Marriage is a scam...

It is a legalized way of hurting someone. Its a way of saying "we are here now so Bleep u and Bleep ur feelings too". Its rare to see happy couples these days.I grew up in the most loving and beautiful home ever where the man protects the woman and takes care of the children and this made me love the feeling called love. I wanted a home like that where someone would treat me with so much care,respect me and love me endlessly..buh wah i have gotten in return are pain..endless pain and emotional torture,where i have to always look behind me for fear that an unknown girl may spring out of the blue and snatch my man away because that's wah relationships have made me into. I read a post recently about a contentious woman and it describes me in a way.. You see,a woman wouldn't wake up one morning and decide to give her husband stress,a normal woman wouldnt look for trouble in a peaceful home unless the man does wah she has asked him not to do. i love my bf so much,when he came into my life,he came as a saint and made me believe he was my dream come true,my hopes were high,same with my trust and love,until he cheated the first time..nonetheless i still loved and forgave him and then he cheated again..and again..and condom disappeared from the house and a particular 'long time friend kept on calling and calling to check up on him' and even paid him a visit at night once...i got tired of bin reasonable and rather became contentious, i nagged and nagged and cried until I got tired. All i am trying to say from my post is that
1) if as a person you act right and treat your spouse as you would want them to treat you,then no normal human being will wake up one day and decide to nag for no reason. No one is asking you to not keep friends nor hang out nor do whatever it is you wanna do but do everything appropriately.
2) A person will only keep complaining cos you keep doing wah is hurting them,if you do things the right way,then there will be little or no contentiousness from her.

if u not ready to be in a relationship or face a man with all the things that comes with it, then you should keep to yourself, or better still become gay.... .. Nonsense...


when u all have slept with all kind of men and prostituted the way u want (in the name of runs) u come back to search for a young cool guy with prospects to stick with, and expect him to stay just with you.... Hopeless things....


men please be very careful, women are not worth it at all, they are all hopeless creations, God used in bringing Woe to men...

WOEMEN

Rightly said, but ur only on relationship level and u are complaining wait until u enter marriage it is really a scam, it will indeed Mar u and rage u

PaulKillerman:
if u not ready to be in a relationship or face a man with all the things that comes with it, then you should keep to yourself, or better still become a gay.... .. Nonsense...


when u all have slept with all kind of men and prostituted the way u want (in the name of runs) u come back to search for a young cool guy with prospects to stick with, and expect him to stay justvwith you.... Hopeless things....


men please be very careful, women are not worth it at all, they are all hopeless creations, God use in bringing Woe to men...

WOEMEN

Chai chisosu! This one is finished, who did this to u, women have finished all ur heart and u are now heartless. Sorry my brother

Who are these people?

PaulKillerman:
[s][/s]if u not ready to be in a relationship or face a man with all the things that comes with it, then you should keep to yourself, or better still become gay.... .. Nonsense...


when u all have slept with all kind of men and prostituted the way u want (in the name of runs) u come back to search for a young cool guy with prospects to stick with, and expect him to stay just with you.... Hopeless things....


men please be very careful, women are not worth it at all, they are all hopeless creations, God used in bringing Woe to men...

WOEMEN[s][/s]

Lord have mercy, why this bitterness na, she is only expressing herself, why the venom? open your own thread and express yourself too if you like no need for this

Are you for real like seriously? mine is not a scam ooo

because u av a failed marriage doesn't mean others are nt enjoyin theirs.

Go get a life ashi

You don't have a husband, you are saying marriage is a scam.... Pack well make we see Road.

;DJust passing by

Martijez you should never marry any guy that has cheated on you twice in courtship.... Understand he's not yours

We are polygamous in nature. sorry baby. even for Bible men married more than one. it's in us


I have a neighbor not too close to him. his wife has 3 kids, he has 2 other baby mamas. and he doesn't hide it oh. the wife is not even complaining.



funny situation.

Op is still hurting due her unfaithful boyfriend. but it's what it is. and sex is so cheap this days.

Naija men cheat. Even the ones you least expect will just surprise you like

If you carry man matter for head, u go just old.

PaulKillerman:
if u not ready to be in a relationship or face a man with all the things that comes with it, then you should keep to yourself, or better still become gay.... .. Nonsense...


when u all have slept with all kind of men and prostituted the way u want (in the name of runs) u come back to search for a young cool guy with prospects to stick with, and expect him to stay just with you.... Hopeless things....


men please be very careful, women are not worth it at all, they are all hopeless creations, God used in bringing Woe to men...

WOEMEN

when you live a life were you're always paying for sex or looking for prostitutes with big azz, it's difficult to think there women who are decent.

Nothing to say dear

PaulKillerman:
if u not ready to be in a relationship or face a man with all the things that comes with it, then you should keep to yourself, or better still become gay.... .. Nonsense...


when u all have slept with all kind of men and prostituted the way u want (in the name of runs) u come back to search for a young cool guy with prospects to stick with, and expect him to stay just with you.... Hopeless things....


men please be very careful, women are not worth it at all, they are all hopeless creations, God used in bringing Woe to men...

WOEMEN