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| Should I Tell Her Now? by nosmas: 2:52pm On Jun 26, 2009 |
hi nairalander,pls i need an urgent advices oooo. My wife is like 2 month pregnant and right now, she is seriously experiencing those pregnancy "stuff" being her 1st pregnnacy. i got a news 2 days ago that my younger brother's wife had a still birth and i need to go there. now i feel like postphoning telling my wife about this stillbirth till when she will be ok.I hope i am taking the right decision ooo |
| Re: Should I Tell Her Now? by Fhemmmy: 3:39pm On Jun 26, 2009 |
You know you wife better. You are a great man to consider her feelings and emotions and May the sweet lord bless you. If you think it will affect her, i will suggest you dont tell her yet. |
| Re: Should I Tell Her Now? by didit1(m): 4:31pm On Jun 26, 2009 |
I agree with you not telling her now because the pressure of the news might get to her at this stage. Kip it up you are a wise man. |
| Re: Should I Tell Her Now? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Jun 26, 2009 |
Eshh! thats sad! Do what u must, especially for you wifes mental state. |
| Re: Should I Tell Her Now? by Outstrip(f): 6:19am On Jun 27, 2009 |
I don't see how it can hurt your wife. Wouldn't you want her to call your sister in law and sympathize with her |
| Re: Should I Tell Her Now? by Sissy3(f): 10:04pm On Jun 28, 2009 |
Outstrip: i agree |
| Re: Should I Tell Her Now? by sparta(f): 12:36pm On Jun 29, 2009 |
Please dont tell her yet and let your brother and his wife know you didnt tell her so they dont expect her calls. If she is very emotional, it might affect her. You are a great dude for considering her health ! |
| Re: Should I Tell Her Now? by TINAOGE: 1:12pm On Jun 29, 2009 |
You took a good decision by not letting her know now. Please if she knows now it may affect her emotions so much, am saying this based on experienced. When I was pregnant and my friend had still birth it affected my emotions seriously until my Friend assured me that God will see me through just like the Hebrew women. Please let your wife be taking her routine drugs according to doctor's prescription. God will grant her safe delivery. |
| Re: Should I Tell Her Now? by Fhemmmy: 2:02pm On Jun 29, 2009 |
Outstrip: I think your wife comes first for now, and you could tell the other people that you are sorry you cant discuss it with your wife for now, cos of the shock and all that, but you are representing her in mourning their loss. |
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