My hubby is still chatting and calling his ex. He claims they are discussing business, another reason he gave is that his brother needs the lady's assistance . I have told him severally I don't like it that am jealous. Since morning they have been talking... Calling each other. I complained again he got angry and stopped talking to me. I don't have my ex's phone number anymore. I don't talk with my ex. I have also told him to put himself in my shoes. If I'm the one talking and laughing with my ex.. How would he feel.

Please family... Am I over reacting? Pls I need your advice on how to handle this. What better way can I tell him I'm jealous.

ramuona:
My hubby is still chatting and calling his ex. He claims they are discussing business, another reason he gave is that his brother needs the lady's assistance . I have told him severally I don't like it that am jealous. Since morning they have been talking... Calling each other. I complained again he got angry and stopped talking to me. I don't have my ex's phone number anymore. I don't talk with my ex. I have also told him to put himself in my shoes. If I'm the one talking and laughing with my ex.. How would he feel.

Please family... Am I over reacting? Pls I need your advice on how to handle this. What better way can I tell him I'm jealous.

relax joor try and trust him if he says it's business then give him benefit of doubt he's your man now no need to feel insecure just calm down and be happy. Cheers

since he doesnt listen to you, go tell your marriage sponsor. they should be able to talk to him.

Na so e dey start oo
Later now they will scream it was temptation
If it were to be the other way round, he must have smashed the phone on the ground

These men sef
Hian

Blade21:
relax joor try and trust him if he says it's business then give him benefit of doubt he's your man now no need to feel insecure just calm down and be happy. Cheers

Ok... Thank you. So he should spend the whole day talking with her? Because is Business? Haba I'm jealous. I can't relax. I trust him but I'm jealous

He is angry that you are not trusting him.
But the main issue is that, he is self centered and your feelings matters less to him.

Truth is, he may be doing it with a clear conscience but when it's an Ex, madam your marriage is at stake.

Old flames may come alive, tell him how you feel and if he is still egoistic, then you should ignore him and call your EX too or your colleague or even me

Dyt:
Na so e dey start oo
Later now they will scream it was temptation
If it were to be the other way round, he must have smashed the phone on the ground

These men sef
Hian

Exactly! Nobody has intention to be unfaithful. But when temptation comes if you are not strong... U fall. I tire o

Secretario:
He is angry that you are not trusting him.
But the main issue is that, he is self centered and your feelings matters less to him.

Truth is, he may be doing it with a clear conscience but when it's an Ex, madam your marriage is at stake.

Old flames may come alive, tell him how you feel and if he is still egoistic, then you should ignore him and call your EX too or your colleague or even me

thank you.

ramuona:

Exactly! Nobody has intention to be unfaithful. But when temptation comes if you are not strong... U fall. I tire o

All day chatting?
Na wa
Which kain business for Sunday
Before you know it now, he will come home late
They will start extending chats

I am a jealous woman too so I can relate to what you are feeling
Go tell him you not cool with it
What nonsense is that

Abi you sef form chatting and laughing out loud with someone

ramuona:


Ok... Thank you. So he should spend the whole day talking with her? Because is Business? Haba I'm jealous. I can't relax. I trust him but I'm jealous

lol at least you can over hear their discussion a whole day plenty sha hmm

If it's business then tell him to be professional about it. Please don't pick a fight with him or argue with him, just follow him up with wisdom else he'll start seeing you as a nagging wife. Don't even think of doing same by calling your ex, focus on building your home. God will help and guide you.

Pumpkin34:
If it's business then tell him to be professional about it. Please don't pick a fight with him or argue with him, just follow him up with wisdom else he'll start seeing you as a nagging wife. Don't even think of doing same by calling your ex, focus on building your home. God will help and guide you.

Ok thank you

Blade21:
relax joor try and trust him if he says it's business then give him benefit of doubt he's your man now no need to feel insecure just calm down and be happy. Cheers

easy to say when you are not wearing the shoes.

you could trust your husband, what about the ex?

ramuona:
My hubby is still chatting and calling his ex. He claims they are discussing business, another reason he gave is that his brother needs the lady's assistance . I have told him severally I don't like it that am jealous. Since morning they have been talking... Calling each other. I complained again he got angry and stopped talking to me. I don't have my ex's phone number anymore. I don't talk with my ex. I have also told him to put himself in my shoes. If I'm the one talking and laughing with my ex.. How would he feel.

Please family... Am I over reacting? Pls I need your advice on how to handle this. What better way can I tell him I'm jealous.

if we understand you clearly, just because YOU dont have any contacts with your ex, means that your husband shouldnt have any with his?

what is your issue really? if he says they have business dealings then let him show that to you. or shoudnt he go into any profitable business with her simply because you low self esteem cant handle it?!

An ex is always an EX....Mayb he stil.loves the lady and there might be somethings he hasn't found in you which is in the Ex...Show him More Love...and I pray he overcome the desire 4 her....











Cos I have an Ex who is married but stil cals nd check on me.....

Dyt small small o

Don't hit your head on coconut tree


Ahen Op this id for you from Tony

MRBrownJ:


if we understand you clearly, just because YOU dont have any contacts with your ex, means that your husband shouldnt have any with his?

what is your issue really? if he says they have business dealings then let him show that to you. or shoudnt he go into any profitable business with her simply because you low self esteem cant handle it?!

My issue is that I'm naturally jealous. Why do business with her? Since September last year.. Business I have not seen.. Or heard the business name. He can do business but not talking and chatting all the time. If I'm talking to him he will be busy chatting with her.... If I come close he hides his phone.
My issue is not self esteem... My issue is that I'm jealous they talk all the time + laughing too (to my hearing .. Even in mid night. She calls him

fatymore:
An ex is always an EX....Mayb he stil.loves the lady and there might be somethings he hasn't found in you which is in the Ex...Show him Love...and I pray he overcome the desire 4 her....











