Marriage is a lifetime commitment to be with
someone you love, whom also love you in return
There are times in marriage when hardship and
difficulties begin to roll in. During this times most
couple find it difficult to cope with each other
thereby creating more problems each day. Are
there times in the past when your marriage was
sitting on a rossy bed? If you can look back into
your marriage and remember those times your
marriage was happy, these actually means that
this kind of marriage has the potential to be
saved. Below are the few tips you can use in
saving your relationship.
Learn how to express yourself in a constructive
manner. When you are bringing up a sensitive
matter, mind the way you table it out to your
partner, Mind the kind of words you use. You
could use words like.
.I FEEL, I would like to, My concern is. Whats
your thoughts or how do you feel about that.
Always try and compliment your partner in all
way round. Mocking your partner in almost
anything he or she did, won't help the
relationship at all. It diminishes a good and
successful relationship/marriage. Cut off your
angry words, side talks, sarcasm and all that
relates to it.
Focus on yourself. Try not to make your partner
feel worse about themselves or make them look
like a bad person. This act makes them less
active in the marriage.
Work on yourself and make positive changes in
your attitudes and words towards your partner.
Learn how to make decisions like a team. Making
decisions like a team is a goal of win-win. It
emphasis a plan of action that involves you too
and pleases the both of you on equal sides.
Make a list of the parts you and your partner
finds it hard to come agree on. Create out time
and list out all those things you know that always
brings argument and disagreement in your
marriage, including those topics you are afraid to
talk about, for fear it might lead to another
argument.. List them out and begin to iron them
out constructively with your partner.
Share more of your time with your spouse. Give
your partner more positive energies in almost
everything. Share more fun time, kiss more, love
more, hug more and also share more. www.loveemporium..co.id/2016/01/lovelife-mirror.html?m=1