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Just a rubber would have saved you all these stress.

It's a good decision you have decided to keep the baby. Your girlfriend should tell her parents as soon as possible, and you should also inform your relatives, at least, they won't kill you both, just scolding.

Since you are expecting a baby, the hustle just got real bro.

Hmmmm

You a good man if you allow her keep it,, it's for a short time..

You don't have a job and you are fvcking without condom abi? And ur girl friend could not take measures to avoid pregnancy! And now your are begging.



I pity a child born into such home... Anyways I hope you get the help you need.

though I can't help.... you financially....



buh am telling u dis



God is by ur side..... and a work is waiting for u.... just go and clam it Amen....

JumpingChicken:
You don't have a job and you are fvcking without condom abi? And ur girl friend could not take measures to avoid pregnancy! And now your are begging.



I pity a child born into such home... Anyways I hope you get the help you need.

please stop criticising him, I was once in his shoe and I survived it, and am doing fine,@op I will advice u to double up your hustle and have the believe it's just for the main time, so far your woman can bear the shortcomings. I wish u well.

Nawao,
Just 50 naira condom.

End time

Hmm..

I just wish u realize what u re going into.

A man without job nd he is expecting a baby..

Baba I swear if u don't get a job before the baby drops, u will know what it is for a poor man to point at another nd call him poor.

Then u won't even remember u love ur wife.

I pray God sees u through before it's too late.

i thank those who criticized me and those who pray for me.Thanks to those who also encouraged me.I am not going to abort this baby no matter what.I will struggle and hustle and i know God in his infinite mercies will see me through in Jesus name.I cant do abortion.I hand over everything for God.We all have our own shortcoming in life and one time or the other,we all have committed one blunder or the other.Nobody holy pass

menix:
Hmm..

I just wish u realize what u re going into.

A man without job nd he is expecting a baby..

Baba I swear if u don't get a job before the baby drops, u will know what it is for a poor man to point at another nd call him poor.

Then u won't even remember u love ur wife.

I pray God sees u through before it's too late.

u be God abi..so make a go abort the baby abi..if a no com born again nko or she no com born again nko...which one is more ok compare to wat u r indirectly telling me

Op you have a job.
How can you say you don't?

With what you wrote up there I couldn't help laughing.


So many people earn serious money by making others laugh.

Some are comedians while other are clowns! You seem to be the latter.

JumpingChicken:
You don't have a job and you are fvcking without condom abi? And ur girl friend could not take measures to avoid pregnancy! And now your are begging.



I pity a child born into such home... Anyways I hope you get the help you need.

Oh please, don't go all righteous on the OP like we all don't have our shortcomings. Fine, OP and his lady made a mistake but they already agreed to damn the consequences and keep their baby, now that's amazing. Things are hard today doesn't mean things won't get better for him. It doesn't take months or years for God to bless someone, it takes just a moment and who knows, maybe this baby will be the beginning of great things to happen to him.

Let's not condemn the OP, please.

Adewunmi84:
Good evenning nairalanders.My name is Adewunmi.I need the assistance of the moderator here to help me move this to frontpage.
I am a fresh graduate who just finished national youth service last month(october 15th).I will be 29 years old early next year.

I have a girlfriend/fiancee whom we have been together since 2013.She is a student of the institution where i graduated.She is presently in her final year(ND2).The problem is that she find out she have not seen her menstrual period which supposed to have ended today.So,we went to a lab and a scan was conducted on her.The result showed she is 5 weeks pregnant.Thought of abortion came to our mind but we have put that aside.

I have summoned up courage that she is not going to abort the baby(because it is a sin though fornication which we committed too is also a sin)and she have agreed with me though her parents will be so mad at me.I don't even know what they might do for me.In fact,she will be scolded/dealt with by her parents(because they still pay her school fees and send her monthly feeding allowance)As for me,i am an orphan.God is my dad and mum.I just need to tell 2 or 3 people in my family that it has happened.My problem for now is that i don't have a job.I am jobless and i don't know how i am going to care for the pregnancy and the baby too when he or she finally arrive.She is still a student.I love her so much and abortion is out of our minds.

