Where u are today is not where God wants u to be, until u live an amazing life before men and ur self, u are not manifesting ur Grace in Christ Jesus. Corinthians 2:9
9 But as it is written:
“Eye has not seen, nor ear heard,
Nor have entered into the heart of
man
The things which God has prepared
for those who love Him.” how do u demonstrate ur love for God? If a man say; he love God and hate is brother, he is a liar
. For He that loveth not his brother he seeth, how can u love God whom u have not seen?(1john 4:20). This is my commandment that ye love each other as I have love u...to the extend of laying down my life for u( john 15:13)
and the easiest way of achieving this Is by giving(in prayers, fasting and physical assistance, all in promotion of the kingdom of God) sir/ma, these is the solution to that challenge of ur life. lf u don't call God a liar, watch out for what God will do in yr life. May God grant u the grace in Jesus name.

Just consider when you're deeply in love/lust with your wife/girlfriend ...