hello people.
I am sure majority of us are familiar with the blame tactics and its hypocritical nature in ourselves. let me use an example with myself.


I finished secondary school about 8/9 years ago and after a month I got a job in a nice company as a receptionist. I never thought that the money I was always seeing apart from my salary I could use them for something better, I was of the idea it will never end, but unfortunately I lost it all, including my salary to extravagance. The company closed up, I had to leave to find another job.
I never used my good time at the company well, I spent more time writing jamb, but never got lucky for university, I had been advised to get into an approved university that accepts ssce and awards degrees, but I never took it serious until a month when I stopped working in the company.
I never saved for rainy days, I became vulnerable, desperate , broke and depressed.

from this scenarios, who do you blame, A god, devil or me?


another one is the case of rapists, they rape children as well as women, then blame it on the devil. I keep pondering on these idiots.....
* did the devil force your body to act on your desires to penetrate the child?
* did the devil threaten to destroy your family if you don't rape?

I don't believe there is any devil , I believe we are the devils. we have this Jekyll and Hyde personality we are supposed to control unlike animals that have them some exhibit their Hyde personality without qualms. but we as humans have reasoning that is why we are higher than animals.

the man claiming to have been rich, will tell you how he used the latest cars, flexed like there was no tomorrow and how his business was booming until one uncle or witch auntie or great grandmama destroyed his life through witchcraft and confessed when he went to wonder pastor to pray for him.

note - he never talked Of saving, or investing but about how he flexed with his luxurious cars.

We need to sit down and think about ourselves and stop blaming entities, we are responsible for our actions. the mistress servicing your husband could be your fault or your Husband's, find out and stop firing prayers and fighting side chicks, make changes, talk to your husband or file a divorce, on the case of the husband you thought your desire, planned it and executed it, it wasn't the devil, if your wife is not doing what you like, talk to her, if she refuses to listen and make changes continue trying or get a divorce, life it too short to be Philandering.

you didn't pass your exams is your fault not your great auntie who is a witch from your village.

Stop the blame game and take responsibility.


Just my thoughts.