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If Tiwa Had Known This... by jerrydelight(m): 10:35am On Apr 30, 2016 |
I overheard a woman in her early 60s complaining about her husband accusing her of infidelity after over 35 years of marriage. To her it was surprising that her husband would level such accusation on her at this her age where there is no "Juice" (in her words) left in her. It pained her that when her husband was been transferred in his workplace from one state to the other, being absent from her for over a year she remained faithful to him, as well as when he ignored her and went after other women, beats her up etc. That after all she has endured in their over 35years of marriage the best her husband would do was to accuse her of infidelity. I believe this is exactly the kind of pain African Music Diva " Tiwa Savage" is currently suffering from, considering all that she had borne for the success of her marriage with " TeeBillz" only to be accused of infidelity. Though It wasn't any of my business but I had to ponder on the issue and I came to understand that Men that often accuse their faithful wives of infidelity are usually those been devoured by the guilt of their inability to love / care for their wives as they ought to. They, totally aware of the things that makes their wives happy and not able to do them, yet find their wives happy, presume that another man must be responsible for their happiness. This presumption is what leads them to accuse their wives of infidelity. If you have been faithful to your husband as a wife despite all unfair treatments from him and he is accusing you of unfaithfulness, don't let it bother you. He is just feeling guilty for not loving / caring for you as a husband should. If he is reasonable, talk to him; tell him you have forgiven him. I believe it will help him overcome his guilt, withdraw his accusations and appreciate the sacrifices you have made for your marriage and ... you know the rest. If Tiwa had known this and Teebillz been reasonable, the unfortunate end of the marriage would have been prevented. www.ehijeremiah..com/2016/04/handling-accusations-of-infidelity-in.html 1 Like
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Re: If Tiwa Had Known This... by delishpot: 10:47am On Apr 30, 2016 |
Well, to many Naija men, marriages are to be endured not enjoyed. |
Re: If Tiwa Had Known This... by jerrydelight(m): 11:03am On Apr 30, 2016 |
delishpot: well in reality that is a wrong order. marriage is meant to be enjoyed with endurance and tolerance. www.ehijeremiah..com/2015/08/it-is-widely-accepted-that-marriage-is.html 1 Like |
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