Unionised:
He should go back to his wife, biko.

He thought she wasn't good enough?

And he couldn't mould her?

He needs to ask God for forgiveness.

Then prostrate and beg her.

Maybe then, she might take him back.

Unionised:
He should go back to his wife, biko.

He thought she wasn't good enough?

And he couldn't mould her?

He needs to ask God for forgiveness.

Then prostrate and beg her.

Maybe then, she might take him back.

onila:
hes not going back to my mother

he doesnt like my mother,
not that he doesn't like her but does not want her to be his wife . .just friends

onila:
maybe he tried to mould her but he cldnt

maybe my mama find it difficult to be the woman he wanted
they used to fight alot when they are married

Unionised:


I am sorry to say, but therein lies his problem.

He has to like her.

Has soon as he realizes that he has no option, then he will work on her.

Marriage is no bed of roses, we all have to work hard at it.

There is a reason he married her in the first place...

Let him REDISCOVER that reason.

onila:
pple divorce doesnt mean they is something wrong with them
things just work out

Unionised:


Divorce is not an option, it's a Get-Out-of-jail Card.

Marriage is a jail, a sweet one. A personal Garden of Eden exclusive to the couple, where despite all challenges, one should resist biting that Apple.

With the challenges comes the rewards.

I pray your dad retraces his steps back to the wife of his youth to matter how hard it is.

Therein lies his happiness...

onila:
even the bible said there will be divorce

so all the pple that divorced on earth are dumb

onila:
I feel so bad for him

A great, nice man but never achieved happiness in his matrimonial home

he left my mother because he thought she wasnt good enough
married again, still not happy
hes just managing her because hes ashamed of marrying again

I pray, he will be happy someday

abitex577:
I guess he is the problem of his marriages, marriage is not fantasy, it is hard work from both partners, and whatever is not generating happiness in the union should be worked on by both spouses diligently to achieve the desired result. Except there are things you are not telling us?

Captainswag225:
convince him to get back with your mother.

Captainswag225:
convince him to get back with your mother.

onila:
impossible

onila:
long time boo!

onila:
I feel so bad for him

A great, nice man but never achieved happiness in his matrimonial home

he left my mother because he thought she wasnt good enough
married again, still not happy
hes just managing her because hes ashamed of marrying again

I pray, he will be happy someday

markidoo:
i have gone thru some of ur threads,u are basically washing ur dirty linens out here and that in return gives room 4 insults pls think b4 u post cos the world is always ready to pick at ur lapses.

lepasharon:
Mine is the opposite of you..my mum married twice still not happy..left my dad

onila:
what do u want me to tell you

my father married twice
hes hardly at home

he lives in hotels lmao

running from his second wife

poor him, working hard to make him happy

abitex577:


Do you know what it means to be married and hardly been at home? In advance countries, a wife will sue for divorce for prolonged absence of spouse. It is obvious they were growing apart in a marriage that they are suppose to be bonding together on each passing day!!!

onila:

this is Naija not abroad
if she divorces him, how she go chop

ednut1:
Now we know where your psychological problems enamated from.

firstEVA:

ednut1:
Now we know where your psychological problems enamated from.

onila:
ur mother is a strong woman

do u get along with ur mama?