
J byvan03: Now your talking, your first post was too direct and u dint reason this way. We should always be positive and hope for better things, and also know how to embrace change and come out at the top. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by belamore: 9:54pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
My dear, u don't need to ask dis question. If u really love ur husband u wud love to cook for him, serve him n watch him eat! Infact u wud derive joy from eat! I derive joy dishin food watching my husband eat. Pls do so n d man wud love u more! |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 9:54pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
6fit:Sue me if it pinches u that bad |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Moana(f): 9:55pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
lastpage: Wait let me understand so you would think that divorcing a woman because she didn't put food in a plate is a very sound and mature thing to do? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 9:57pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Imagine I just got back from work about an hour ago. I try and cook for you and you call me and insist I must dish it for you. The tin wey I go do/say to you eh, you will never have the lover to repeat that rubbish. What's all this? #teamoyibomenjare 2 Likes |
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