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Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by byvan03: 12:01pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:03pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Ewuro, thanks for bringing this angle to the conversation. And this redirects me to Bukatyne who is a supporter of service for christians. Bukatyne, would you say this man was out of line for demanding his wife serve him? I'm asking you as a christian not as a feminist. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by byvan03: 12:04pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
If a woman actually brought this out as an issue for discussion, I doubt the efficacy of her brain box . |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:05pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Joy1706: My mother would be served ny my wife were she to come visiting. Seriously, Joy, put some mental effort into this thing. In any case, the place of the husband should be held in higher regard than father by the wife-daughter 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Ewuro4: 12:05pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
byvan03: Right on the money jare. I suppose bold all sef. How are THE BOYS madam? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Ewuro4: 12:05pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
byvan03: 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bukatyne(f): 12:10pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: In the Bible... Men are to serve their wives etc. we have an example in Jesus when He washed the feet of His disciples My answer as a Christian doesn't/ will not contradict my answer as a feminist. They all form a part of the whole bukatyne. A wife cooks and serves the food in a tray/cooler on the dining table. She expects her husband to dish himself because she has other chores to attend to and he finds it a problem? All Hail 'Nigerian' husbands. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Ewuro4: 12:11pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: No worries Bro. So you didn't notice the bone of contention in the Thread all along? *sprinkes water on his face* It's Family section remember Master/slave rabble rousers. Make I watch Donald Trump small jare, Comedy Central on CNN lately. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by edwife(f): 12:11pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
byvan03: I will never understand some women ,really? how does serving a man you love and call "better half" a problem? How long does it take self? 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bukatyne(f): 12:12pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
byvan03: What would you have her do? It might be minor or inconsequential to you but see people talking about dishing the food so that the husband doesn't look outside? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by byvan03: 12:14pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
bukatyne: They know wella but longer throat/desperation dey wear some tinted goggles, so to see am nah war. When such flimsy thing becomes an issue, then something is wrong. I mean is natural for one to pull out a plate and dish food that is set right in front of him, it is still very natural for a wife to pull out a plate and dish it herself for her man, either way it goes shouldn't be a problem in a healthy union. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Chidoks(f): 12:14pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
lol. nne dish food o.hian ! food wey don dey in front of him? abeg my sister it will cost you nothing to leave your chores and dish food o.after dishing his food linger on till he starts eating then rub his head and call him " your majesty" ( only if he's the playful type o because this your husband be like say na GOC) but wait o are you a 24/7 house wife? i asked becausr as he was hurrying out you too should be hurrying out. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by byvan03: 12:16pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
U Ewuro4: They are good dear and the big girls? Hope they are cool . 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bukatyne(f): 12:16pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
byvan03: I read some things here and wonder if there is a manual shared somewhere.. Remember that who should greet first in husband and wife thread years back? I stumbled on it one day I 100% agree with you, that cliché 'courtship is different' is very wrong. Abeg, let them carry go |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by edwife(f): 12:18pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Exactly! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by edwife(f): 12:19pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
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Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bukatyne(f): 12:19pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Chidoks: This is another angle to it. If she is then she should arrange her chores to leave room to dish the food 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bukatyne(f): 12:22pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
byvan03: The things one hears and reads joor. It gets you calculating the time and distance of things that should flow naturally |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by byvan03: 12:26pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
edwife: Lol, but seriously dear, imagine setting the table in front of your husband, wanting to dish the food then you heard your baby wailing like there is no tomorrow, you thought he had fallen from the bed. You dropped the plate, rushed into your room, picked the boy and stuck his natural pacifier into his mouth. On returning to the dining, guy man still sitdon dey mope at plates ,waiting for you to dish into a plate for him, is that natural? If a man really loves his wife as himself, chances are ,he ran into the room with his wife or he started sorting out himself while asking "wetin happen?". There are things that will never be an issue if only people marry for the love of me + u =1 "us". 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:32pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Lol. I just tend to ignore and scroll away from certain posters jare. But ahving read your comment, had to go back and see the contrary views. Trump no dey chill o. The guy dey fire like Baba Iyabo. I hope he wins. |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by edwife(f): 12:32pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
byvan03: If it happens the way you put up here,i categorically tell you that no man in his right sense will stay put and waiting for you. So such woman needs to check herself for marrying such a fellow. For me it even all about fun,eating together,feeding each other or serving him- no big deal. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bukatyne(f): 12:32pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
byvan03: I am even thinking sef.. If the man is ready to eat, is there a need to serve in coolers? Why not just dish his food in a plate? Before someone begins to misthink 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by byvan03: 12:34pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
bukatyne: ;DThat thread about who greets first, very unbelievable thread i tell you! One will go nuts if you take anything read here seriously. Maybe there is a manual, talk of robotic marriage,union of the clones . 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SAMBARRY: 12:35pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
byvan03: it is necessary. The alfa and pastor needs to know |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by byvan03: 12:38pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
bukatyne: Believe me when I tell you that I missed that part too,may be not dishing in a cooler first shows lack of respect . 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bukatyne(f): 12:38pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
byvan03: @Bold Volume 1 or volume 2? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by byvan03: 12:39pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
edwife: Now you get the point!! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bukatyne(f): 12:40pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
byvan03: Hahahahahahhahahahhahahaahahahaha! Hilarious I tell you Serve first in coolers/dishes and dish into a plate When it is not a party or buffet or for the whole family 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Nobody: 12:40pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
bukatyne: Yet, theses disciples called him master and they served him in the way Jesus expected of them, didn't they? now, that you're referring to Jesus and his disciples, shouldn't wives call their husbands Lord? Anyway, moving on. Surely, you're not referencing the conventional bible we have all come to know. If not you'd have no issues with the head of the house and Lord demanding that his 'disciple" do as the master demands. Then, again, it's you. We don't know what bible you read. There's cooler/tray in the bible? Or her expectations trump that of her master and Lord? In what biblical planet are these roles reversed Deaconess Bukky? Which means she can leave foods half-cooked or burn them because there are other chores to handle. Having chores is a good reason to leave other chores half-done or abandoned completely? That wife is a very special foolish breed. We greet you, our 'Nigerian' wives. 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by byvan03: 12:42pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: :oThat means America must know! . ;Dfamily section....still as fun as ever! . 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by bukatyne(f): 12:42pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Okay 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by Joy1706(f): 12:43pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou:As a christian, the leader is meant to serve |
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