There's this lady that my bro is about marrying after we have visited her parents for a formal intro, she spends most of her days in my bro's place.
Something transpired one fateful day,she told me I have been taken her for granted lately, prior to her complaints, we both shared things in common, our mode of interactions and level of communications both with my bro and herself were d evidence because they were so lovely back then. But now? she no longer talk to me, refuses to wash my dish after meal that's if she agree to cook,refuses to eat if I do the cooking even she won't wash anything I used for cooking. The level of the rivalry is getting to much! I don't wanna be part of it any longer! My bro noticed all these changes but he's not asking me for anything as relating to that.

You called her your brothers fiancée not his house help. Why would you expect her to wash your plates are your hands broken?

She is right you are rude and entitled. I like that she has stopped that slavery now so at least you won’t expect that she will wait on you hands and feet for the rest of her life.

Why should your brother ask when you obviously have very little sense or respect for his wife.

I wrote about this issue of "washing plates" months back, and I opined that adults should clean up after themselves and that it brings respect, yet some silly people criticized my comments. How can a full grown adult behave like a "child"?

Things like "washing your clothes, cleaning your room, washing your plate after eating and ironing your clothes" should be done by you only! Unless you are physically challenged or a parent!

You will tell me nw Dat u expect her to come clean ur yarnsh for u wen u finish stooling at the toilet right?

Please quit behaving like a kid! She ain't your slave!

Eketem:
You called her your brothers fiancée not his house help. Why would you expect her to wash your plates are your hands broken?

She is right you are rude and entitled. I like that she has stopped that slavery now so at least you won’t expect that she will wait on you hands and feet for the rest of her life.

Why should your brother ask when you obviously have very little sense or respect for his wife.

chai its nt fair. i believe his brother got engage to the wrong woman, her refusing to eat or wash his plate is evident to that. there are no big deal in cooking and washing of plates to a lady. she has gotten into the family nw is the time to shw her real color. her second name should be LAZY

Are you sure you not scoping her?

Maybe you're getting disrespectful and she has decided to give you some space... you are younger than her husband I presume. ..

However, why won't you wash your plates after eating? Her sudden change is the koko shaaa since she was washing it before... be yourself from day 1 ladies!!

Eketem:
You called her your brothers fiancée not his house help. Why would you expect her to wash your plates are your hands broken?

She is right you are rude and entitled. I like that she has stopped that slavery now so at least you won’t expect that she will wait on you hands and feet for the rest of her life.

Why should your brother ask when you obviously have very little sense or respect for his wife.

I do respect her bro...even before now, I do wash my plates after every meal...I do chores bro!

Peterina:
I do respect her bro...even before now, I do wash my plates after every meal...I do chores bro!

i believe ur part of the story, she is a green snake in green grass. i only pity ur brother sha.

Dyt:

Are you sure you not scoping her?

looool, funny enough, u may be right

Iranu.. common go and wash your plates yourself are you physically challenged? All those rubbish culture is fast fading out in Nigeria. We are not your slaves

Peterina:
There's this lady that my bro is about marrying after we have visited her parents for a formal intro, she spends most of her days in my bro's place.
Something transpired one fateful day,she told me I have been taken her for granted lately, prior to her complaints, we both shared things in common, our mode of interactions and level of communications both with my bro and herself were d evidence because they were so lovely back then. But now? she no longer talk to me, refuses to wash my dish after meal that's if she agree to cook,refuses to eat if I do the cooking even she won't wash anything I used for cooking. The level of the rivalry is getting to much! I don't wanna be part of it any longer! My bro noticed all these changes but he's not asking me for anything as relating to that.

@bolde.d.. What did u do to make her change this much? When u take someone for granted, it's very likely that the person will change towards you. Why are you shocked?

Bootylicious:
Iranu.. common go and wash your plates yourself are you physically challenged? All those rubbish culture is fast fading out in Nigeria. We are not your slaves

Bootylicious:
Iranu.. common go and wash your plates yourself are you physically challenged? All those rubbish culture is fast fading out in Nigeria. We are not your slaves

Lol.....finished asking her some questions just now. she said she's new to the system. We both apologized for our wrong doings. Thanks all.

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Peterina:

Lol.....finished asking her some questions just now. she said she's new to the system. We both apologized for our wrong doings. Thanks all.

Watch your back. A girlfriend (not a wife yet) who enjoys holding grudges with "her in-law to be" to the extent of avoiding his food, utensils and anything he touches in his brother's home is capable of anything.


Peace.

Acidosis:


Watch your back. A girlfriend (not a wife yet) who enjoys holding grudges with "her in-law to be" to the extent of avoiding his food, utensils and anything he touches in his brother's home is capable of anything.


Peace.

Thanks bro....

Cutehector:
looool, funny enough, u may be right

Lol....

Peterina:

Lol.....finished asking her some questions just now. she said she's new to the system. We both apologized for our wrong doings. Thanks all.

Huh?

crackhaus:
Huh?

. surprised?

Peterina:
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surprised?

She's new to which system?

She is indirectly telling you two steps forward and one step backward. Meaning be ahead and get ready to vamoose

Hmmm

crackhaus:
She's new to which system?

Marriage... so she said

jashar:
so washing plates and cleaning up after oneself is now an issue? I Give Up.

Signs of a troublesome in-law.

jashar:
so washing plates and cleaning up after oneself is now an issue? I Give Up.

Signs of a troublesome in-law.

Lol....its not what you are thinking though

Peterina:

Lol....its not what you are thinking though

Wetin you wan make I talk?

Peterina:

Marriage... so she said

Both of you are very unserious people.

crackhaus:

Both of you are very unserious people.

how? + the reason I shared it for an advice

Peterina:

how? + the reason I shared it for an advice

You expect people to clean up after you, while she won't eat the food you cook because she's new to marriage.

That's how.

crackhaus:

You expect people to clean up after you, while she won't eat the food you cook because she's new to marriage.

That's how.

lol...she ain't cleaning up for me bro.

Me I sha dunno why grown assed guy would still be squatting with his sibling

@op pls hustle more and find ur own space. After infidelity, the next thing that breaks up marriage are IN-LAWs