And what happens if after the end of your self-imposed "break-up" you guys don't get back together..

It's very presumptious to assume that you're totally in control of such things, and the other persons' feelings don't count in the matter...

For all of those castigating the party who forgot, what if the shoe were on the other foot.. would you still subscribe to these feelings and sentiments..

Birthdays come and go.. It's what u do with the rest of the time that matters... Events missed can always be made up for...

So better get back to living.. and loving..

guy check this out, two years back to back ive been broke on my girl friends birtheday as is "so broke" and of course she vexed but after a lil while she let go, so i decided to open an event/emergency account and i put in money there on profit days and hope that i would get so broke before july next year that ill have to get to the other side of my bank account

i'd tell her i'm sorry and buy her 100's of roses and buy her some not some lot's of chocolates and some jewells

........ that's nice

it's nice 2 know that we @ least have some romantic guys in da house ...... two thumbs up guys.....

nice Jen, if i was your girl i will totally forgive you.

absolutely.....

yeah.

My first and last boyfriend didnt not give me pin for my birthday. hell, he didnt even know the date , but hey, everybody forgets things sometimes, so i let it go. we broke up months after that tho, but for a totally different reason .

but if my next Boyfriend forgets, i wont be mad, na present i wan chop abi na card?

i 4got in 2k2 and 2k3,gosh..................its was a shame

Rolly,neva mind...............i won't 4get urs

yeah right!

yeah,i mean it

Lets face facts forgetting a boyfriend /girlfriends birthday is like telling them they are not important to you. If it ever happens to me , breaking up with the guy would only portray me to be very shallow. I'll so make him pay for it that, the following year, he'll have reminders set and going off just to remind him of the date.

hmmmm, nice approach

i think it really kinda silly for both parties to eva 4get woeva's birthday

yeah, i agree with u

prettyH:

Lets face facts forgetting a boyfriend /girlfriends birthday is like telling them they are not important to you. If it ever happens to me , breaking up with the guy would only portray me to be very shallow. I'll so make him pay for it that, the following year, he'll have reminders set and going off just to remind him of the date.

PrettyH, ahh "o sure pe yen o de ti poju sa?" (you sure that is not too much?) take it easy oo, i know it is a little irresponsible but not necessarily thoughtless, how about those of us (like me) with intermittent memory gaps?  na im be say i go get punishment tire 

i will sell to you more memory card

nicetohave:

PrettyH, ahh "o sure pe yen o de ti poju sa?" (you sure that is not too much?) take it easy oo, i know it is a little irresponsible but not necessarily thoughtless, how about those of us (like me) with intermittent memory gaps? na im be say i go get punishment tire

lol. By the time i'm thru wiv ya ur memory would be as good as new.

mayb he needs to reformat it sef

kaylala:

i will sell to you more memory card

prettyH:

. By the time i'm through with ya your memory would be as good as new.

kaylala:

mayb he needs to reformat it sef

nice ones i believe all the above measures can and will work, id like to try PrettyH option first before reformatting my memory kaylala, i might lose more valuable information in the process of reformatting

Today is MY birthday and my bf forgot im talking to him right now and he just dosent remember i dont know what to say

I SO SORRY TO HEAR THAT, but don't be sad be happy girl is your birthday and it all about you today HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO JEZZIKA.

Jezzika:

Today is MY birthday and my boyfriend forgot im talking to him right now and he just dosent remember i don't know what to say

say nofin

Nice2have,nevermind i will back u up.

He rember my birthday.. but im feeling very sad right now. We were suspose to go out for dinner but we got into an argument so ended up crying all nite feeling disappointed. He was very stress out from work and I got home with attitude kicking his shoe cus it was always laying around the hallway. He ask me whats my freaken problem.. I expected him to say Happy bday honey and pamper me. I got lots of attentions from my frens but I only wish that my man wud be the one to put a smile on my face.. Dated him for 2years.. fell in love with him cus he's a very caring, smart, and funny person. But most of the holidays he just doesnt kno how to put a smile on my face.. why I always try my best to make him happy on his bday.. nothing is for certain, thats why I dont want to regret not trying my best to show the one I love how much he means to me. You may never kno if you will ever get the chance to share the occassions together.. I been feeling like maybe I should break up and move on, but without him I feel very miserable cus I love him and he makes me happy.. but why do I feel so sad lately about us?

i remember when i was still dating my ex and he didn't remember my birthday *rolls eyes* was i angry? no! more like fuming

women and borthdays , will they ever outgrow this primitive evolutionary whim?

welcome to Nairaland Jezzika, leave your boyfriend alone...............men will always be men

@jezzika

Some guys remember, some don't while others just feign not remembering. So don't take it personal . Understand which group your b/f falls into and that'll solve the problem.


@maxbabe
Obviously there exists a communication barrier in your relationship. Why not talk to him about it? Certainly that'll simplify issues.


BTW welcome on board guys. Hope you have fun.

how can u 4get da birthday of a gal u claim 2 love
it definetely calls 4 anger