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| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by DuchessLily(f): 8:38pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
daretodiffer:    Thanx for liking meI suppose u r a male?? Just using the female gender on here?? Don't get me wrong oo, there is nothing supposed to be wrong in a girl liking another girl ooo, but its just that this days eehh... Hmmm |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Kunlayd: 8:39pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
If you've really been through all that and you're still asking how to treat it, then I really should not advise. It might be that your wife just feels you're neither smart enough or man enough. Go start by working on yourself. With all you wrote up there, the only problem I see is you. Cant blame a woman who's way smarter than her hubby. Cheers! |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by IBBG(m): 8:42pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
reading this right now, all i'm saying is thank God i broke up with my ex before it ever got serious  she was exhibiting some of this. i told myself guy wake up from your slumber, don't be blinded by love, or else you'll have heart attack in marriage, cos she will turn you into an overnight detective due to her unscrupulous ways. i beg o i no ready to become detective or CIA agent overnight becos of marriage o 3 Likes |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by omoiseselagba: 8:45pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Miami11:now i know the reason AK-47 was produced.the fellow deserves a bullet in the brain. 2 Likes |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
DuchessLily: I am a female o. I tell people that I like that I like them  |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Missmossy(f): 8:46pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Are they still men like you?? She isn't worth it one bit. She isn't even ashamed of her actions. Women like this ain't supposed to get married. 3 Likes |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Adeevah(m): 8:46pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
#Divorce is the answer... #Sure she can kill #Sure u are not man enough #You av been (sometimes) far away from her....loneliness might have pushed her into |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by deygar: 8:47pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
a wife that cheats on her husband, can kill him, chase her without remorse, b4 u regret the whole tin... 2 Likes |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by camaraderi(m): 8:56pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Your wife enjoys sexting, why don't you indulge her in the act of sexting. And always let her know who is the boss in the house. Show her your dark side but no beating. Deal with her emotionally, cheat on her with her best friend and if possible on the house girl if you have one. Stop sleeping in the same room with her but please do all this without being carried away. Remember your kids biko |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Rawzy(m): 8:57pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
If yopu truely love her as your wife,do not divorce her rather help bring her to the knowledge that what she is into is not good and not meant for a good child of God no matter the situation(fight positively for your love) |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Nobody: 8:57pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
GANDALF1: She is a good person If the genders were to be reversed, you would have written this hypocritical post. |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by perryy(m): 8:57pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Miami11: Keep quiet, what do you mean by talk to her pastor? A pastor who could be one of her customers? Divorce the LovePeddler nowwwww . Even bible support divorce when the basis is in adultery. 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by onyowo(f): 8:57pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Free her legally so she can go and kill herself by herself, it seems her mom is quiet happy with what her daughter is doing....RUN for ur life before she kill u or give u STDS 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Nobody: 8:57pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
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| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by fragile96: 8:59pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
@OP, first is d woman working? If not, gud. My lil advise, collect all her fones from her, change her lines, and make sure for now, she does not use any fone dat can browse, get her a touch light nokia fone. Hope it works. |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Ossaifamous(m): 9:01pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
my own opinion .... first pack ur kids make u go do DNA then think of how u go get another life partner .... better to die alone than to leave with somebody who go dey increase ur bp all d time 2 Likes |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Toks2008(m): 9:02pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
AstuteJ: All these don't matter dude..these are series of emotional affairs due to boredom and many married ladies do it and delete the messages. However,just warn ger to stop or you wil divorce her but if she continues just let her be and dont bother wasting your money on divorcing her because it wil be foolish to spend your money to free an adulterous wife but you should rather let her face the parole by herself while you quietly search for another wife if you must. That is my own formula for dealing with an adulterous wife. 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by ableze01(m): 9:05pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
If truly you have been married for 10years with kids, hmmm bross this one no be new development Ohhh, you sure say your wife Neva play away match so, maybe you need to check the paternity of yah kids |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by kayustones: 9:07pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Lord, may I not marry a cheating wife. Cos I fear what I might do to her 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by joshfire(m): 9:11pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
