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Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by MrsDoctor: 10:56am On Sep 29, 2015 |
I better hope you are not a woman, i know of a friend that called it off before the marriage and it paid off, this man had been pretending like for ever and when he thought o its a 3 weeks to go. he landed her slap for calling one of her male friends that has a deco company to help with decoration.It's obvious he doesn't want any man close to her. Stop talking nonsense, i beg, its better not to post. excellencyabia1: |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by YourCoffin: 10:57am On Sep 29, 2015 |
If your friend hit him first, she should go on with the wedding. If not, cancel it sharp sharp |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by Kitme(f): 11:27am On Sep 29, 2015 |
MizMyColi:lmao how do I do that?? is it something like this? or what's the code? [quote][\quote] |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by MizMyColi(f): 11:38am On Sep 29, 2015 |
Kitme: exactly just put the text in between. |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by mylove4him(f): 1:03pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
I rarely contribute but when it has to do with abuse I can't just ignore. Please kitme, please tell your friend to put the marriage on hold while issues like this is sorted out. Any man with anger issues is a recipe for marriage disaster. I have seen it happen to a close family member. Hers isn't only physical abuse, verbal and emotional abuse is involved. He is proud and arrogant and doesn't listen to anyone. So please if he looks and behaves anyway like the man I have mentioned above. She should run for her life. Don't follow the old wives tales that he will change after marriage or kids will change him. They never change unless God changes them. I will advise she put it on hold or rather she calls of. Don't follow the saying that all men are the same. All men aren't the same. Some are loving and respect their wives. While some are just proud and egoistic that believes the only word in bible is submission. So they sing it like Psalm 91. A word is enough for the wise. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by Timbuktuo: 7:40pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
The wedding should be called off. Why? 1. If he hit her unprovoked, he will continue hitting her till the end of time. 2. If he hit her as a response to any verbal abuse, it will happen again. Not every man will tolerate a sharp-tongues woman. It would be wise of her to end it now or risk losing an eye in the future. 3 Likes |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by DollyParton1(f): 11:34pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
I think the lady probably saw this coming. The guy must have been showing some traits of aggressiveness. If he can hit you once, whether provoked or not, chances are high that he will do it again. 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by Blade21: 3:17am On Sep 30, 2015 |
Truckpusher:U are a wise man E hug #peace# |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by Nobody: 8:51am On Sep 30, 2015 |
Woman beater! That's the ONLY thing that can make me divorce. If you know you are a good fighter, go ahead, if not, walk please. |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by focus7: 11:09am On Sep 30, 2015 |
Battery is an inbuilt instinct, God just made him demonstrate it to made realise what you are going to experience in marriage with him, if you are wise is better to council the wedding now. |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by sevule(m): 7:06pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
Timbuktuo: Best answer in my opinion! The question is what stops him from beating her again? And the answer is NOTHING! There are some lines than once crossed there is no going back, and battery is one of those lines 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by Nobody: 8:38pm On Sep 30, 2015 |
I know some women can be loose with their tongues. I also know how maddening their behaviour can be, yet, a man should NEVER EVER EVER raise his hand to hit a woman, not to talk of his wife-to-be. whatever happened to walking away. this slap is just a preview to what is coming. trust me, when you get married to him that's when you will begin to see his true color after all you are stuck with him now. if she is just learning about his anger issues, I wonder what else she will discover when they get married, drinking problem? womanising? etc. be careful. |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by soonest(f): 9:36pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
excellencyabia1:Hmmh! The said man isn't the only man in the word. Op, use your tongue to count your teeth. What will stop him from hitting you when you marry him. Definitely scenario worse than what caused the slap now will arise in marriage. Advise yourself o |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by SAMBARRY: 9:13am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Pidggin:help me ask her 1 Like
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Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by SAMBARRY: 9:40am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Kitme:I'm sure the people you are trying to impress and care about what they think will buy bandage and plaster and pay for your hospital bills after he has beaten you blue Black don't deceive yourself. They're only interested in your wedding party and how they will use that opportunity to show off their latest clutch bag and shoe and have fun not your marriage so you better do yourself a favour 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by SAMBARRY: 9:56am On Oct 02, 2015 |
soonest:op is not a baby . she knows better. In fact you're lucky he has shown his true colour before you walk down the aisle with him. Those giving you stooped advice that there's no perfect man anywhere will be the same people to make jest of you with the popular line saying shebi na you wey wan marry carry your cross go and pray and fast you're too mouthy that is why 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by SAMBARRY: 10:05am On Oct 02, 2015 |
When your mother or father raises their voice at you why don't you slap them when your elder sister or brother talks to you anyhow why don't you beat them. Then if your boss insults you why don't you remove the belt in your waist and beat him or her. How come self control and self restraints takes control of you but the same self control cannot control your fist in the middle of a disagreement with your wife please tell me another story McCarlito: 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by Pidggin(f): 10:33am On Oct 02, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Sambarry is on fire! Sister cool jor, don't give yourself headache on another persons matter [hands ice water] abeg drink am |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by Juzzybabe(f): 1:29pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
It is indeed good to be positive about things,but never expect attitudes to get better after marriage. |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by SAMBARRY: 1:53pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
Pidggin:no I need a glass of jack Daniels then put four ice cubes inside then I'll be ok |
Re: He Hit Her Few Weeks To Their Wedding? Should She Go On With The Wedding? by Evacroft: 12:35am On Jun 18, 2018 |
If she goes ahead she has to know that she has to pretend ,let go and choose to always rub his ego. Agreeing to almost whatever he says might work for her but if she cant do all this and more she better run cos he wont change. Any little twitch can make him react violently since he has bad temper. |
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