Assalamu 'alaykum 'alaa manit-taba'al huda.
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Ponder, Reflect And Acts Upon This Dear Muslims Husband And #‎Share_Please_Because_Someone_Maybe_Guided_Thru_This_Advice‬.
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Being the amir of your house is not just about being the commander or inspector general of your crib, akhi, am not here to teach you how to take care of your wife, am only here to remind you about somethings you have stopped doing for her!
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Ask yourself, was this how your marriage was in its early days?
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Why has the romantic words stopped?
Why has the gifts and texts stopped?
Why has the nasheeds you do sing for her stopped?
Why has your romantic voice for her turned into a gorilla's voice stopped?
Why has the jokes and fun around the house stopped?
Why has assisting her in the kitchen stopped?
Why did you get married to your phone along d line?
With your phone, you don't need calculators, calendar, wrist watch and maps again,
But atleast don't let your phone also take you away from your wife.
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Your wife is in the kitchen holding the baby in one hand and breastfeeding him, and steering the soup with her other hand, yet you are in the parlour with your legs on the table watching film with one eyes and reading newspapers with the other eyes?
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And tomorrow you see yourself as a sunnatic husband!
When she complains that she needs your assistance in the kitchen, You'd be like: did you allow me to get a housegirl?
Why a housegirl, why don't you get a houseBOY for her and let's see if you won't have the same "fear" she has about housegirls!
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Akhi, imagine entering your matrimonial room tonight, but you are all alone in the room, the room is no longer "pink" its now "blackish" because you just finished observing your wife's janazah and you just buried her?
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Appreciate your wife NOW, for you don't know what the next one hour has to offer!

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What a moment of reflection.
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That your wife doesn't shed a phsyical tear doesn't mean she doesn't cry, the weeping of the heart is worse than the physical tear... Women are more of emotional than intellectual, she may weep internally all night and you won't even know.
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Men are more of intellectual than emotional, use your intellect to keep her happy... For she is someone's daughter, she is an "Egg", if you wouldn't want your Egg cracked, do not crack someone's Egg too!
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Many are men who come to facebook to post: "20 ways to keep your wife happy" Yet his own wife is dying for his attention at home and he is too busy for her because of "chatting"... Your wife is lying down beside you looking at you, yet you don't even know because you are busy arguing aqeedah issues on a whatsapp group the whole evening!
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Akhi, before you come to facebook to give marriage success tips, make sure your own marriage is succesful first!
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Rekindle the love in your home today, don't let your Niqabite shed another tear ever again, because a tear contains 1% water and 99% feelings... When a wife has a good husband, its easily seen on her face... When a husband has a good wife, its easily seen in his skin. #‎SubhanAllah‬.
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May Allaah rectify our homes, may Allaah make it easy for all husbands to treat their wives right. Aameen.