Ladies101 – Part 4

Lesson from Part 3

Intelligence could have whispered to Lady B, "You are a smart, beautiful and intelligent lady. You should be able to speak for yourself. If it is pizza you want, say it."

But maturity would have whispered, "Don't steal someone else's moment. This outing is not about you. Pick something from the available menu. Today is about the other lady. She is the only person who can reject what is on the menu."

Now you see the difference between maturity and intelligence. At what age are you supposed to know that? I don’t know. But if you grew up in the right environment you just know.

But Lady B might go around thinking that because she has a good job with a good career path, can pay her bills without any assistance, that qualifies her for marriage. Then when guys date her and dump her she thinks it is because she is too intelligent for them or her standards are just too high for them.

Sweetheart, it's not really that. There were certain things the guy observed. Things that, in your opinion, are not important. But you forget that you don't get to determine what is important for the other person.

I really hope that like Senator Ben Murray Bruce I am making common sense.

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