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Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by chichi234(f): 9:39am On Jan 28, 2016
I am married told my hubby we dont have sex often as we should but he disagree.If I record the number times i have sex in a year. I am sure its not more than 15 times. I am fed up what do i do.
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by pretty050(f): 9:42am On Jan 28, 2016
Hmm
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by pet4ril(f): 9:50am On Jan 28, 2016
You need deliverance embarassed

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Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by SUPERPACK: 9:51am On Jan 28, 2016
15 times in a year. wow sex is nw an exercise and nt for reproduction as planned by God. if he is working outside the country, how will u cope,ngwa KONTINU
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by SAMBARRY: 9:53am On Jan 28, 2016
Ok

Next

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Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by xpac01(m): 10:07am On Jan 28, 2016
chichi234:
I am married told my hubby we dont hav sex often as we should but he disagree.now I want to record the number times i have sex in a year. i am sure its not more than 15 times.
Are you for real You mean outta 24hrs in a day 30days in a month and 365 days, as in three hundred and sixty five days in a year you only get laid 15times by your hubby? Now this is you kidding me :->

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Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by chichi234(f): 11:08am On Jan 28, 2016
xpac01:

Are you for real You mean outta 24hrs in a day 30days in a month and 365 days, as in three hundred and sixty five days in a year you only get laid 15times by your hubby? Now this is you kidding me :->

Yes
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by Strahovski1(m): 11:27am On Jan 28, 2016
I have sex 4 times a year(2015).. so what is your problem?

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Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by ronald4lif(m): 12:26pm On Jan 28, 2016
Have sex just 15times a year? That's way less than twice a month. Choi. Hubby doesn't find you attractive and he's prolly hitting it with some smashy babe outside. lipsrsealed
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by lilmax(m): 12:32pm On Jan 28, 2016
You are not attractive.
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by asadike(f): 12:41pm On Jan 28, 2016
That's too poor biko. Hope u guys are compatible on bed? How attractive and neat do u look? have u tried seducing him and creating d artmosphere whenever u want sex? Does he have a medical problem? Nne, there's a problem somewhere, find it and if u couldnt, trust me another girl out there is riding him hard and giving him correct mouth action
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by chichi234(f): 1:35pm On Jan 28, 2016
asadike:
That's too poor biko. Hope u guys are compatible on bed? How attractive and neat do u look? have u tried seducing him and creating d artmosphere whenever u want sex? Does he have a medical problem? Nne, there's a problem somewhere, find it and if u couldnt, trust me another girl out there is riding him hard and giving him correct mouth action

I dont do mouth action. I will vomit
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by ogawisdom(m): 1:48pm On Jan 28, 2016
chichi234:
I am married told my hubby we dont have sex often as we should but he disagree.If I record the number times i have sex in a year. I am sure its not more than 15 times. I am fed up what do i do.

15 times a yr is over once a month, nw dt shld b OK nw undecided sex is nt food abeg
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by Nobody: 2:43pm On Jan 28, 2016
chichi234:


I dont do mouth action. I will vomit

Yet you're still confuzzled on why he sleeps with you only 15 times a year? undecided

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Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jan 28, 2016
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Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by chynergy1(m): 4:02pm On Jan 28, 2016
your own better,
ask other to see what they are going thru undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by fragrant(f): 5:49pm On Jan 28, 2016
Did he show any of such signs during courtship.
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by TheArchangel(f): 6:14pm On Jan 28, 2016
chichi234:


I dont do mouth action. I will vomit
Let me teach you how to do it babe.
My tips (these are what has worked for me; results will vary; ask him; etc.):

Be enthusiastic. If you're acting like you'd rather be doing something else, he's going to catch on.
Drink some water ahead of time so that there will be more spit in your mouth.
Use the extra spit as lube to also incorporate a hand. Try to find a rhythm with this. Move both your mouth and hand at the same time.
Suck on the head/lick it while using your hand on the shaft.
If he keeps his eyes open, make a little eye contact.
Play with yourself a little bit.
Take him as deep as you can, but don't make yourself uncomfortable doing it.
Pay attention to each part: head, shaft (top side, underside, and both sides), and balls. I've been told to not suck on the balls themselves as much, but more the skin. This may not be true for your guy and he may not even want ball play, so ask him.
Again, be enthusiastic.
Coming back......

