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Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by Nobody: 9:22am On Mar 21, 2016 |
dangotesmummy: Only an uncouth girl with no home training will be rude to a simple gesture of friendship from anyone. Thats why I said he should try to be friends first before anything else. Its not by force, and if he is polite then people should be polite back and he too should back off if anyone has made it clear that they dont want to be friends with him. Sagamite TV01 come and help a brother 1 Like |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by damiso(f): 11:26am On Mar 21, 2016 |
zemaye: LOL lots of good tips from others cant really add much. On the train issue it really depends on what time you travel. I tend to travel before the peak rush hour times and yes I have even made a friend who notices when I am not the train. However, after a really annoying commute to work this morning though rush hour I can feel the OP on not being in the mood for chit chat or chatting up people when travelling during peak times. Tearoses is spot on the Pure Gym bit as well. Join a gym and attend classes . Spin especially There tends to be a lot girls in Spin class and so the few bros dotted will be noticed. the girls might not be Nigerian though but you can never know If you are really bent on the Nigerian gal angle though, the surest( not necessarily the best) bet is to attend a 'Happening' Nigerian Church. 1 Like |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by Shock(m): 11:56am On Mar 21, 2016 |
damiso: What 'Happening' Nigerian churches would you recommend? I am in similar situation as the OP |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by damiso(f): 12:30pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Shock: Depending on where you live ,most of the big 'brand' ( sorry could not think another adjective) churches i.e. RCCG, Winners, Christ Embassy, House on the rock etc. would tend to have a big parish/branch. For instance in RCCG, Jesus House in Brent Cross Comes to mind, Fola Alade church in the East ( think he has left RCCG) its in Ilford or Canary Wharf not too sure. and loads of others. Personally though, I am sometimes wary of the 'happening' church hook ups. I would prefer not to expand on that so I don't come off as being judgemental. However, they do work for some people. Especially for those who are very particular about their spouses being Nigerian. 1 Like |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by Destinygrl(f): 2:16pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Mr cork is that you |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by Nobody: 4:50pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Still on the Train issue, about 70 - 80% of people in the train are always lost in their thought especially during rush hour, personally i think its a bad move damiso: 1 Like |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by Eleganza33(f): 7:17am On Mar 25, 2016 |
Nawa o |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by jaybee3(m): 1:28pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
tearoses: I'm also on the hunt Sis of life 1 Like |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by Dyt(f): 2:45pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by jaybee3(m): 2:59pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by 4nobody4every1: 3:07pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
jaybee3:
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Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by jaybee3(m): 3:09pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
4nobody4every1: Identify yaself pronto |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by 4nobody4every1: 3:17pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
[quote author=jaybee3 post=44314774] Identify yaself pronto[/quote[i]l am Bola Ahmed Tinubu, Buhari ask me to be on Nairaland to read comments and give him feed back, here is my picture
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Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by Dyt(f): 3:28pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
jaybee3: You always blaming the devil At least you didn't deny it You are forgiven Come and chop kiss |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by heo88(m): 4:52pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
Lonehenge: Bros this is very interesting because I am also 28, London based, although born and raised here and I think I understand your frustration. I am going to try to assist the best way I can. I have also been to many MBTN and NCITY events. It's mostly recycled people so it's not worth attending to find new women. In terms of improving your hitherto rate of luck, it may be worth asking yourself what your end goal is. That may seem abstract and I can deduce from your initial post that you want to get married sooner rather than later. However, if I was in your shoes I'd ask myself why do I want to get married so much? How can a women make a worthwhile contribution to my life? Etc You see the problem is most people, and this includes many of the young ladies you'll meet at such events, or even elsewhere in London, are out for what they can get. That's to say that they don't get the precept of 'quid pro quo', that is mutually beneficial relationships. Often they can give you an Economics PhD-level thesis of what they want from you, but the irony in this is that they often have little to offer themselves; not even rudiments. Even some of the latter-day 'Feminists' are only operating under this rubric so as to turn guy to mugu-maga through pseudo-intellectual manipulation. Make sure that the same standard any babe wants to hold you to, she's also willing to meet herself. If not then jog her on sharp sharp. I wish you well, but please bear in mind that you're in a good position and any women who falls from the sky may actually do more harm than good. It's imperative she's worth spending time with, otherwise it's a waste of finite resources. Please don't get frustrated with yourself as to not having cornered a babe and remember you will be a catch for many a babe. Take your time, relax and be at peace; the right babe for you will eventually come. All the best and Godspeed. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by 4nobody4every1: 5:17pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
heo88:No dull moment on Nairaland 2 Likes
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Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by heo88(m): 5:17pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
Lonehenge: Further to my initial comments, can you please tell us how you approach the ladies in question? Also, please let us know a bit more about your personality? Are you shy? Talkative? Flirtatious? etc |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by jaybee3(m): 5:31pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
For this same london wey chicks plenty, make una bone that thing jare. Get outside of your comfort Zone and explore away BTW: I worked in that same city for 13 years and chicks yapa for that side. |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by 4nobody4every1: 5:33pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
jaybee3:True
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Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by jaybee3(m): 5:38pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by Aminat508(f): 5:41pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
jaybee3: |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by jaybee3(m): 5:42pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by Aminat508(f): 5:44pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
jaybee3:lolz Ahusubillahi |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by 4nobody4every1: 5:46pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
jaybee3:l am both male/female, your very close friend, this is my picture attached as a man but l also change to become a woman every 2 weeks
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Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by jaybee3(m): 5:47pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
4nobody4every1: You scottish? |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by 4nobody4every1: 5:47pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
jaybee3:
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Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by 4nobody4every1: 5:48pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
jaybee3: |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by jaybee3(m): 5:48pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
Aminat508: I go just ask you to ruqu if you no take ya time |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by jaybee3(m): 5:50pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by Aminat508(f): 5:53pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
jaybee3:hahahahahaha lai kirun |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by 4nobody4every1: 6:07pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
[quote author=jaybee3 post=44319117] I don sabi you then Choi How many lives you get sef?[/quote[i]Na lie, Uno sabi me, l am Bola Tinubu, dont get me angry oo or else l tell Buhari and we send EFCC to London so that you can return the 900 million pounds we gave to you during the last election to mobilize voters for Buhari election |
Re: Dating Advise For A Frustrated Londoner by raumdeuter: 7:10pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
Try a Nigerian church tearoses can take you to one |
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