pet4ril:
eyaa, if it's your destiny to be with any, it must surely come to pass.
For what you said about them, you are very correct.
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KINGinVAHALA:

I would pray to God to help turn it around if it isnt my destiny. my love for ESAN as a tribe is uncomparable.

I hv elder sis. though they re both married bt til dis moment dey didnt allowed "i have a husband" to take over their thinking and hustling.

ABmaverick:
The tribe Esan disgusts me demasiado at the hearing of it.Tradition aside, they are bunch of cruel people , a worthless generation and a lot more

ABmaverick:
The tribe Esan disgusts me demasiado at the hearing of it.Tradition aside, they are bunch of cruel people , a worthless generation and a lot more

pet4ril:
i have another tribe who love them for this same reason.... Just thread carefully sha, i pray God should grant you your heart desires that are not contrary to his will in your life

KINGinVAHALA:

Which part of esan re u frm?

pet4ril:
ok, the most feared part in esan land. I believe you will know it

KINGinVAHALA:

And one of Oba's daughter got married to an esan man? Bro abeg dey try lie small small. i'm esan and i also reside in benin.

ABmaverick:
The tribe Esan disgusts me demasiado at the hearing of it.Tradition aside, they are bunch of cruel people , a worthless generation and a lot more

bokohalal:
The person did not say he was a Bini.

bokohalal:

The person did not say he was a Bini.

Young03:


u sound like an ishan bt anyways dats none of my biz

here in benin we run 4rm them

erunz:
thats why you are not Esan

am proud of my tribe.

esan oyeee

jeff1607:
Esan ladies are just too pretty too (but I fear the ladies,dare not cheat on them or face their wrath) proudly ewohimi #purebred

pet4ril:
chaiii .please remove eye because if you enter, you may disobey your parents because to let go will be a problem if you meet the one wey know wux up.
Omen, you go enter one chance be dat ooo

martha89:
its only the Benin's that beef Esan with no reason but they need to remove the log in their eyes before they start talking.

raayah:


In a civilized society, you hold the door if someone is coming behind you irregardless of thir gender. If you personally decide to hold the door for women, that's your problem, it's not a law.

Men do most of the hard work that involve strength because they are physically stronger than women. The same for jobs like nursing which are female dominated because women are more compassionate and caring than men..

It says a lot if you cannot even understand the basic biological differences between men and women.

gondon:
Greetings and thanks for this write up. Its really good for me bcoz my wife to be is from EWOHIMI and she is d best gift ever given to me..
Please i wish to know much about EWOHIMI people, as i am an IGBO guy going to marry from there.
* How do they behave generally
* How do dey welcome dia inlaws, expecially d non edo's.
* How is dia traditional wedding like, and how much can it cost to do a low key marriage dia.
My woman attends MFM and is a christain, she is d opposite of a cure benin girl; as in very nice.

PLEASE help answer these questions for me, as it will help me alot.

bokohalal:

Hehe. My wife is Esan . And my colleague and best friend is Esan

gondon:
Greetings and thanks for this write up. Its really good for me bcoz my wife to be is from EWOHIMI and she is d best gift ever given to me..
Please i wish to know much about EWOHIMI people, as i am an IGBO guy going to marry from there.
* How do they behave generally
* How do dey welcome dia inlaws, expecially d non edo's.
* How is dia traditional wedding like, and how much can it cost to do a low key marriage dia.
My woman attends MFM and is a christain, she is d opposite of a cure benin girl; as in very nice.

PLEASE help answer these questions for me, as it will help me alot.

Omon605:
1. Is a pure lie because i stays in abuja and my friends do come to visit most times and stay with us for few days. They used my wife wrapper to cover at night. Is fully accepted unless you have and interior motive. Is not forbidden in Ishian culture as you portrait

2. In Ishian once you are married nobody cares when you sleep with your wife. Anytime is allowed. No time is restricted and you are even encourage by both families to do it quick so that you can start having children, because that's the only problem I can't find in Ishian marriage. It is expected once you are married children should follow

3. Here to a large extent you are correct but no barbing of any hair and if the woman didn't confess on time she might loose her own life but for that of the children that had been revised and if the man or his suspecting the woman at all without telling his elders the man may also loose his own life. But if the man didn't know or suspect the wife in anyway he had know problem

4. If the woman confess to the husband alone without the husband family, the husband may loose his life. Once the woman confess to the husband or the husband suspected the woman at all he had to quickly alert his people and explain to them. If the woman didn't really do anything contrary she will be set free instantly and given some advice not to indulge herself in such unholy behaviour and sometimes the man will be punish for suspecting the wife. But once a woman indulge in the act and she confess and the husband still agreed to take her as his wife that's why they performed that ritual, naked the woman and takes her round the village by the women. Note : this is not a must but depending on the circumstances

5. Hmmmmmm, I understand why you missed this. Once the word cross a woman is mentioned in Ishian what everybody believe is you have slept with the woman. That's doesn't mean mere walking across a woman's legs is a taboo. You can walked across a woman's legs but you can't cross a woman (sleep)

6. That's is arm robber lie. This is just lie, if you steals your husband's money is between you and your God. Nobody cares, is not a taboo

7. Not truth at all. Anybody can sleep on your bed. Is not forbidden at all. Sometimes if the heat is too much I bring my foam outside and share with my friends. Is not forbidden if you wish to share with anybody. Fully accepted

8. Yes is forbidden if only you say it out. Is not a taboo, is just that some men used it as a means to punish their wives. No sting attached so long the man didn't announce the woman

9. I only had of this but never witness it. Even strangers bath with the same buckets th couples bath with

10. Sorry I just help you to number this. Is a lie my friend. Nobody tells you when to sleep with your during and after birth. I had a cousin whom first child is barely 11 months old and the have given birth to another baby. Am seeing some Ishian marriage attires on this your post and I believe if really you knew that couple very well it will help to provide an answer to this