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Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by Shiningmama(f): 7:10pm On Jan 28, 2016
TheArchangel:
Let me teach you how to do it babe.
My tips (these are what has worked for me; results will vary; ask him; etc.):

Be enthusiastic. If you're acting like you'd rather be doing something else, he's going to catch on.
Drink some water ahead of time so that there will be more spit in your mouth.
Use the extra spit as lube to also incorporate a hand. Try to find a rhythm with this. Move both your mouth and hand at the same time.
Suck on the head/lick it while using your hand on the shaft.
If he keeps his eyes open, make a little eye contact.
Play with yourself a little bit.
Take him as deep as you can, but don't make yourself uncomfortable doing it.
Pay attention to each part: head, shaft (top side, underside, and both sides), and balls. I've been told to not suck on the balls themselves as much, but more the skin. This may not be true for your guy and he may not even want ball play, so ask him.
Again, be enthusiastic.



Hmmmmmmmmmmm. Professor
Coming back......
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by MARKone(m): 7:27pm On Jan 28, 2016
chichi234:
I am married told my hubby we dont have sex often as we should but he disagree.If I record the number times i have sex in a year. I am sure its not more than 15 times. I am fed up what do i do.

Your are married, hence ur sex life should be active, and you are entitled to enjoy it as often as time permits the two of you. Healthy sex life equals healthy couples, it bonds couples. You are closer to him, it is possible that something must have triggered the sharp drop in his libido, if he was very active sexually formerly, then your worry is justified. You need to talk to him, maybe something is bothering him, you should try to find out, not posting it here for people to tell that sex is not food, or start teaching you how to give oblwobjs.
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by chichi234(f): 8:12pm On Jan 28, 2016
TheArchangel:
Let me teach you how to do it babe.
My tips (these are what has worked for me; results will vary; ask him; etc.):

Be enthusiastic. If you're acting like you'd rather be doing something else, he's going to catch on.
Drink some water ahead of time so that there will be more spit in your mouth.
Use the extra spit as lube to also incorporate a hand. Try to find a rhythm with this. Move both your mouth and hand at the same time.
Suck on the head/lick it while using your hand on the shaft.
If he keeps his eyes open, make a little eye contact.
Play with yourself a little bit.
Take him as deep as you can, but don't make yourself uncomfortable doing it.
Pay attention to each part: head, shaft (top side, underside, and both sides), and balls. I've been told to not suck on the balls themselves as much, but more the skin. This may not be true for your guy and he may not even want ball play, so ask him.
Again, be enthusiastic.
Coming back......

God does not approve of this unnatural action. The mouth was not made for sex.

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Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by TheArchangel(f): 8:23pm On Jan 28, 2016
chichi234:


God does not approve of this unnatural action. The mouth was not made for sex.
neither is he in support of extramarital affairs and divorce if you don't do the needful things in the confine of your matrimonial bed to salvage your marriage.
You are the one screaming about once in a blue moon sex not me. I was preparing for a fullblown lecture but I got to hold my peace now.

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Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by Godmother(f): 8:29pm On Jan 28, 2016
chichi234:


God does not approve of this unnatural action. The mouth was not made for sex.

Guess this is the problem; you are uptight and too religious about sex which your hubby has caught on. Where is it written in the Bible that mouth action is a sin and God doesn't approve undecided . Babe, abeg free yourself and do the needful. Give him anyway, anyhow and see if 15 times a year won't become 15 times a week. Na you go tire!

Check my signature for tips on how to tighten your vag.ina naturally

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Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by ForcefullBULL: 8:34pm On Jan 28, 2016
TheArchangel:
neither is he in support of extramarital affairs and divorce if you don't do the needful things in the confine of your matrimonial bed to salvage your marriage.
You are not one screaming about once in a blue moon sex not me. I was preparing for a fullblown lecture but I got to hold my peace now.

