SAMBARRY:
fasting and prayer nko?

Ewuro4:


MY VIEWS?

*When a wife feels enslaved and Inferior 'serving' her man then somt'n sdefwrong

*He's not worth your service hence your rebellion.

Shikena

Joy1706:

How about you serving your wife the way you serve your mother? Hope that would go down well with you .

byvan03:



Most women mistake the gift bearer as a friend, you look at the content of a man's heart. I realised that when you see a Man/woman whining on how terrible and beastly their spouse is, know that he/she knows exactly where the rain started beating them.

Any woman that claims she doesn't know who she married is either a liar or chose to stick her head into the sand

byvan03:
If a woman actually brought this out as an issue for discussion, I doubt the efficacy of her brain box .

Timbuktou:


Ewuro, thanks for bringing this angle to the conversation. And this redirects me to Bukatyne who is a supporter of service for christians. Bukatyne, would you say this man was out of line for demanding his wife serve him? I'm asking you as a christian not as a feminist.

Timbuktou:


Ewuro, thanks for bringing this angle to the conversation. .

byvan03:
If a woman actually brought this out as an issue for discussion, I doubt the efficacy of her brain box .

byvan03:
If a woman actually brought this out as an issue for discussion, I doubt the efficacy of her brain box .

bukatyne:


Hmm so so true

That's why I used to ask 'Did he/she not know before marriage' until ....

Ewuro4:


Right on the money jare.

I suppose bold all sef.

How are THE BOYS madam?

byvan03:



Stuck up mentality, "that is how our fathers did it " mentality, I believe the signs are always there from the beginning, let them enjoy whoever they married abeg.

Some women claim they married their friend and suddenly he changed to....people can say anything when they choose to cast blames.

Why can't people be spontaneous, flow with the tide, just be comfortable with themselves, just serve each other for the love of "us".....

Ewuro4:


No worries Bro.

So you didn't notice the bone of contention in the Thread all along? *sprinkes water on his face* It's Family section remember

Master/slave rabble rousers.

Make I watch Donald Trump small jare, Comedy Central on CNN lately.

byvan03:



They know wella but longer throat/desperation dey wear some tinted goggles, so to see am nah war.

When such flimsy thing becomes an issue, then something is wrong. I mean is natural for one to pull out a plate and dish food that is set right in front of him, it is still very natural for a wife to pull out a plate and dish it herself for her man, either way it goes shouldn't be a problem in a healthy union.

Chidoks:
lol. nne dish food o.hian ! food wey don dey in front of him? abeg my sister it will cost you nothing to leave your chores and dish food o.after dishing his food linger on till he starts eating then rub his head and call him " your majesty" ( only if he's the playful type o because this your husband be like say na GOC)
but wait o are you a 24/7 house wife? i asked becausr as he was hurrying out you too should be hurrying out.

byvan03:



They know wella but longer throat/desperation dey wear some tinted goggles, so to see am nah war.

When such flimsy thing becomes an issue, then something is wrong. I mean is natural for one to pull out a plate and dish food that is set right in front of him, it is still very natural for a wife to pull out a plate and dish it herself for her man, either way it goes shouldn't be a problem in a healthy union.

edwife:


I will never understand some women ,really? how does serving a man you love and call "better half" a problem?

How long does it take self?

Ewuro4:


No worries Bro.

So you didn't notice the bone of contention in the Thread all along? *sprinkes water on his face* It's Family section remember

Master/slave rabble rousers.

Make I watch Donald Trump small jare, Comedy Central on CNN lately.

byvan03:




Lol, but seriously dear, imagine setting the table in front of your husband wanting to dish the food then you heard your baby wailing like there is no tomorrow, you thought he had fallen from the bed. You dropped the plate, rushed into your room, picked the boy and stuck his natural pacifier into his mouth.

On returning back to the dining, guy man still sitdon dey mope at plates ,waiting for you to dish into a plate for him, is that natural? If a man really loves his wife as himself, chances are he ran into the room with his wife or he started sorting out himself while asking "wetin happen?".

There are things that will never be an issue if only people marry for the love of me + u =1 "us".

byvan03:




Lol, but seriously dear, imagine setting the table in front of your husband wanting to dish the food then you heard your baby wailing like there is no tomorrow, you thought he had fallen from the bed. You dropped the plate, rushed into your room, picked the boy and stuck his natural pacifier into his mouth.

On returning back to the dining, guy man still sitdon dey mope at plates ,waiting for you to dish into a plate for him, is that natural? If a man really loves his wife as himself, chances are ,he ran into the room with his wife or he started sorting out himself while asking "wetin happen?".

There are things that will never be an issue if only people marry for the love of me + u =1 "us".

bukatyne:


I read some things here and wonder if there is a manual shared somewhere..

Remember that who should greet first in husband and wife thread years back? I stumbled on it one day

I 100% agree with you, that cliché 'courtship is different' is very wrong.

Abeg, let them carry go

byvan03:



Talking to his Alfas, Pastors and Ancestors nko

bukatyne:


I am even thinking sef..

If the man is ready to eat, is there a need to serve in coolers?

Why not just dish his food in a plate?

Before someone begins to misthink

byvan03:




;DThat thread about who greets first, very unbelievable thread i tell you! One will go nuts if you take anything read here seriously.

Maybe there is a manual, talk of robotic marriage, union of the clones .

edwife:


If it happens the way you put up here,i categorically tell you that no man in his right sense will stay put and waiting for you.
So such woman needs to check herself for marrying such a fellow.

For me it even all about fun,eating together,feeding each other or serving him- no big deal.

byvan03:



Believe me when I tell you that I missed that part too,may be not dishing in a cooler first shows lack of respect .

bukatyne:


In the Bible... Men are to serve their wives etc. we have an example in Jesus when He washed the feet of His disciples

My answer as a Christian doesn't/ will not contradict my answer as a feminist. They all form a part of the whole bukatyne.

A wife cooks and serves the food in a tray/cooler on the dining table. She expects her husband to dish himself because she has other chores to attend to and he finds it a problem?

All Hail 'Nigerian' husbands.

SAMBARRY:



it is necessary. The alfa and pastor needs to know

Timbuktou:


Yet, theses disciples called him master and they served him in the way Jesus expected of them, didn't they? now, that you're referring to Jesus and his disciples, shouldn't wives call their husbands Lord? Anyway, moving on.

Surely, you're not referencing the conventional bible we have all come to know. If not you'd have no issues with the head of the house and Lord demanding that his 'disciple" do as the master demands. Then, again, it's you. We don't know what bible you read.

There's cooler/tray in the bible? Or her expectations trump that of her master and Lord? In what biblical planet are these roles reversed Deaconess Bukky? Which means she can leave foods half-cooked or burn them because there are other chores to handle. Having chores is a good reason to leave other chores half-done or abandoned completely? That wife is a very special foolish breed.

We greet you, our 'Nigerian' wives.

Timbuktou:


Ewuro, thanks for bringing this angle to the conversation. And this redirects me to Bukatyne who is a supporter of service for christians. Bukatyne, would you say this man was out of line for demanding his wife serve him? I'm asking you as a christian not as a feminist.