Okay Ladies [and gentlemen],
Y do most men always speak of how they would love to marry a virgin,and they do not consider keeping themselves pure too for the matrimonial bed.
Does it mean that d females are not worthy of Virgin husbands? Or is there something i'm missing?
[d post about the man that found out he's wife wasn't a virgin just got me thinking]

yeah true, but quite hard

quiet, i hear you. virgin husbands full everywhere if you want one let us know. afterall its a mans world abi i dey lie?

@menkiti
[sighs disappointedly] never hinted i needed one, read the last line in bracket again
*no hard feelings*

There's no way of knowing unless you're told. Men have nothing to be broken.
It's nice to know you're the only woman your man has ever with tho, but trust men they won't give women the pleasure.

it isn't true, the luck you black guys have it's that you have been all circumcised, if you hadn't I could tell if a man is virgin or not,

Very true,its just because there's no way d ladies can tell,thats just y d men can really lord it over d females about purity

EmemJU:

There's no way of knowing unless you're told. Men have nothing to be broken.
It's nice to know you're the only woman your man has ever with tho, but trust men they won't give women the pleasure.

You can't tell if an uncircumcised man is a virgin or not either!

If you go by my own definition of virgin, all men are virgins! So all ladies are lucky because they all married or will marry virgins but not all men would marry or married virgin though a good number of men are lucky.

That's a good issue you raised, Quiet. There's been so much emphasis on female virgins and none on male ones. The world is just used to crucifying the females. Why would a man who has had sex before want to marry a virgin. Do you know what i think? Those guys who fall into this group are just being hypocrites. The Bible says that our bodiy is the temple of the Holy Spirit. It didn't say only female bodies. The problem in our society is that male virgins are regarded as being weak.
My advice to all guys is that they shouldn't bring curses on their spouses by keeping their bodies for heir wifes too. Most of the problems faced by some cou[les are a result of the sexual excapades of the man before he got married. That's what i think.

@iice
haba

@topic:
I was a virgin till i met my current fiancee. We took each other's. I think that's a good thing for the 2 of us. I wd probably have been frustrated.

There are lotta virgin guys out there. Though most men wont tell u this is there first time. But u should be able to tell from how they do it. I know friends that have never been there before. Lot of them. Grown guys, that flaunt around even with 'em fast cars etc.

Hmmm wonder if i'll really love to marry a virgin husband??

There a lot of virgin men. Its just most of the ladies love to believe lies, they love the sweet talking guys who are just there to decieve them. Its so bad!!!

i doubt if a man can remain a virgin till marriage

Dear All,

This issue of virginity is coming up too often. Its a good thing for a man to be a virgin but it won't make sense for him to go after a woman with years of ... he will forever regret it. As for the guys that are not virgins looking for virgin girls its like robing Peter to pay Paul or better still trying to reap from where you did not sow. If you don do am tire look for people like you and the equation would be balance. As for those who said they don't believe a man can stay virgin till he marries, my dear, it is possible.

But pls, if u never spoil, stay put, if you don spoil, stop there. Virginity should not be a basics for marriage, character, attitude, disposition, vision, commitment, genuine love, are more important than virginity. Anything you don't know can be known, anything you haven't done will be done, that is just it.

i am a virgin oh.

who doesnt know

jess:

That's a good issue you raised, Quiet. There's been so much emphasis on female virgins and none on male ones. The world is just used to crucifying the females. Why would a man who has had sex before want to marry a virgin. Do you know what i think? Those guys who fall into this group are just being hypocrites. The Bible says that our bodiy is the temple of the Holy Spirit. It didn't say only female bodies. The problem in our society is that male virgins are regarded as being weak.
My advice to all guys is that they shouldn't bring curses on their spouses by keeping their bodies for heir wifes too. Most of the problems faced by some cou[les are a result of the sexual excapades of the man before he got married. That's what i think.

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God bless you for this.
These sexually super active men start to look for virgins when they want to get married, only for them to frustrate the poor girl to death when she cannot meet up with their perversions and blame her for their extramarital affairs.

It would make sense for such men to marry ladies like them who will give them fire for fire and leave virgins to marry virgins who would learn the whole process together and be satisfied with one another.

mekoyo:

There a lot of virgin men. Its just most of the ladies love to believe lies, they love the sweet talking guys who are just there to decieve them. Its so bad!!!

How true.

quiet:

Okay Ladies [and gentlemen],
Y do most men always speak of how they would love to marry a virgin,and they do not consider keeping themselves pure too for the matrimonial bed.
Does it mean that d females are not worthy of Virgin husbands? Or is there something i'm missing?
[d post about the man that found out he's wife wasn't a virgin just got me thinking]

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Just do e-hugging by simply hugging your keyboard. Pronto!

Gridlock:

@topic:
I was a virgin till i met my current fiancee. We took each other's. I think that's a good thing for the 2 of us. I wd probably have been frustrated.

Good for you. You are lucky enough to be the only one to "debe-debe". Hopefully it remains that way.


@topic,

Majority of females would refuse to marry a man that hasn't dipped, under the retarded guise that "he just doesn't know what he's doing" .
If these same set of women complain on other threads that men need to stop sleeping around, then they are hypocrites.

Not all men wanna marry a virgin.

quiet:

Okay Ladies [and gentlemen],
Y[b] do most men always speak of how they would love to marry a virgin,and they do not consider keeping themselves pure too for the matrimonial bed.
Does it mean that d females are not worthy of Virgin husbands? Or is there something i'm missing?[/b]
[d post about the man that found out he's wife wasn't a virgin just got me thinking]

Wow I have to agree with U on this on. Its not fair and sexist!!!!! (but HEY I could care less, am gonna do what I want anyway
any man who do not wanna marry me can shoot. And I would care less about the virginity of a guy.

If i still had the chance, i will say i dont want a male virgin, seriously what im i doing with a make virgin, the worst is them virgin born again men, how will i survive with them, these r pple that will ask you both to seek the face of the lord before you can engage yourselves in kissing, these r pple when you try some new tactics on them, wouldnt mind stopping mid way into action to ask you where you learnt that from, these r pple that will wanna make a time table for intimacy and make sure fasting is done before intimacy

geeezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz how boring  yawns

Better say wat ur sure of.

A virgin deserves a virgin. But its harder to find a virgin guy,

tEsLim:

There are lotta virgin guys out there. Though most men wont tell u this is there first time. But u should be able to tell from how they do it. I know friends that have never been there before. Lot of them. Grown guys, that flaunt around even with 'em fast cars etc.

You'll know alright when he doesnt quite know where to position his knees.

jennykadry:

If i still had the chance, i will say i dont want a male virgin, seriously what im i doing with a make virgin, the worst is them virgin born again men, how will i survive with them, these r pple that will ask you both to seek the face of the lord before you can engage yourselves in kissing, these r pple when you try some new tactics on them, wouldnt mind stopping mid way into action to ask you where you learnt that from, these r pple that will wanna make a time table for intimacy and make sure fasting is done before intimacy

geeezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz how boring  yawns

lmao