Abeg i am waiting for your lecture abeg

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Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by TheArchangel(f): 8:45pm On Jan 28, 2016
ForcefullBULL:


Abeg i am waiting for your lecture abeg
See his ears...rotten peeps everywhere. grin grin
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by TheAziz: 8:49pm On Jan 28, 2016
xpac01:

Are you for real You mean outta 24hrs in a day 30days in a month and 365 days, as in three hundred and sixty five days in a year you only get laid 15times by your hubby? Now this is you kidding me :->
see as u analyse am sha lmao
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by ideology(m): 9:35pm On Jan 28, 2016
TheArchangel:
Let me teach you how to do it babe.
My tips (these are what has worked for me; results will vary; ask him; etc.):

Be enthusiastic. If you're acting like you'd rather be doing something else, he's going to catch on.
Drink some water ahead of time so that there will be more spit in your mouth.
Use the extra spit as lube to also incorporate a hand. Try to find a rhythm with this. Move both your mouth and hand at the same time.
Suck on the head/lick it while using your hand on the shaft.
If he keeps his eyes open, make a little eye contact.
Play with yourself a little bit.
Take him as deep as you can, but don't make yourself uncomfortable doing it.
Pay attention to each part: head, shaft (top side, underside, and both sides), and balls. I've been told to not suck on the balls themselves as much, but more the skin. This may not be true for your guy and he may not even want ball play, so ask him.
Again, be enthusiastic.
Coming back......

shocked lipsrsealed
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by HaneefahRN(f): 9:46pm On Jan 28, 2016
chichi234:
I am married told my hubby we dont have sex often as we should but he disagree.If I record the number times i have sex in a year. I am sure its not more than 15 times. I am fed up what do i do.
Don't u guys live together or he is the busy kind of man tht only comes home once a month?
If u guys live together and sleep on the same bed on most nyts, I dnt understand how come? U might need to discuss it more wt him and also check urself, like how u dress and look around the house and when abt sleeping. Ur neatness shld increase, try to keep fit and get sexy lingeries and don't dress like old mama around the house, touch him often he is ur husband afterall maybe just a peck and u can send him sex related mssgs it cld be thru whatsapp even while he is there beside u. It depends on ur relationship tho, cos some men are so uptight and old fashioned. I hope he doesn't av any medical condition sha.


And ucan always initiate it too, get him in the mood wink. U shld know how to go abt tht
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by focus7: 9:52pm On Jan 28, 2016
SUPERPACK:
15 times in a year. wow sex is nw an exercise and nt for reproduction as planned by God. if he is working outside the country, how will u cope,ngwa KONTINU
Read your bible well, sex is not only for reproduction is also for enjoyment.
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by Nobody: 9:58pm On Jan 28, 2016
HaneefahRN:

Don't u guys live together or he is the busy kind of man tht only comes home once a month?
If u guys live together and sleep on the same bed on most nyts, I dnt understand how come? U might need to discuss it more wt him and also check urself, like how u dress and look around the house and when abt sleeping. Ur neatness shld increase, try to keep fit and get sexy lingeries and don't dress like old mama around the house, touch him often he is ur husband afterall maybe just a peck and u can send him sex related mssgs it cld be thru whatsapp even while he is there beside u. It depends on ur relationship tho, cos some men are so uptight and old fashioned. I hope he doesn't av any medical condition sha.


And ucan always initiate it too, get him in the mood wink. U shld know how to go abt tht


THE HUSBAND IS GAY JOOR

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Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by HaneefahRN(f): 10:08pm On Jan 28, 2016
daretodiffer:


THE HUSBAND IS GAY JOOR
Lolz, I'm tempted to agree, or he is undergoing active servicing outside.
Re: Please Help!!! I Am Married, But I Only Have Sex 15 Times In A Year! by bennyrazz: 10:12pm On Jan 28, 2016
Strahovski1:
I have sex 4 times a year(2015).. so what is your problem?
and this was the thread you created about having sex daily www.nairaland.com/2883377/6-reasons-why-should-sex


Back to topic @op is your husband a Pastor?

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