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| How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by Nobody: 10:09am On Dec 14, 2015 |
"I'm done with him you can have him if you want,I've polished and brushed him up,he's a better person now you'll enjoy him" Those were the words of my so called best friend.... I knew this guy when I was much younger,at the time he was the closest friend I had,somewhere along the line we loved each so much we started dating,I called it off because he was hiding our relationship even from his friends,he referred to us as just friends. That's years ago anyway. Fast-forward a bit,I later heard in school he had started dating my new bestie(girl),when I came home on breaks there was so much awkwardness,I decided to remain friends with both of them even though I was hurt.... I loved my bestie like a sister,we did everything together but never brought up that "guys" issue. The guy tried and is still trying to get back with me (maybe because he never tasted the "honey") but I sincerely refused him... My bestie said those painful words to me after their break-up,she told me I'm having issues in my relationships because I'm somewhat waiting for her boyfriend. Those words are still hurting me and I don't know what to do,I stopped talking to her,I want just forgive and forget everything but its hard... I'm Sorry for long write. up,please help...... 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by PresVA: 10:36am On Dec 14, 2015 |
I think you should be more concerned about your so called lover who went to woo your best friend. . Is he really worth it? Then, your bestie  Just let them be.. they ain't worth your time if you ask me... I know the betrayal hurts but move on dear, better relationships abound! 8 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by feran15(m): 10:41am On Dec 14, 2015 |
nobody is worth all deez worry. face book |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by jashar(f): 10:44am On Dec 14, 2015 |
forget about the both of them 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by amtheone(m): 10:59am On Dec 14, 2015 |
@op What do you mean by "honey" in your write-up. |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by Ginaz(f): 11:08am On Dec 14, 2015 |
Girl all I can say is move on, same happened to me and that bitch is history. |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by Nobody: 11:12am On Dec 14, 2015 |
feran15: Thanks,but I'm resting from "facing book" at least for now |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by Nobody: 11:17am On Dec 14, 2015 |
Ginaz: Thank girl,I think I tend to hold on to my few friends cause I don't I don't have much,leant the hard way |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by henry255: 11:17am On Dec 14, 2015 |
The guy doesn't deserve you. This is clear indication that he is just there to achieve a sexual desire. One thing about we men is that when once you lay with a girl, all those sweet words u normally call her begins to reduce. Dont get angry with your girlfriend because u never told her a thing He is coming back cos its mission unaccomplished Kpachara anya gi!  3 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by feran15(m): 11:18am On Dec 14, 2015 |
Ebiz12: find something else to occupy your time. the girl was totally wrong even of she was doing that for you, she shouldn't have said so. no more hanging out with either of them. make new friends 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by Nobody: 11:51am On Dec 14, 2015 |
feran15: She definitely didn't do it for me,she's moved to the next available guy Thanks though,I'm trying to make new friends 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by 4X4: 2:02pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Ebiz12: HAHAHAHAAHHA GOOD FOR YOU. NTOOR. |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by thorpido(m): 2:25pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
You should have told your friend everything that first moment you saw them together.Just stay away from them both.Try to make the best of your time. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by tpiar: 2:36pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
What kind of story is this? 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by pet4ril(f): 3:05pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
That's why I still maintain one man mopol, no best friend... Everybody are my friends but i don't keep best friend No retreat, no surrender..... I don't have time for shit |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by austine4real(m): 9:23am On Dec 15, 2015 |
So u mean u can't move on? Come let me slap u 40harmatan slaps u wll move fasta than usain bolt |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by jabojafa(m): 5:33pm On Dec 15, 2015 |
Op i tot u said u broke up with d guy? So he n ur ex besty hold u no apologies. As for ur ex besty am sure she said those words in anger. So its best u find it in ur hrt to forgiv both of them so dt ur Heavenly Father wud also forgiv u wen u call on Him. If u need frnds i cud b 1 |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by Richy4(m): 9:11pm On Dec 15, 2015 |
Every one is telling you to stay away from them but I will advice you to run away from them especially the guy...... He is only good for hello!! Hi!! and you walk away as fast as your legs can carry you. no time for cat walking and no other pleasantry......... As for your bestie or whatever you call her, she will come back again when she realised that you are not into what she predicted would happen and she will like for you guys to renew your friendship. If that should happen, in my opinion, just tell her that friendship goes with trust, that this little drama or episode show she doesn't trust you one bit. so the friend ship is of no use.. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by Kayoski(m): 10:15pm On Dec 15, 2015 |
Relationships and wahala (Like bread and butter) Gush!!!!! Abeg my people , what is the current price of a cup of ijebu garri in market? .. Its urgent,thanks in anticipation of replies... |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by Nobody: 6:00am On Dec 16, 2015 |
jabojafa: I understand what you mean but I got over the fact that they were dating a longgggggg time ago,its the hurtful things she said to me that really got me angry and sad |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by Nobody: 6:05am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Richy4: Wow!! thank you so much, she wants us to be friends again but I just ignore her,now I have the right words to say to her  As for the guy he's confident he'll get me back,maybe because of his mum's "approval" but i can't even stand him,I just laugh at his stupidity 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by jabojafa(m): 8:19am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Ebiz12:ok i get u now. But try n get wot she said. Occupy ur sef wit postive tins n frnds. Reply my PM |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by jabojafa(m): 8:20am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Ebiz12:ok i get u now. But try n get wot she said. Occupy ur sef wit postive tins n frnds. I hv sent u a PM. |
| Re: How Can I Forgive My Friend...please HELP by Richy4(m): 10:23am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Ebiz12: I know it will happen.... She will try to convince you that she said it out of anger and frustration..... But remember out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. She has managed to tell you what was on her heart. it's now up to u to continue with the friend ship or........... I know you cannot find a perfect friend in this world but try and look for the ones that have a little trust in you even if it is small. at least when something messy occurs, someone that can say " I know her, she cannot do a thing like this" That is the kind of friends people should surround themselves with, not the fair weather ones..... As for the guy, you should not go back to your vomit. If you do, that means your friend is right about you and ignoring her will be baseless. good luck .... 1 Like |
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