Sometimes I'm left wondering if this people are like my real parents, paying all others waec fees and when it gets to my turn no money but there is money to put me in a place to learn a trade, and when I told her am not learning she forced me to, two years n I finally summoned courage to quit being a slave to a tribalist and she is angry goes out telling her friends how useless I am for not doing what she says, I'm now a laughing stock in d family's front and she doesn't even show remorse at all I'm left wondering if she truly gave birth to me. I'm sick n tired of it I think I would just end it all.

Sorry dear

Sorry dear, some mothers do have them. You don't have to end it all. Good things come to those who strive hard for success. Try and commit yourself to making it in life by setting a goal that you will pursue earnestly without giving a damn as to whether people believe in you or not. Help your self with some devotion and prayers and before you know it the once rejected stone will be the head corner stone. Be strong and the sky will be your limit....may the good Lord bless your hustles.

NB: Don't hate her !

There mst be 1 person u re close 2 btwn ur mum nd dad, i wil advis u talk 2d one u re more close 2, nd if d situation stil remain dsame then involve third partie, i mean ur region leader, pastor or imam.

They don't want you to go to school, why?

I'm trying bro but its really hard

deathmen12:
There mst be 1 person u re close 2 btwn ur mum nd dad, i wil advis u talk 2d one u re more close 2, nd if d situation stil remain dsame then involve third partie, i mean ur region leader, pastor or imam.

me and my dad barely talk and my mum who I thought I had a bond with is making me angry, I'm somewhat an atheist so I don't really hv a religious person to turn to.

Dayvhid:
Sometimes I'm left wondering if this people are like my real parents, paying all others waec fees and when it gets to my turn no money but there is money to put me in a place to learn a trade, and when I told her am not learning she forced me to, two years n I finally summoned courage to quit being a slave to a tribalist and she is angry goes out telling her friends how useless I am for not doing what she says, I'm now a laughing stock in d family's front and she doesn't even show remorse at all I'm left wondering if she truly gave birth to me. I'm sick n tired of it I think I would just end it all.

My friend, if your parent ain't ready to see you through school, hustle and pay yourself through it na. I did same and I am very proud of myself now. I owe no one except God my success.

If you end it all, then you are a very big coward.

Come to think of it, your parent might not really have at the moment, so chill!

kolinz:
They don't want you to go to school, why?

she feels my elder ones should be in school first, but recently its like she does not even want me to school,she's angry I left d handwork she forced on me.

Tundeiab:


My friend, if your parent ain't ready to see you through school, hustle and pay yourself through it na. I did same and I am very proud of myself now. I owe no one except God my success.

If you end it all, then you are a very big coward.

Come to think of it, your parent might not really have at the moment, so chill!

I find that hard to believe, she has the money to pay for every one else but when it comes to my turn there's no money right from my common entrance till senior waec.

Our african parents do mst things 4 one reason or the other, bcs every parents want the best for children bt in dis ur case ther is sumtin ur parents is nt teln u...i wld have refer to prayer bt since u dnt believ, it wil be hard 4me 2 advs u.

Dayvhid:

me and my dad barely talk and my mum who I thought I had a bond with is making me angry, I'm somewhat an atheist so I don't really hv a religious person to turn to.

deathmen12:
Our african parents do mst things 4 one reason or the other, bcs every parents want the best for children bt in dis ur case ther is sumtin ur parents is nt teln u...i wld have refer to prayer bt since u dnt believ, it wil be hard 4me 2 advs u.

Thanks for d little bro I appreciate ur time.

Wlcm...jst be strng, wit them or without them u can achieve ur dreams in life, jst stay focus and work hard...u wil get ther

Dayvhid:

Thanks for d little bro I appreciate ur time.

Dayvhid:

she feels my elder ones should be in school first, but recently its like she does not even want me to school,she's angry I left d handwork she forced on me.

Y not grab the hand work first then you can proceed to school later.

You see you sound "off" to me?

I missed if you are a guy or lady.
Now let me tell you this and I wish I could say it directly to your face...

What if you had no parents?

"May the universe forbid"

What if your parents are poor and can't afford anything?

"May the universe forbid"

Wake up today,thank your stars for waking up,
then go out and hustle for your G.C.E forms for Nov/Dec.

I need those forms by the first week of registration.

Am not giving you an option, it is mandatory.

Up you go!
Have fun and keep an open mind with your folks they are shaping you into a great man/lady
Great you!

Dayvhid:
Sometimes I'm left wondering if this people are like my real parents, paying all others waec fees and when it gets to my turn no money but there is money to put me in a place to learn a trade, and when I told her am not learning she forced me to, two years n I finally summoned courage to quit being a slave to a tribalist and she is angry goes out telling her friends how useless I am for not doing what she says, I'm now a laughing stock in d family's front and she doesn't even show remorse at all I'm left wondering if she truly gave birth to me. I'm sick n tired of it I think I would just end it all.

Bro, how old are you? Are you still young?
If so LEARN A TRADE. Fvck school, you're just going to give all your money to the school in return you get a nicely desined A4 paper with a seal. Learn that trade bro, learn a couple of more trades that can fetch you money, then save (keep saving till you can fund yourself through school) i just want you to have a skill before going to school, i wish i did this before gaining admission. Just learn the trade bro with a cool head. You'll be alright.

GodnGold:
You see you sound "off" to me?

I missed if you are a guy or lady

thanks bro the g.c.e form is not a problem, the problem is if I eventually gain admission who is going to help me with the other payments, and am a guy.

Dudeweedlmao:


Bro, how old are you? Are you still young?
Just learn the trade bro with a cool head. .

I'm still young buti don't want to learn the one she is forcing on me, and if when I told her I want to learn something else she insisted I paid with my money.

Dayvhid:

I'm still young buti don't want to learn the one she is forcing on me, and if when I told her I want to learn something else she insisted I paid with my money.

How then do you get the money to learn another trade? do you have savings? Do you have spare cash lying around?
If not, just do this one for the mean time, and then after that you can change trade, who knows if you are very serious and dedicated with this one, your mom my consider helping you with the money to switch trades.

let her wickedness Be Your strength.

Have u asked urself what if truly your parents cannot afford to send you to school now? Young man don't be selfish, you might even make it in that trade than when you go to the university, don't make things harder for your parents, no parent would not want to take care of their kids to any length except if the means are not there.
Try and focus on that trade, put ur whole heart there, you might even contribute in the school fees of your siblings if you are doing well. Nobody hates you, they are doing what they feel is the best for u, don't miss the opportunity.

Dayvhid:

thanks bro the g.c.e form is not a problem, the problem is if I eventually gain admission who is going to help me with the other payments, and am a guy.

When you get to that bridge,you will cross it.

Worry less,once there is life Dave,there is hope.

Let's take the first step now,shall we?

Have a splendid day!

Your parents owe you nothing.

If they train you to university level as you desire, you are lucky. If they don't train you, but choose to send you to learn a trade, it's because they've figured out that they wouldn't be able to see you through the university, so they sent you to learn a trade, so that you can push yourself forward from there.

Don't be restive. Determine to succeed.