Please,i am posting this in this section to seek for assistance/suggestion from you.As it stands now,i don't even have a relative who will even assist me with a job or even ten naira.Please,any kind of assistance/advice rendered to me will be greatly appreciated because i seriously need a job.I don't even care what the job may look like.I studied statistics.I have a 4-year working experience after my National diploma(2007-2011)in a reputable FMCG organisation before i go back for my HND in 2011.

I can afford to post the content of my CV and the scan test result here or sent to your mail if requested.PLEASE HELP A BROTHER.This is not a scam please.My e-mail address is hardedejidewunmi@gmail.com...07031368684(whatsapp too)

What is the 84 beside your name for, is it the year you were born? If it is, then you are a man and I believe you will pull through. So many schools are looking for mathematics teachers, go to schools around your area and offer to teach maths and computer studies. As a statistics graduate you should be able to handle these subjects. Good luck.

Guy na wa for u o.
Me wey be B.Eng holder I never reason girlfriend or fiancee yet because of the times and seasons.
U no reason ur degree u just go straight to the spot.

Guy as it stands na maketting sure pass.

Ranges of organizations would use ur services .
Banks especially 2ru those outsourcing firms.
Pay ranges frm 30 to 40k monthly depending on the bank.

Diamond is d least paying so go for access or union.

U can submit ur cv with workforce, sumero, uconnect.

The hustle just got double real.

Chase money before love how oft should that be sounded.

This is what I call ' mene mene scriptus humerus criptum'

Since u are a christian go back to God beg for forgiveness and stay strong . God will make a way if u hold on to him.

Do you have Burna Boy's yawa on your play list? You will be needing it now, thank me later. I hope we all get jobs.

Kirinwa:
Op you have a job.
How can you say you don't?

With what you wrote up there I couldn't help laughing.


So many people earn serious money by making others laugh.

Some are comedians while other are clowns! You seem to be the latter.

lolz...ki n wa pa ara mi abi

Bennyzino:
Guy na wa for u o.
Me wey be B.Eng holder I never reason girlfriend or fiancee yet because of the times and seasons.
U no reason ur degree u just go straight to the spot.

Guy as it stands na maketting sure pass.

Ranges of organizations would use ur services .
Banks especially 2ru those outsourcing firms.
Pay ranges frm 30 to 40k monthly depending on the bank.

Diamond is d least paying so go for access or union.

U can submit ur cv with workforce, sumero, uconnect.

The hustle just got double real.

Chase money before love how oft should that be sounded.

This is what I call ' mene mene scriptus humerus criptum'

Since u are a christian go back to God beg for forgiveness and stay strong . God will make a way if u hold on to him.

u started wt gibberish but ended wt correct talk...because u get one B.eng. nao,make a com dey run abi dem talk sey e sure sey u go get money pass me or u go dey successful pass me.....u beta change ur idea about one yeye certificate wey u get...na paper if u dont know..because u study engineering course for one university nao,dem com dash u degree,u no com get sense again..supo n po tarch

Adewunmi84:
u started wt gibberish but ended wt correct talk...because u get one B.eng. nao,make a com dey run abi dem talk sey e sure sey u go get money pass me or u go dey successful pass me.....u beta change ur idea about one yeye certificate wey u get...na paper if u dont know..because u study engineering course for one university nao,dem com dash u degree,u no com get sense again..supo n po tarch

This arrogance of you got and the supercilious attitude embeded in your beleidigend approach will mar you completely if you don't make a diminutive cambiare

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Thank you all for your contributions..infact,I got three offers last week and i have to consider my former company"UAC NIgeria PLC" lagos as a manager with a good pay.for those who don't even have a single faith in God,this is a testimony for you.May God bless you guys.thank you