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Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by donpata(m): 11:23am On Jan 10, 2016
Over the years, i notice an irony under the sun: "Illegal" pregnancies survive while "Legal" ones don't. Well by "Legal" , i mean preganancies in marriage while "Illegal" is for those out of wedlock..

I notice that wen a lady whether 14 or 25 or .. gets pregnant out of wedlock, she moves abt with strenght, doing her chores likesay nothing dey happen. Some even could conceal the pregnancy for months, wont go for antenatal but will end up delivering mostly at home. They most times end being fine and the baby also survives, sometimes becoming the issue of crisis btw the father's and mother's families.

However, when its with married couples today, it starts with difficulty in getting pregnant to issue of miscarriages. Even with antenatal, u see the women moving like a snail with great displeasure on d face especially for 1st timers. Then the too much cases of birth through CS. not also forgeting still births.

Has anyone notice same.? Lalasticlala, shebi u dey spiritual, help us ansa

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Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by talktonase(m): 11:29am On Jan 10, 2016
God wants to prove to you that just because you have legitimized your love making to have children does not make you righteous...

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Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by banjicom(m): 11:42am On Jan 10, 2016
talktonase:
God wants to prove to you that just because you have legitimized your love making to have children does not make you righteous...
True Talk

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Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by bronzegoddess(f): 11:50am On Jan 10, 2016
Rubbish!!!!!!!



But it is worthy to note that, after 30, pregnancy may not be as smooth and easy as it wld be for girls below age 30.
Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by uboma(m): 12:34pm On Jan 10, 2016
talktonase:
God wants to prove to you that just because you have legitimized your love making to have children does not make you righteous...



Are you implying that God is responsible for all miscarriages?
Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by talktonase(m): 3:03pm On Jan 10, 2016
uboma:




Are you implying that God is responsible for all miscarriages?

man is to blame cos of his disobedience in the garden of eden...
Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by uboma(m): 3:56pm On Jan 10, 2016
talktonase:
man is to blame cos of his disobedience in the garden of eden...


How does your comments so far on this thread have any bearing with the topic under consideration?

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Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by DebbyChris(f): 4:32pm On Jan 10, 2016
The devil is happy with an illegal pregnancy but when a pregnancy is legal he fights it making sure that child of honour is not born.....Remember the devil hates marriage especially a happy one...



My 2cent

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Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by talktonase(m): 4:53pm On Jan 10, 2016
uboma:



How does your comments so far on this thread have any bearing with the topic under consideration?
my point is strictly from a Biblical perspective which posits that the disobedience of man brought sin into this world which has continually aggravated our predicament on earth,it iis only by Gods grace that we are alive and well.As for miscarriages it was never Gods plan for women to experience such but for sin that has defiled our bodies with all kinds of illnesses we will only continue to endure till Christ returns!
Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jan 10, 2016
God sha, it is such an irony; girl not married get pregnant, gives birth without any problem then couples married for many years are still looking for a single child. I can't question that man in heaven because HE knows it better.
Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by AfricanApple(f): 8:33pm On Jan 10, 2016
So people can actually concur to op's assertion? marriage or single is not the determinant of babies who survives. it happens both way
Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by uboma(m): 9:45pm On Jan 10, 2016
AfricanApple:
So people can actually concur to op's assertion? marriage or single is not the determinant of babies who survives. it happens both way



You are on point.
Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jan 10, 2016
talktonase:
God wants to prove to you that just because you have legitimized your love making to have children does not make you righteous...
hmmm, are you speaking for God or from your own thoughts? well from the look of things, you can't compare a girl of 15 to 25 to a woman of 30 and beyond, reason is that the body of the latter is getting weak and the former is strong and moreover, stress too is another killer factor that causes miscarriage.
Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by mostyg(m): 10:24pm On Jan 10, 2016
Where is your reference?

Who conducted the research?

Are you by implication saying there are more children born out of wedlock than those born by married couples?

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Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by talktonase(m): 10:30pm On Jan 10, 2016
2chainz:
hmmm, are you speaking for God or from your own thoughts? well from the look of things, you can't compare a girl of 15 to 25 to a woman of 30 and beyond, reason is that the body of the latter is getting weak and the former is strong and moreover, stress too is another killer factor that causes miscarriage.
no be me talk nah Bible talkam...
Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by donpata(m): 6:27am On Jan 11, 2016
mostyg:
Where is your reference?

Who conducted the research?

Are you by implication saying there are more children born out of wedlock than those born by married couples?
Do u need government statistics or research results to tell u there are many Nigerians living below poverty line? this is something we see every day. and why have u guys simply concluded that married ladies must be over 30 yrs?
Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by mostyg(m): 6:35am On Jan 11, 2016
donpata:

Do u need government statistics or research results to tell u there are many Nigerians living below poverty line? this is something we see every day. and why have u guys simply concluded that married ladies must be over 30 yrs?
You mean anybody can wake up and just conclude on an issue by mere speculations without any statistical analysis.?
Re: Why Do Illegal Pregnancies Stay While Legal Preganancies Get Wasted? :( by donpata(m): 9:23am On Jan 11, 2016
mostyg:

You mean anybody can wake up and just conclude on an issue by mere speculations without any statistical analysis.?
Do u believe when Govt said 50000 people have been given employment since the new regime came in? sure you believe that cos that is based on "research"

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