I am guilty of this too. It only makes feel concern when I saw it happen between my friend and his wife. I really don't know the cause of their quarrel. But my friend simply said all women are the same. They answer 'yes sir' to a man who is not up to their husbands in the office yet they find it difficult to accord their husbands such honour. Although my friend is a big oga in the company I work for. Friends I want your honest opinion.

This is the more reason why I will never work for anyone as soon as I'm married, if my husband can't support me in opening up my own business, den I'll rather stay at home ( personally with or without his help, I'll find a way out on being my own boss) coz I can't answer sir to any man out there when my husband is there. As for the insults, it comes naturally as long as ur bleeping yourselves, U've known yourselves in and out, married or not, it only takes an exceptionally matured minded woman not to insult at the slightest provocation.

SexyStrawberry:
This is the more reason why I will never work for anyone as soon as I'm married, if my husband can't support me in opening up my own business, den I'll rather stay at home ( personally with or without his help, I'll find a way out on being my own boss) coz I can't answer sir to any man out there when my husband is there. As for the insults, it comes naturally as long as ur bleeping yourselves, U've known yourselves in and out, married or not, it only takes an exceptionally matured minded woman not to insult at the slightest provocation.

Seriously?
So it's perfectly normal for women to throw insults Eh?
#learnedsomethingnew

People pigeonhole other people because it is easy to do so. This is the nicest way to explain it, I guess.

What exactly is the problem here? The man wants to be referred to as Sir or what? Or his wife completely lacks respect for him? I really don't get your point OP.

byvan03:
What exactly is the problem here? The man wants to be referred to as Sir or what? Or his wife completely lacks respect for him? I really don't get your point OP.

It looks more like a prophet not been regarded by his people but his people regarding lesser prophet abroad.

ascek:

It looks more like a prophet not been regarded by his people but his people regarding lesser prophet abroad.

What type of recognition is the prophet seeking? Can you elaborate? What actions make him feel he isn't acknowledged?

byvan03:




What type of recognition is the prophet seeking? Can you elaborate? What actions make him feel he isn't acknowledged?

Very seriously, that's my interpretation of what he told me. I was with them and in a little while the wife left. It was obvious that there was a quarrel. I never asked what happened but the man just told me all women are the same. They will answer yes sir to someone who is not up to their husbands in the office and will not accord there husband same. At least you can give it your own interpretation. Though I never asked him what the problem was.

ascek:


Very seriously, that's my interpretation of what he told me. I was with them and in a little while the wife left. It was obvious that there was a quarrel. I never asked what happened but the man just told me all women are the same. They will answer yes sir to someone who is not up to their husbands in the office and will not accord there husband same. At least you can give it your own interpretation. Though I never asked him what the problem was.

When a man speaks in parables to his friend, chances are he is the offender. He has no case, so they always dismiss their own faults with the usual" all women are the same ".

byvan03:




When a man speaks in parables to his friend, chances are he is the offender. He has no case, so they always dismiss their own faults with the usual" all women are the same ".

You got me laughing there. You are quite right.

SexyStrawberry:
This is the more reason why I will never work for anyone as soon as I'm married, if my husband can't support me in opening up my own business, den I'll rather stay at home ( personally with or without his help, I'll find a way out on being my own boss) coz I can't answer sir to any man out there when my husband is there. As for the insults, it comes naturally as long as ur furking yourselves , U've known yourselves in and out, married or not, it only takes an exceptionally matured minded woman not to insult at the slightest provocation.

so... having sex is a gateway for insults and lack of respect between husband and wife ? really ? it comes naturally?

byvan03:
What exactly is the problem here? The man wants to be referred to as Sir or what? Or his wife completely lacks respect for him? I really don't get your point OP.

Obviously she lacks respect for him... She wasn't well brought up...
He has entered one chance gbam

duduade:


Obviously she lacks respect for him... She wasn't well brought up...
He has entered one chance gbam

Well I don't think that's the point. I think that the more intimate the husband and wife gets the lesser the show of respect.. This is not because the woman is disrespectful, take for instance, you know each others secret, pray togeda, eat together, have fun together etc, there tends to be carefree attitudes towards each other.. If you really wanna know if a woman respects her hubby, let a fellow woman insult him and then watch her reaction..







moreso, who wants respect when its time to get down low, not so romantic if you ask me.