With you advice on this matter, I can humbly conclude that you are not a good person and you definitely have similar traits to OP's wife. Gracias Please!she may be right,do u sugest a divorse which is not the best option |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by perryy(m): 9:15pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
This man, u are certainly not man enough. How on earth will you allow your own wife to even talk with her ex in your presence? Are you sure it is God that created you,? I'm asking because any man created by God is created in God's image ,hence , very jealous, . I can't stand seeing my wife's ex talk to her on phone let alone bringing him to my house. My mother inlaw won't like what she will see if she was the brain behind the rubbish. How can my wife and her ex come to my liVing room to be playing old school love ? I not fit talk sbeg. 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by DuchessLily(f): 9:16pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
daretodiffer: Hahahahahaha .....OK good! I like u too, But God loves u more  |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by GANDALF1(m): 9:21pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
daretodiffer: Just Negodu this Adultery supporter TUFIAKWA GI 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by ekefre4(m): 9:21pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
elantraceey:Aaumptions u say? D nude pics nkor? Smh4u bliv me if I were d 1 she would hv been in her father's house by nw |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by BTT(m): 9:23pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
daretodiffer: You are, as much as I am, entitled to your opinion. Likewise, you are entitled to the counter-attacks your unguarded malefic speech earns you. But I won't draw blood. Not just yet. 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by misspicy(f): 9:24pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
see you all should stop sugar coating this thing,if divorce is the next step so be it... like wtf? I know am not qualified in marriage matters but I have zero tolerance for cheating partners especially a married woman... forget gender,we will not be bias here,the woman has cheated,is cheating and will continue to cheat...imagine opening your unclothedness for another man apart from your husband Amso pissed 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Op, no offence intended but men like you are the reason why some women disrespect their husbands. You are a very slow person, what other advice do you need uh? I hope you use condom while making love to her, before she gives you infections. 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by mechanics(m): 9:29pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Hmmm, dis is serious, but my colleaques do say its beta to date babes who are wild but in dis case, dats a lie, its unfortunate dat u didnt monitor her well during courtship, d best way is to pray her. |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
BTT: You are not man enough Not just yet! |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by bisola99: 9:34pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Hello my brother I felt for u wen i ready your post, but to the best of my knowledge i dont see any connection dat your wife is dating dis man. I AM a married lady and on many occassions i do get admirers including my ex- dat try to woo me by sending very nutty text just to see if their luck could tie me down which i do show it to my Husband and we both laff it off! Pls try and understand your wife very well and stop having the notion shes messing around!!! Ppl advising you to kind her out dont like you at all!!! Try and set your wife down and ask her where youve gone wrong; Try and know if youre d one causing her emotional break down! And pls dont EVEN try to confront those her male friends, its your wife you need to talk to in order not to disgrace yourself because if u try to mess up with d guy it will definitely affecting your wife and must surely bunch back on you! Pls be wipe and let your brain rule your emotions! Ask yourself few questions; do i please my wife? IM i always their for her? Av i ever cheated on her before? Think about it. I wish you all the best in your union. NB: ive been married for 15 years so im talking to you from experience! 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by jmaxjohn(m): 9:40pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
K. I'm baq. So ur wife z cheating on u, hmmm. Well, it seems she hasn't begun cheating physically yet (derz still slight hope), but trust me, if a real heart eater puts pressure on her, she'll break. U hv 3 options, nd d 3rd option has worked for me b4 nd i kept my woman (dnt ask )(1) U either divorce her with d inconclusive proof u hv; trust ur cheating woman to turn it against u or (2) u play a game (to play d game successfully, ull need to sell ur soul to d devil and derz no coming baq). The game involves u keeping d shut up and pretend like uve noticed nothing and then plan to catch ur wife in d act without her knowing she's been busted. After getting enough proof, den u do things to make her feel d same hurt u felt, and dat z wen u let out d secret u know (it'll reset her brain). But ur soul wudv been long eaten up with hate and ur marriage ruined. (3). U need to grow some balls and be a beast  , show her u feel and know uve been betrayed. Call a family member of hers u can trust with a secret to ur haus, break her phone in front of her eyes, break ur tv set, let d rage eat u up, show her ur wedding photos, tear dem, cry, let her feel d pain of d husband she married; d husband she claims to love, grab a knife (no stab am o), shout, most importantly let her c u r hurt; let her know those male bastards (u hv no biz with dem) won't take her in if ur marriage, her home, collapses ryt nw; get ur wife baq for God's sake and stop being a sissy 2 Likes |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Missmossy(f): 9:43pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
daretodiffer:I hate getting silly mentions,you have been noticed!! |
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