Most ladies have dreams of actually wearing that white beautiful gown one day. A wedding gown it is called. When you actually have someone who is ready to spend the rest his life with you planing for marriage becomes a thorn. This is the most difficult part. planing a wedding. Can't we just go to court and get on with our lives thinking of the whole thing is scary. Expenses keeps piling. You can't even pick an item because every thing cost money. Now what will the poor guy do now. Should he get an apartment first which cost 300k or more, should he collect list for the marriage which speculated amount may be high. Should he pay his bill worth 100k should he renew his mother rent which is 250k. Now am stuck. This is too much I pity him a lot. I want to help but when the cash start with 200k 300k ha. Him self go ask me where am geting the money from. My work with low income.

It all has to do with planning and time(right time)

Spendin z sweet wen dy z means. If weddin reach, 1.5m, She cn wait, yl i go for BMW 640 series. Bc I must buy her a car dt day. To hell wit coca-cola n cake.

When a man is focused with a clear cut plan about his future certain challenges appear easy.

When I told my then girlfriend(now my wife) about my plans of wedding her immediately after school, she thought I was kidding. Bit today we are happily married and living just fine by his grace.

Below steps helped:
1. Started job hunting right from school and stated working immidiately after graduation.

2. Saved and got a comfortable apartment within 10 months of working.

3. Assisted her with job hunting which made it easy for her to get one thereby reducing the load which would have been much on me giving the fact that we wanted a comfortable wedding and life.

4. We worked for 2 years and saved a reasonable sum and equally worked on ourselves and on our already laid down plans.

5. Had our introduction, TM, registry and white wedding on our 3rd year working anniversary and we are currently living comfortable without borrowing or asking for assistance during and after the wedding.

Planning and having mutual understating made everything seem easy for us. In fact her parents and siblings were asking if I can succeed in my quest giving the fact that I never wanted a low key wedding coupled with the fact that I have not worked for long. But when they visited my apartment a year before the wedding, her elder ones convinced their parents that I am more than ready.

Just have an idea of the kind of event and life you want to live after the wedding. Every other thing will fall in place.