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Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by MizMyColi(f): 3:49pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
“A real man is able to take his woman around the world at a drop of a hat”https://wordsmithf./2015/11/10/you-sir-have-nothing-to-prove/ cc Lalasticlala Obinsocopy 29 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by dubylhover(m): 4:01pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
NYC writeup tho,but we don't need anyone to "assure" us or make us confident...a lion is not bothered about d opinion of a sheep.mia sa mia.."we are who we are"... we always recognize ourselves 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Nobody: 4:11pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Reminds me of that Flavour's song To be a man is not a day's job... Coli they said they no need validation, only lazy men do_ they ain't lazy. Take it all back... 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Nobody: 4:11pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
dubylhover: Bro you just spoke my mind. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by wordbank(m): 4:12pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
I don dey tell PapaNnamdi ds tin him think say na to marry MamaNnamdi born 2 dozens of children still dey worry Linda Ikeji to consider him junior broda |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by MizMyColi(f): 4:15pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Nobody: 4:44pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Una see am.... |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Tallesty1(m): 4:49pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Ihe uwa adiro eazy. |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by bukatyne(f): 5:03pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: Extremely true I read a book, will open a thread (anytime from now to 2050 ), and one of a man's (husband's) needs is appreciation... Another book my mother bought for me yearssssssss back said a husband needs.. 1. Adoration 2. Admiration 3. Adaptation... 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by bukatyne(f): 5:03pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
MizMyColi: Nice one OP 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Nobody: 5:06pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
MizMyColi: You no know the song? bukatyne:Lols, this one na the THREE As, nothing more to add. There are times they annoy us o, but we still have to acknowledge that they try their best. ADORATION, its importance can't be overemphasized. 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by LarrySun(m): 5:36pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Whatever anyone thinks about me is none of my business. I've got nothing to prove to anyone. *In Sinatra's voice* I DID IT MY WAY! Thanks, 'Coli, for this post. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Stillfire: 5:43pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: Yeah humans are social beings. I think the right frame of words should be external validation should not trump ones self worth. Or better still a balance of the two. njokusboy: So where are you feeling pressured? Let us help you overcome it. I hope it's not a matter of having 7 inches worth of penile meat, because no help for you there o. Hehehehe |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Nobody: 5:45pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Stillfire: Thank you!!! You just help me package the grammar well. |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Nobody: 5:47pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Stillfire: The op has listed them nah... But since I don't feed on other pples validation, I don't bother about it... I don't need help, its no pressure... As for the meat Na God put am for there, na still God dey give the strength to carry am |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by JigsawKillah(m): 5:48pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Rudepen you FÛCKING JEW!!! |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by joseph1832(m): 5:53pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Hian! All this is totally irreverent. Honestly, its starting to sound like a broken record. I'll always say this: "Know Thyself". Anybody who fail to know his/herself will always find his/herself at the receiving end of such nonsense like what the OP posted. 3 Likes |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Chubhie: 5:56pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Growing up then one of our uncles used to tell us that to be a man you must spend time in a Nigerian prison. Although he was a good bad guy but he never visited a Nigerian prison, I took it upon myself to prove him wrong and stay clear of anything that could lead me even to a police cell until I got the epiphany that he likened the struggle to being an ideal real man to a Nigerian prison stay. I understand that the degrees of pressures varies amongst adult Nigerian males. But truth be told a man who can't provide for his family is considered an infidel. |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Nobody: 5:57pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Erm, yes one is a real man in terms of existence, but in terms of being a quality man, there's a lot of requirements that must be met. That's basically the dichotomy between a man and a man. And man knows he doesn't need public praise to know he's a man. He just does. |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Ewuro4: 5:57pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Stillfire: Hmm you're mean oh! ... So you know this all this while but still went ahead to cause katakata on the other thread? You're def on a mission. On a serious note: @bold is a priceless life lesson. |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Chubhie: 6:00pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
LarrySun:That's my all time favourite song you got there. That's how I wish to check out from this short existence once my job is done. |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by SeverusSnape(m): 6:03pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
LarrySun:"And now, the end is near, and so I face the final curtain, my friend, I'll say it clear, I'll state my case of which I'm certain... " "... I ate it up and spit it out, I faced it all, and I stood tall, and did it myyyy wayyyyyy" I so much love Frank Sinatra, I'm glad I found someone who likes him too. His songs are so deep You be correct guy. Nice post MizMyColi 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by SeverusSnape(m): 6:10pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Chubhie:Brosssss... I like that song pass you. **GRABS my phone to play 'my way'** |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Chubhie: 6:19pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
njokusboy:I once thought I was immuned until I set off as a youngman to find my place in this world. I floated my first business and within 10months folded up partly due to Nigerian system and some fault on my part as an inexperienced young gun. My Manhood was questioned, people who on a normal day couldn't look me in the eye found the strength to do so. A babe who used to serve my food kneeling down outta Love and Respect walked. I saw it first hand!!! I knew it can only take a guy like me few years to get my groove back. I went back to drawing board a designed a better version and reclaimed my Manhood. It thought me a huge lesson about humans. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by lilmax(m): 6:23pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Anyway make i nor talk sef |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Chubhie: 6:25pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
SeverusSnape:Una bad o. I think I'm normal now cos I was already feeling like an alien. |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by SeverusSnape(m): 6:33pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Chubhie:Hahaha... My brother not only you. Because most people (especially the youths like us) don't like that genre of music, Anytime they see me listening to Sinatra, they're like "which kind ancient song be this? " . I once sent one of his songs "As time goes by" to a friend of mine, She was just laughing. But seriously, Those are the songs the present generation should be listening to. |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Chubhie: 6:50pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
SeverusSnape:I guess they would get their own epiphany someday. |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by naijaboiy: 7:34pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Interesting read I must say. This how you'll know the difference between a woman and a girl. See how the women on this thread have talked about this issue in a way a man won't feel less of himself. Very maturely. Not like all those small small girls in romance section. The only thing they know is "broke ass guy" "Ready made man". That is the reason why I keep taunting them. Yeye girls 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by BoiGrammz: 7:39pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: where have you been hiding?? :/ |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by Nobody: 7:57pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Nice one Mz. your posts are always captivating 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Guys; You Have Nothing To Prove. by cococandy(f): 8:40pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Exactly mizzy. A real man may be strong. A real can't show weakness A real man must not cry. Bla bla bla. So they hide real human emotions and act out in other ways that are sometimes detrimental. It does more damage than good to the psyche of growing boy. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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