Cos I have an Ex who is married but stil cals nd check on me.....

The only thing she has now that I don't have now is money. She's from a wealthy home. She's very rich. I'm not a house wife. I work in one of the telecoms as a CCR. Maybe I'm over reacting... Mayb he wants to make money through her... But I don't like the fact that they stil talk. I have not even heard them mention money or business idea in their discussion. When I come close he goes outside to continue the call (that the network is bad)

ramuona:


My issue is that I'm naturally jealous. Why do business with her? Since September last year.. Business I have not seen.. Or heard the business name. He can do business but not talking and chatting all the time. If I'm talking to him he will be busy chatting with her.... If I come close he hides his phone.
My issue is not self esteem... My issue is that I'm jealous they talk all the time + laughing too (to my hearing .. Even in mid night. She calls him

Haaaa
Since September
My dear
Wonti gbe nkan gba eyin e
Dem don dey carry something behind you
Mogbe modaran
.
These men are just polygamous in nature
Hianus

ramuona:

The only thing she has now that I don't have now is money. She's from a wealthy home. She's very rich. I'm not a house wife. I work in one of the telecoms as a CCR. Maybe I'm over reacting... Mayb he wants to make money through her... But I don't like the fact that they stil talk. I have not even heard them mention money or business idea in their discussion. When I come close he goes outside to continue the call (that the network is bad)

madam I feel your pain.what you feel is natural.you feel oppressed and afraid she has money and with that she can win your hubby over.my advice,ignore your hubby whenever he starts the madness. be a good wife and face front.you can get the numbers of your ex tru many platform.social media and start doing your thing too.he is a useless man and lacks respect for you.

Send me your number, by the time I'm through talking to you on phone, his mindset and conscience would come back to life.

Acidosis:
Send me your number, by the time I'm through talking to you on phone, his mindset and conscience would come back to life.

hahaha he's around wahala

Your not overreacting, your just trying to protect what is yours. Sometimes i wonder what the ex-girlfriend is doing properly that the wife is not. You just have to sit him down and still talk to him. If it doesn't work, try and focus your thoughts on what will make u happy and think less of him. Try watch a movie called - War Room. It focus was on how marriage can work with God.

Acidosis:
Send me your number, by the time I'm through talking to you on phone, his mindset and conscience would come back to life.

Mr counsellor

Acidosis:
Send me your number, by the time I'm through talking to you on phone, his mindset and conscience would come back to life.

I like that

ramuona:

The only thing she has now that I don't have now is money. She's from a wealthy home. She's very rich. I'm not a house wife. I work in one of the telecoms as a CCR. Maybe I'm over reacting... Mayb he wants to make money through her... But I don't like the fact that they stil talk. I have not even heard them mention money or business idea in their discussion. When I come close he goes outside to continue the call (that the network is bad)

uhm....all I have to say is...do everything possible to make him forget this Ex.
I pray the Ex get married soon to give u peace of mind..some Ex are thorn in the flesh...since they can't have him..they won't allow the other woman to enjoy him

May God save us from the Ex that won't move to the Next

ok business ryt bedroom business huh

Bull sh*t making marriage as a golden ticket on life

Find wat makes u happy dont let one guy who is having d time of his life to make u suffer

See go and cheat too b happy marriage is just a sham not real its an illusion

omoiseselagba:
madam I feel your pain.what you feel is natural.you feel oppressed and afraid she has money and with that she can win your hubby over.my advice,ignore your hubby whenever he starts the madness. be a good wife and face front.you can get the numbers of your ex tru many platform.social media and start doing your thing too.he is a useless man and lacks respect for you.

Gbam!

fatymore:
uhm....all I have to say is...do everything possible to make him forget this Ex.
I pray the Ex get married soon to give u peace of mind..some Ex are thorn in the flesh...since they can't have him..they won't allow the other woman to enjoy him

May God save us from the Ex that won't move to the Next

Marry ke? Marriage doesn't change anything o. My hubby exes at least three I know are married. And they still talk and chat. Sometimes it is a coincidence they call at home but hubby doesn't give room for them to call at home. He talks with them while he is at work and delete all the logs and chat before coming home.

I think the solution is that since he is showing outright disrespect to you, you have to talk to him that business should end in official hours. He shouldn't bring the calls home.

If we start putting ourselves in other people's shoe, the world will be a better place. Some men don't want to do that because they see themselves superior to women.

The key is choose right and endeavour to pray.

mylove4him:

Marry ke? Marriage doesn't change anything o. My hubby exes at least three I know are married. And they still talk and chat. Sometimes it is a coincidence they call at home but hubby doesn't give room for them to call at home. He talks with them while he is at work and delete all the logs and chat before coming home.

I think the solution is that since he is showing outright disrespect to you, you have to talk to him that business should end in official hours. He shouldn't bring the calls home.

If we start putting ourselves in other people's shoe, the world will be a better place. Some men don't want to do that because they see themselves superior to women.

The key is choose right and endeavour to pray.

Atleast if she get married.....she will start losing interest...and I pray she does....We ladies are our own worst enemies..obinrin lota obinrin

fatymore:
Atleast if she get married.....she will start losing interest...and I pray she does....We ladies are our own worst enemies..obinrin lota obinrin

Pray o that she married that the one she is happy with. Cos na so her hubby go turn to marriage counsellor. Yes o we are our worst enemy.

If tables were turned. That lady wouldn't take it from her hubby. May God help us.